The muscle I pulled ran into my butt... so he was working around there anyway. The "slide" south and the offer were about simultaneous... Honest! 
So, this was a little awkward...
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What was his response when you handed him the envelope?? lolThe muscle I pulled ran into my butt... so he was working around there anyway. The "slide" south and the offer were about simultaneous... Honest!
No kidding? The OP never said it was RMT. And I doubt very much that it was a RMT. When you go to a RMT, you don't get the extras. When you go to a massage therapist, he/she has got to do what it takes to get repeat business.
Well that explains it. He must be looking for a sugar daddy.Well as tempting as it was...
Honestly, he caught me off guard, since everything was very "normal" up to that point. I'm not at all homophobic, even enjoy the odd MFM now and again, but I just wasn't in the mood regardless. He did give a very good massage, but I'm not sure I'd go back.
Never thought of that.... Let's see... I'm mid 50s, and flabby. The guy at work is about 32 and a jock....
It turned out he was not an RMT... I kinda figured that out when I got to the condo. He called himself a "sports therapist"... Good massage regardless
That's a hilarious story. I totally pictured the "it moved" episode from Seinfeld.
If the massage was decent and you've drawn a line no reason you can't go back. Please post what happens when you talk to your friend his recommendation!
I don't think AR is strictly an RMT thing. A lot of people can be certified in it.
If the massage was decent and you've drawn a line no reason you can't go back. Please post what happens when you talk to your friend his recommendation!
I don't think AR is strictly an RMT thing. A lot of people can be certified in it.
I think you handled it well. It was all behind close doors. He offered you a release and you declined. It's over. Unless you think you caught "teh ghey".
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Next time you see him...talk about it...he seems to think it ok.....so I would discuss it in front of others...tell him what went on...how YOU declined.....and ask why he sent you there.!!!
Thats fricken disgusting!!!
Thats fricken disgusting!!!
LOL... At the risk of exposing myself to "I see a pattern" comments, I once stopped into a little bar downtown after a conference for a pre-bed pint. I was attracted to the piano playing coming out of the place. I sat at the bar and it was obvious that the bar tender was gay, but as my eyes got used to the light, it was pretty apparent it was a gay bar.
I had my beer, then another. The piano player was very entertaining (in an Elton John kinda way) and when I left an hour or so later, not a single guy had hit on me. I was relieved at first, but ever since that night, I've wondered what's wrong with my ass!
On the way out, I noticed the name of the place. I guess "Zippers" should have been a clue, but I don't get out much...
No Homo. But close. Twice.
I think it's entirely possible that I was punked by the guy at work. The more I have thought about it, I really don't think he's inclined that way. So either he was never propositioned so didn't know, or was propositioned and thought he was unique, AND thought that I might be interested in a little something extra. Crap. I think I'll just call in sick tomorrow. Maybe I get catch The Ghey.
If this guy attempts the same routine to most athletes, he'll end up a cripple. Your reaction on an unsolicited reach around by a guy is no different then you doing an unsolicited reach around on a female co-worker. Fortunately he asked and you gracefully declined.
As to the co-worker - who cares what his story is - it's his business. I 'd simply recommend that you say your back feels better, thanks but I prefer my own physical therapist.
No way ! Think about it. If you were a professional, would you risk your reputation because a friend wanted to have a joke with a coworker you don't know ? And if you weren't gay or bi and the guy says 'sure' before he flips over with his hard on - then what ?
Just tell your co worker it was a regular massage, and ask what he meant by active release because nothing unusual happened during your massage.
I think you need to get even with him. Send him to your girl rmt and tell him that she'll treat him great if he only tells her exactly what to do in the most graphic way.
Try "It was a great but I was uncomfortable being massaged by a guy."
Let your work friend wonder if what you said is true or if you're just hiding the fact that you wanted some hot greasy man love.
