SP’s who get preg from clients
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Even for future college tuition? The obligation includes a RESP too? When does support legally end? (Not that it's an issue for me).
Lol, I love how the men here are more concerned with the financial burdon of this than the fact they made a human being that is their CHILD, but moooooving on....
I'm not a lawyer, so I'm not sure about every nitty gritty detail of the legalities of this, but I do know the Canadian legal system views you as a FATHER of a CHILD and are therefore responsible of taking care of it at least in some financial capacity. This includes current/retroactive child support and yes tuition if the court views you able to financially support that.
They don't give a shit about the circumstances under which the child was born, bc it's a human being that requires the exact same things as any other child born out of marriage...imagine that?
So your 'financial' burden propably 'ends' when the legal sytem has taken into account your salary and garnished from that what the child needs/needed and to be deemed fully supported to carry on throughout their adult life.
I'm not a lawyer, so I'm not sure about every nitty gritty detail of the legalities of this, but I do know the Canadian legal system views you as a FATHER of a CHILD and are therefore responsible of taking care of it at least in some financial capacity. This includes current/retroactive child support and yes tuition if the court views you able to financially support that.
They don't give a shit about the circumstances under which the child was born, bc it's a human being that requires the exact same things as any other child born out of marriage...imagine that?
So your 'financial' burden propably 'ends' when the legal sytem has taken into account your salary and garnished from that what the child needs/needed and to be deemed fully supported to carry on throughout their adult life.
That's a fair point. If I got an SP pregnant (heaven forbid) I would be in a quandry over whether I should try and be part of the kids life. I mean, it would be weird--I'd have almost zero connection with the mother. But still.
If you are not a lawyer there is not much value in you speculating when child support obligations end now is there?
if something like that happens you are both stupid and get what you deserve.. dont just assume everything is "peachy". I am sure you can feel if it broke.. since your dick will be free.. you get off and stop.. if you dont ,then accept the fact you could be a daddy and anything else that happens.. geeshI was thinking about this the other day and I was curious what would the SP’s do if they found themselves in this situation.
Here’s a scenario - Let’s say you book an appointment with your favorite SP. During your session you noticed that the condom broke. At this point you don’t think anything of it because you assume she’s on the pill and everything’s peachy. So you leave with a big smile on your face because you got your fix and you go on about your day.
20 years later you get a knock on your door and you find out you have a son/daughter/twins/triplets… Now things get interesting…... Do you have to pay child support for the past 19 years + schooling? What will your current wife and family think (if you have a family)?
And a question for the SP’s - Would you have the child? Would you try and find the father (DNA)?
I think I’ll be pulling out from now on
Well.... I would say it's a bit different.
An SP makes her livelihood from intimate encounters with John's. For that reason alone makes this different.
She goes through more men then an average woman (Not saying it's a bad thing).
For a normal girl - Lets say you have a one night stand and you end up getting her pregnant. Yes "oh shit". It's more likely she would keep the baby because she doesn't rely on making money in exchange for sex as an SP would. SP’s are typically more business minded when it comes to sex and they might be more inclined to have the abortion. But in the event they decide to keep the baby….
It’s like going to the supermarket and buying a dozen eggs (Buying a product or service). Then the cashier turns to you “Oh btw sir here’s your baby”. … "Je veux le bonbon!!!"
I sound like such a scum bag
. Obviously if this did happen, I'd do the right thing. I would like to think most men would.
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This is a popular fantasy. Girls like the dream of a home with a baby and husband ("provider"). Many deliberately get pregnant in an effort to bring this about, however most pimps don't want pregnent SPs or permanent attachments. Thus if pimp=bf, the story usually ends badly.
A key factor to note is the desire to have a family with a provider (bf/husband). This works if the SP has a boyfriend. Unless the customer/boyfriend line is being confused, (for various reasons), it is a very unusual fantasy to have a "customer's kid". Songs like Heart's "All I want to do is make love to you" are the exception, not the rule. Additionally, in the song, the girl already had a boyfriend. It was just that her boyfriend was infertile. Thus, having a someone else's kid was a compromise to complete the fantasy.
The fantasy is to have the baby with the provider still in the picture. The girl is trying to create a "home". No matter how messed up the underlying social and psychological issues are. Moral: Never pretend to be a boyfriend.
@CapitalGuy: Swing and a miss. You say LMAO when someone actually makes a zinger. Better luck next time!
@ rld: Disingenous argument: 95% of the ppl on this board wouldn't be able to make a comment regarding anything but escorts bc that's all we really have 'valued knowledge' in,no? You think all the thousands of posts here(including your 3,782) about law,science,medical field etc have been by lawyers, scientists and doctors etc? Nope, they're by regular ppl making commentary on subjects they'rer not actually schooled in.
And yeah of course it was speculation, that's what people do on a PUBLIC FORUM, you dumby. You thought TERB was the word of God?.... You did, didn't you?
You don't have to be a lawyer to know the fundamentals of paying child support . I said I didn't know the "nitty gritty" of all details which is why I said "probably" (hence, the speculation) of when it would end.
My point was to put it into perspective of how you would be financially responsible of a child born out of marriage rather than to an sp, bc it's essentially(speculation) the same thing, legally and morally.
If you're trying to find true value in that, maybe u should call up a lawyer and not an escort board...just sayin'
@ rld: Disingenous argument: 95% of the ppl on this board wouldn't be able to make a comment regarding anything but escorts bc that's all we really have 'valued knowledge' in,no? You think all the thousands of posts here(including your 3,782) about law,science,medical field etc have been by lawyers, scientists and doctors etc? Nope, they're by regular ppl making commentary on subjects they'rer not actually schooled in.
And yeah of course it was speculation, that's what people do on a PUBLIC FORUM, you dumby. You thought TERB was the word of God?.... You did, didn't you?
You don't have to be a lawyer to know the fundamentals of paying child support . I said I didn't know the "nitty gritty" of all details which is why I said "probably" (hence, the speculation) of when it would end.
My point was to put it into perspective of how you would be financially responsible of a child born out of marriage rather than to an sp, bc it's essentially(speculation) the same thing, legally and morally.
If you're trying to find true value in that, maybe u should call up a lawyer and not an escort board...just sayin'
The first guy to make any sense.
Plus, I would imagine that 99% of working girls who find themselves pregnant would get an abortion.
You're taking this too seriously. Relax, have a laugh - its just some internet board. I hope you enjoy your holiday Monday and have a great week!!
I wouldn't make that assumption. Views on abortion are not that lopsided, even among SP's.
And again, she is far more likely to be able to find you than you think. Incidents in which the SP could get pregnant are RARE, if it happens she's quite likely to take note of who you were. At a minimum she's going to keep your phone number on file just in case.
In my experience SP's pretty much always inspect the condom at the end of the session. What do you think she's going to do when she discovers that it's broke or missing, that she's full of your cum, and she knows she's not on the pill?
Forget about it and move on? Or make note of everything she knows about you?
That said we are talking about a pretty rare event, and both times a condom broke on me, i KNEW, and stopped, and did not fill the SP full of my cum. So it's a pretty far fetched scenario just because it isn't likely to happen in the first place, but if it DOES happen, expect the SP to take careful note of you.
@Kono, It's not different actually. It's not about how you feel towards the baby or the mother, or going to a supermaket and finding your 'surpise baby'-btw wtf?!!- its about the fact you made a kid with someone and are now partially responsable for it. The child had no say in how it would be born, it just knows it here and needs to be taken care of. How much you decide to take care of it outside the requirments of being legally responsible for it is up to you
where do you get your so called facts from?
I think she would remember if the condom broke and she gets pregnant!!!!
you all seem to forget it does take 2....
Another reason that a hobby phone, fake name, fake job, leaving your car around the corner, not bringing a cell phone or ID to the session, etc, need to be SOP for this hobby.
I am a lawyer, I don't have to call one.
You had already made your point about support but decided to plunge ahead and attempt to answer a question that you don't know the answer to.
Nothing personal, I believe this board, and the world, would be a lot better place if people said "I don't know." When they didn't know.
