Part of karma. Don't expect any favor when you are doing someone else a favor.
SP’a asking for money advances in the promise of future sessions
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This.
Same happened to me with this girl at the peak of her popularity too.
Never do it.
Ever.
Even if the lady has been around for years, you never know.
They will give you the "I'm not gonna risk my lively hood or reputation over X $$""
You never know.
Honestly so many white knights will show up to defend them if you expose them for doing it, that it doesn't hurt their reputation if they do scam you.
In terms of "SP’s asking for money advances in the promise of future sessions", I've only done this once. An SP who was looking for money on a deposit on a new place, so she put a "prepay with a discount" offer on Twitter that I arranged over DMs and finalized with ETransfer. She was someone I hadn't seen but I was following on Twitter for a while, she is established (worked in both agencies and independently, history of Twitter use and unique pictures, history of reviews), she is pretty, and the date was fun (I ended up missing one of my favourite parts of a date, but she help unlocked another fetish of mine in return that I didn't even know I had, so good date overall).
I have prepaid 2 other SPs who I've seen multiple times and trust (though these prepays I asked ahead of time on my own instead of the SP asking), and already had one of those amazing dates, and I'm still trying to figure out time for the last date (school and covid are a pain to work around).
I have prepaid 2 other SPs who I've seen multiple times and trust (though these prepays I asked ahead of time on my own instead of the SP asking), and already had one of those amazing dates, and I'm still trying to figure out time for the last date (school and covid are a pain to work around).
I was on the facebook of a very popular stripper. She was begging for money for some home repair and one of her friend told her that paying your own bills was part of being an adult. Not sure if he knew her profession [she told me to be discrete] but still.
I am saddened that anyone would even consider playing along, even if it did work out, the risks are too much and it is a pretty questionable request.
They are not actually your friends and if you got in trouble, 90+ percent of the time it would be so sad good bye to you. Pretty one sided to throw money like that.
I am saddened that anyone would even consider playing along, even if it did work out, the risks are too much and it is a pretty questionable request.
They are not actually your friends and if you got in trouble, 90+ percent of the time it would be so sad good bye to you. Pretty one sided to throw money like that.
It wouldn't be too smart to just hand over money to someone even if you know them. Girls try this with other girls too, and most girls wouldn't fall for it. We've heard all of the excuses.
You have to ask yourself, if one of your own coworkers asked you to lend them money, would you do it? I don't mean your coworker in the same department as you, but someone who is just an acquaintance in another department down the hall?
From experience ...
On the onset of the pandemic when everything shutdown, I felt bad for my regular gal so sent her some money as a deposit for future sessions. Yes, I did get to have those sessions months later but it wasn't the same. Think about it, SP got the money months ago and spent it. Now she has to service you a number of times without getting compensated anymore? Those next 4 sessions were rushed and I actually felt a little guilty not paying at the time of our dates so I gave her gifts and tips. Would I do it again? Yes if it were just as a 'gift' to help her out but not as pre-payment for dates
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It's like paying the contractor before the job is done.
In April/20 my regular was short on cash with no idea if her club was reopening so I gifted her a sum of money to pay her bills. I told her straight I wouldn’t expect it back. Times were weird, the world was shutting down, everyone was unsure of things. She insisted that when she was working again she would repay. Well, she’s back at work, we have had some nice sessions but there was never any mention of the money I gave her and always an air of awkwardness when it is time to pay her. Ugh.
normally I myself would never pay up front but I am aware of at least one SP who mid-pandemic asked multiple ppl and received $$ up front and then she did provide more generous sessions later (extra hr or so). Apparently mostly they were not brand new clients, so there was quite a bit of trust. So you never know.
What's a splenda baby? A rinser?I think it would depend on the relationship and level of generosity. As far as SPS go. Maybe a “sugar baby”. Would be different. Or in some cases a “Splenda Baby”
Amen
Some times we are lucky to connect with a provider and are able to experience some memorable times together but at the end of the day, we are just professional contacts and the SP can choose to turn off contact and resume her personal private life until she's ready to go back to work. Once you realize that you aren't part of her civie life then life becomes more drama free 
Glad things had worked out for you.
I did a couple of pre-paid sessions at the beginning of the pandemic with a few MAs when the spas were closed.
Sessions were held at airbnbs, so without the spa restrictions which were a welcome surprise for me.
