Special needs Clients?
- Thread starter Devon Devil
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Lou Siffer said:
Question does his mental age override his legal age
Legally this may be sex with a minor
Might check with a good lawyer before doing it again
After all his parents could walk in any second as you cannot trust his decision as to when they will return
This topic has come up before and I always post my thoughts. I applaud those of you who showed open mindedness and inclusion in your responses. Sadly there are still those who think seeing a client with a disability is automaticly going to be weird, different or somehow require more from them than a regular call.
This is not always the case. I think people need to stop assuming or surrendering to fear of the unknown. I am disabled myself. I have Cerebral Palsy. I am a very clean, fit, well groomed, and functional man. Yet I have been made to feel I had to somehow prove I'm "OK" before seeing some ladies. This is ridiculous not to mention insulting.
Now I'll agree if a client's physical situation means the lady may have to significantly alter her delivery of service, or be aware of limitations then yes it's an issue. However if the disability has no bearing on the booking then whats the problem?
I'm gonna put this bluntly because I can...we aren't all drooling messes. I have heard stories of encountering less than perfect hygiene with some disabled clients. I'll agree this can be an issue but not always. Ladies think about it for a moment. sometimes it really depends on whoever does that persons personal care and how good they are. My humble advice...if it's an issue a lot can be solved with a warm soapy cloth and some caring. Anything beyond that, and I'd agree it's not your deal.
I just think sometimes when this kind of client comes your way a lot of SP's need to just breathe and think. As some have pointed out in some cases it may turn out to be an personally rewarding and eye opening experience.
Sometimes I am baffled but what some ladies ARE ok with versus what they aren't. To the original poster, I'm glad you did the call but I cringed at your remark "they need sex too right?" THEY?? we are just people!
And as a side note....don't google Cerebral Palsy. It makes it sound waay worse then is often the case
This is not always the case. I think people need to stop assuming or surrendering to fear of the unknown. I am disabled myself. I have Cerebral Palsy. I am a very clean, fit, well groomed, and functional man. Yet I have been made to feel I had to somehow prove I'm "OK" before seeing some ladies. This is ridiculous not to mention insulting.
Now I'll agree if a client's physical situation means the lady may have to significantly alter her delivery of service, or be aware of limitations then yes it's an issue. However if the disability has no bearing on the booking then whats the problem?
I'm gonna put this bluntly because I can...we aren't all drooling messes. I have heard stories of encountering less than perfect hygiene with some disabled clients. I'll agree this can be an issue but not always. Ladies think about it for a moment. sometimes it really depends on whoever does that persons personal care and how good they are. My humble advice...if it's an issue a lot can be solved with a warm soapy cloth and some caring. Anything beyond that, and I'd agree it's not your deal.
I just think sometimes when this kind of client comes your way a lot of SP's need to just breathe and think. As some have pointed out in some cases it may turn out to be an personally rewarding and eye opening experience.
Sometimes I am baffled but what some ladies ARE ok with versus what they aren't. To the original poster, I'm glad you did the call but I cringed at your remark "they need sex too right?" THEY?? we are just people!
And as a side note....don't google Cerebral Palsy. It makes it sound waay worse then is often the case
I have a client with CP. Mentally he's more than all there and is extremely articulate! Physically he can not be on top but can receive me on top.. or receive oral. His skills in giving are not great but he still enjoys trying.
I have another client who was made a quad by a drinking/driving accident. All he can do is lick pussy and have tits in his mouth. He has had a table made to a specific height measurement so that I can be splayed like a buffet and he can wheel up to it. It's extremely uncomfortable for me to be on a hard table like that but we take breaks.
In both cases however I was informed of exactly what I would be encountering when I arrived to visit them. In neither case were caregivers present although both gentlemen have to be cared for by professionals in order to eat, bathe, be put to bed.
I have another client who was made a quad by a drinking/driving accident. All he can do is lick pussy and have tits in his mouth. He has had a table made to a specific height measurement so that I can be splayed like a buffet and he can wheel up to it. It's extremely uncomfortable for me to be on a hard table like that but we take breaks.
In both cases however I was informed of exactly what I would be encountering when I arrived to visit them. In neither case were caregivers present although both gentlemen have to be cared for by professionals in order to eat, bathe, be put to bed.
