SP asking for STD report?
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What a funny thread.....
It's obvious what happened, she caught something from a regular that she sees, because probably did same unsafe service with a few guys and now is trying to find out who gave it to her.
In all likelihood she got Herpes.
You guys are playing with fire, and you know the rest....
It's obvious what happened, she caught something from a regular that she sees, because probably did same unsafe service with a few guys and now is trying to find out who gave it to her.
In all likelihood she got Herpes.
You guys are playing with fire, and you know the rest....
Here comes the escort PR team to clean up the mess.This is not standard here in Toronto. Certainly strange. Disclosing any health information or personal information and even more so both is an extremely sensitive and private issue. You should not feel any
Obligation in providing it. After a provider asks something like this I would personally get tested my self as something sounds odd.
Only exception to this is when there is a very serious outbreak and there is reasonable doubt that you may have been the source but when someone is a SP there is arguably always reasonable doubt. If someone shares that info with a provider they trust so be it but not something I would recommend or do my self but I don’t know the type of relationship you have with the sp.
Also do not mention who this provider is publicly on here as it’s being suggested.. people with no info already assuming the SP had a STD and it doesent sound like this is something this SP does routinely so may have been a one off thing and I don’t think posting her name is appropriate. Before people loose their shit that’s just my
Opinion calm down loll.
Dont let the community know who. Let just catch something, it’s worth it to protect careless SPs. They have it hard enough guys.
It'd be pretty negligent of them to give out private info to a girlfriend when all she provided was a name, or even an address. But like I said, a girl you suspect might try to do something with that info is not a girl you want having that info to begin with. If you want to keep seeing her, and want to get those extra services despite the health scare she admitted, just make sure you black out the sensitive bits on the report. Frankly, I'd just move on, but this is entirely your call. But for the love of god, if you're going to keep seeing her, please get regularly tested.I've seen her awhile now and I believe her so I didn't bother to go further with it that's why I didn't ask for it...
the point of all this was just to basically have some input from guys or girls on how these types of things work, in terms of disclosing the report to eachother and keeping your info confidential.
the other things is, I do not want to risk my info getting in the wrong hands, so was just worried that maybe she could see the name of the clinic on the report and call them up and pretend to be a gf or something and get my info from the report that way also or to verify the results or anything...clinics can't give health info to just anybody right?
Thanks for all your help guys.
This^^^What a funny thread.....
It's obvious what happened, she caught something from a regular that she sees, because probably did same unsafe service with a few guys and now is trying to find out who gave it to her.
In all likelihood she got Herpes.
You guys are playing with fire, and you know the rest....
Is she a 'high-end' provider charging above average industry rates?
I am thinking the same thing as when she asked for my results, she made a point to test for herpes which I found weird. but this doesn't make much sense because once you have herpes you always have so I am sure the doctor told her that and she knows, so whats the point? she can't get infected again, and you can't get more infected, once you got it you get breakouts no matter what...I tested negative when I did my test last year, but she wanted a recent test.
may I ask what type of unsafe services did you mean? is DATY considered unsafe?
and why would it matter if she is a high end provider?
may I ask what type of unsafe services did you mean? is DATY considered unsafe?
and why would it matter if she is a high end provider?
Even if she has it and can't get infected again, she wants to know who infected her. Imagine visiting several SPs over the span of a week, and a week later you have an STI. You may not have any way to know which one gave it to you, but if you had the power to find out, you'd probably use it.I am thinking the same thing as when she asked for my results, she made a point to test for herpes which I found weird. but this doesn't make much sense because once you have herpes you always have so I am sure the doctor told her that and she knows, so whats the point? she can't get infected again, and you can't get more infected, once you got it you get breakouts no matter what...I tested negative when I did my test last year, but she wanted a recent test.
may I ask what type of unsafe services did you mean? is DATY considered unsafe?
and why would it matter if she is a high end provider?
Again, what did she have? This is essential. You can do blood tests for exposure to HSV. And you CAN get 1 if you have 2, or 2 if you have 1, and you can get them on mouth or genitalia. If you have 1 on the mouth (like most of the population) you won't get it on your genitalia. But then you can get 2 there. So find out. You'd be helping us all. Thanks!
P.S. it could be something less foreboding too. But find out! I knew a pro lady who got thrush and was out of commission. Thus she banned digits.
P.S. it could be something less foreboding too. But find out! I knew a pro lady who got thrush and was out of commission. Thus she banned digits.
herpes test isnt standard. the std cliinics wont test for it.
chances are you will have to goto your family doctor and pay separately for hsv1/2 test.
is this the same 20 year old SP charging 700$ an hour from your previous thread?
chances are you will have to goto your family doctor and pay separately for hsv1/2 test.
is this the same 20 year old SP charging 700$ an hour from your previous thread?
I am thinking the same thing as when she asked for my results, she made a point to test for herpes which I found weird. but this doesn't make much sense because once you have herpes you always have so I am sure the doctor told her that and she knows, so whats the point? she can't get infected again, and you can't get more infected, once you got it you get breakouts no matter what...I tested negative when I did my test last year, but she wanted a recent test.
may I ask what type of unsafe services did you mean? is DATY considered unsafe?
and why would it matter if she is a high end provider?
Se caught something and wants to know if it came from the OP
always get tested for your own peace of mind, but for “proof”? Lolz.
always get tested for your own peace of mind, but for “proof”? Lolz.
The test is worthless since many STIs wont even show up right awayWhile rare, I have heard of some (non-Toronto) SP's requesting proof of a clean STI test, but usually only where unprotected intercourse is concerned.
This situation in particular sounds suspect on multiple fronts.
I forget exact time frame but unless you have abstained for an extended period (3 months?) a clean test does not guarantee you are actually clean
A few points.
1. As others have said, you can get a paper copy of the report and black out your name to protect your privacy.
2. They don’t test for HSV routinely. A huge % of the population has had HSV 1, (ie cold sores) and will have antibodies and a blood test will show that.
3. No medical clinic will give your personal info to another person without your specific permission (typically written). And further, if you won’t tell her your name, how TF will she even be able to ask about your info??
1. As others have said, you can get a paper copy of the report and black out your name to protect your privacy.
2. They don’t test for HSV routinely. A huge % of the population has had HSV 1, (ie cold sores) and will have antibodies and a blood test will show that.
3. No medical clinic will give your personal info to another person without your specific permission (typically written). And further, if you won’t tell her your name, how TF will she even be able to ask about your info??
If you black out the name she might not believe the report is from you but if you show her one with the name on and she doesn't know your name will you have to show other ID to prove it's you? Best to just move on.
Agree it’s best to move on. But if you really wanted you could show the copy of the report with the name blacked out, but it should have your DOB, which you can show part of, along with copy of your drivers licence, with name blacked out, but showing same DOB.If you black out the name she might not believe the report is from you but if you show her one with the name on and she doesn't know your name will you have to show other ID to prove it's you? Best to just move on.
Or just move on. (I think too much about this stupid shit lol) Hundreds of amazing girls out there. I love a great regular girl more than most, but if she’s asking for more info than you are comfortable giving, time to find another.
With a copy of your photo
agreed. move on - this isnt the porn industry where industry has to show paperwork testing to work.
I have never heard both clients/Sps trading up-to-date std testing paperwork before a session.... until now.
I have never heard both clients/Sps trading up-to-date std testing paperwork before a session.... until now.
If you black out the name she might not believe the report is from you but if you show her one with the name on and she doesn't know your name will you have to show other ID to prove it's you? Best to just move on.
Walk away. No, run.
There's lots of ladies out there that (a) don't have an std and (b) don't want you give up your privacy
There's lots of ladies out there that (a) don't have an std and (b) don't want you give up your privacy
i think its the same SP that that was swindling him in the past with unreasonable demands/service (or lack of)With literally thousands of providers in Southern Ontario you’re seriously considering this?
