I'm not blaming the victims here. But...
Anytime you start a statement with "I'm not blaming the victim but..." just stop. It ain't going to end well. The second half can only be something that blames the victim. In fact... PROTIP: whenever you start any statement with "I am not advocating X, but..." you are, sure as fuck, about to advocate X. (citation: every racist, homophobe, misogynist or dumbfuck that ever opened his mouth to opine and attempt to justify their shitty views)
I'm in the camp that though the actresses are "victims" of being hacked, they allowed it to happen by being careless.
When you park your car, you lock the door.
When you leave your house, you lock it up, maybe even set an alarm.
If you have nude photos of yourself on "the cloud", and you're a beautiful celebrity, you're asking to be ripped off.
You forgot a couple:
If you are going out in public and don't want to be raped, don't dress like a slut.
If you are going out for a night with friends and don't want to be raped, just stay sober.
If you are going out and don't want to get mugged, leave you money and wallet at home.
In fact, if you don't want any trouble, just stay at home. Always.
If you do any of the above, and something happens, then you too get to have scare quotes around the word "victim".
What is wrong here are two things.
Theft is wrong.
Not taking personal responsibility for ones actions is another.
Making false equivalencies is a third. Speaking of which...
And yet, wasn't it you that stated so ardently not that long ago that sexuality and nudity be damned, you'd be proud to take your future children to the Pride Parade? What is that, if not exposing too much too soon? Man, some people have a hard time being consistent with their social opinions and arguments.
Because choosing to take your kids to a celebration where -the horror! - if you look real long and carefully at the throngs of celebrants you might see a banana sling or even a flapping doodle on an over-exuberant man voluntarily shaking his shakey thing is EXACTLY the same thing as showing your kids a stolen vaginal penetration pic or facial cumshot of their favourite Disney TV starlet. Riiiight. Your "philosophical" arguments are philosophical only insofar as they demonstrate common logical fallacies and shoddy thinking.