sp age

[niceandslo]

So I have this beef with ladies who do not post their real age and I don't understand why so if I show up and you are 10 to 15 years older than your ad says do you really think I am that dumb to not notice and if the idea is to get the client through the door what if he takes one look and leaves and if he does not leave ,fat chance of him coming back ,after all I thought this business depends on repeat customers??????????!!!!!!!!

Any input from the ladies is appreciated.

 

[Alfonzo]

Thanks Jessica. I have also had an awkward encounter where an SP was clearly in her mid to late sixties. My fault for not pressing the issue on the phone, but a little honesty in this area would reduce the anxiety level when opening that door.

 

[abv]

......where an SP was clearly in her mid to late sixties. ......reduce the anxiety level when opening that door.

That wasn't anxiety. That was terror.

 

[niceandslo]

Hey Jessica I wish there where more ladies like you

sure... what the hell....

I never used to tell my real age. When I first entered the biz I always advertised 5 years younger than my real age. In January I decided to just out my real age, I'm 44 and will be 45 in December, but my website says 40-something so Femme doesn't have to keep changing it every year.

I was doing some updating to my site as I'm making some changes, and I was reading through reviews last night, and almost all of them say I look much younger than my real age, so that's a bonus. And if I looked good for 39, then I look really good for 44

But you know what? Since I changed my ads to 40+ I've actually seen an increase in longer dates, with more mature gentlemen (50+), so I'm convinced some gents use 40+ in their search filters.

I actually did myself a huge favour.

 

[d_jedi]

Thanks Jessica. I have also had an awkward encounter where an SP was clearly in her mid to late sixties. My fault for not pressing the issue on the phone, but a little honesty in this area would reduce the anxiety level when opening that door.

It's almost a form of B&S, although one that's more commonly accepted (for some valid reasons). I've been there where the girl looks clearly older than her stated age (not mid to late 60s, thankfully! Yikes!).. but at that point, you're not necessarily thinking with the right head..

 

[Carmen Jonesxo]

sure... what the hell....

I never used to tell my real age. When I first entered the biz I always advertised 5 years younger than my real age. In January I decided to just out my real age, I'm 44 and will be 45 in December, but my website says 40-something so Femme doesn't have to keep changing it every year.

I was doing some updating to my site as I'm making some changes, and I was reading through reviews last night, and almost all of them say I look much younger than my real age, so that's a bonus. And if I looked good for 39, then I look really good for 44

But you know what? Since I changed my ads to 40+ I've actually seen an increase in longer dates, with more mature gentlemen (50+), so I'm convinced some gents use 40+ in their search filters.

I actually did myself a huge favour.

Props to you MJL I respect the mature ladies in the game who take care of themselves and put some of the younger ladies to shame. You are definitely one of them.

 

[bolt.upright]

Because of my age (59) I prefer to see ladies in their 30's and 40's. I find it a little more comfortable that way, and I think I get better experiences with ladies who are more mature and a little closer to my age.

I have seen SP's in their 20's in the past and some have been great, but lately I tend to look for the older ones. If you're in your 30's and advertising that you're in your 20's then you may never see me as a client. If you're honest there's probably a market for you.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Props to you MJL I respect the mature ladies in the game who take care of themselves and put some of the younger ladies to shame. You are definitely one of them.

Hafta agree with you there Carmen... Gotta love a lady that looks after herself!

 

[Viggo Rasmussen]

If an escort subtract 5 years from their age it's because many of her competitors are doing the same.

If she starts advertising her real age, guys will assume she's 5 years older. That means guys also perpetuate the deception, so don't blame ladies for simply playing the game.
As long as the pictures are accurate, who cares how old she is?

She's selling a fantasy, get used to the idea she may be trying to look younger. Dying out the bit of grey in her hair, wearing makeup, wearing a bustier to support a bit of sag and hold in the tummy - it's par for the course.

 

[pablice]

Wow girl. I always thought you were in your 30s similar to me based on ur pics and your personality...not that it matters or that age matters it's all about the connection IMO...

I guess subconsciously I always go for the 20 something with the MPAs becuase they all think I am their age...lol... and I have no problem connecting with the youger girls...none of them beleive me. I once tried an experiment where I told the girl I was a university student just taking some time to relax for exams and played it cool and got crazy milage. Later I found the girl is very selective and YMMV was big. I did feel bad for it and never saw her again because I did not feel good about lying. Normally 9.99/10/I tell them the truth about my age and marital status even though that hurts for milage but it's not all just about fucking and sex I guess.

Never really tried a mature girl except my wife lol so would not know what to expect...there's a first for everything I guess...although it does not bother me when they lie about age...although I have much more respect for them when they tell me the truth.

sure... what the hell....

I never used to tell my real age. When I first entered the biz I always advertised 5 years younger than my real age. In January I decided to just out my real age, I'm 44 and will be 45 in December, but my website says 40-something so Femme doesn't have to keep changing it every year.

I was doing some updating to my site as I'm making some changes, and I was reading through reviews last night, and almost all of them say I look much younger than my real age, so that's a bonus. And if I looked good for 39, then I look really good for 44

But you know what? Since I changed my ads to 40+ I've actually seen an increase in longer dates, with more mature gentlemen (50+), so I'm convinced some gents use 40+ in their search filters.

I actually did myself a huge favour.

 

[passthegravy]

I hate it when an sp lies about her address. When you leave you have no idea how to get home.

 

[DanJ]

I don't care of she is 28 and says 25, or 40 and says 35. It's the 40 something saying 27. Like come on.

 

[Alfonzo]

If an escort subtract 5 years from their age it's because many of her competitors are doing the same.

If she starts advertising her real age, guys will assume she's 5 years older. That means guys also perpetuate the deception, so don't blame ladies for simply playing the game.
As long as the pictures are accurate, who cares how old she is?

She's selling a fantasy, get used to the idea she may be trying to look younger. Dying out the bit of grey in her hair, wearing makeup, wearing a bustier to support a bit of sag and hold in the tummy - it's par for the course.

Partaking in this hobby is very risky for me, and if I get caught by my s/o, I will never be able to explain why I took this risk with a women 20 years her senior. Besides, when all else is equal, why not settle for a young provider, so that we can bring this fantasy of yours closer to reality? By the way, I don't consider a woman in her 40s too old, but I have my reservations when they are in their 50s and 60s.

 

[thumper18474]

I don't care of she is 28 and says 25, or 40 and says 35. It's the 40 something saying 27. Like come on.

Personally..I like the ads where they say they're 40 or 50...and HAVE the body of a 25 yr. old..:eyebrows:
And theres a few of them around

 

[Alfonzo]

Personally..I like the ads where they say they're 40 or 50...and HAVE the body of a 25 yr. old..:eyebrows:
And theres a few of them around

Some 25 year olds have terrible bodies. I cannot recall reading any ad on terb by a provider who admits she is 50 or more.

 

[Viggo Rasmussen]

Partaking in this hobby is very risky for me, and if I get caught by my s/o, I will never be able to explain why I took this risk with a women 20 years her senior.

Is it easier to tell your SO that you wanted someone younger than her?
I don't think so!

 

[thumper18474]

Some 25 year olds have terrible bodies. I cannot recall reading any ad on terb by a provider who admits she is 50 or more.

http://www.theredzone.com/cgi-bin/createspec.cgi?cat=Mature&id=12426
http://www.theredzone.com/cgi-bin/createspec.cgi?cat=Mature&id=12989..NOTE: we all know she is really 127...

And lets not forget the recently retired Lady Alexis..who proudly advertised her age as a smokin hot 63..!!

 

[scott]

I hate it when an sp lies about her address. When you leave you have no idea how to get home.

Right over MY head...

 

[Titalian]

Wow girl. I always thought you were in your 30s similar to me based on ur pics and your personality...not that it matters or that age matters it's all about the connection IMO...

I guess subconsciously I always go for the 20 something with the MPAs becuase they all think I am their age...lol... and I have no problem connecting with the youger girls...none of them beleive me. I once tried an experiment where I told the girl I was a university student just taking some time to relax for exams and played it cool and got crazy milage. Later I found the girl is very selective and YMMV was big. I did feel bad for it and never saw her again because I did not feel good about lying. Normally 9.99/10/I tell them the truth about my age and marital status even though that hurts for milage but it's not all just about fucking and sex I guess.

Never really tried a mature girl except my wife lol so would not know what to expect...there's a first for everything I guess...although it does not bother me when they lie about age...although I have much more respect for them when they tell me the truth.

Actually, pablice my best times, have been spent with more mature ladies, I was intellectually stimulated as well as sexually stimulated. But thats me.

 

[passthegravy]

Thanks, Jessica. (Adjusts tie...) Tough room.