SPs and older men.
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SSS is so very prolific on all the boards and a 'sweetie' to boot!
Not to mention that she's also party 'animal,' especially those that Muddy@TGF attends, I might add.
She's one very special gal. Very pretty too, having met her.
Not to mention that she's also party 'animal,' especially those that Muddy@TGF attends, I might add.
She's one very special gal. Very pretty too, having met her.
gwhiz,
can you take off those smart pants?
I cannot hear you..
I'm in the chat room... chilling...
can you take off those smart pants?
I cannot hear you..
I'm in the chat room... chilling...
I'm pleased to see this thread has generated some interest.
I've now decided that the ladies go for me because of my sense of humour. In fact, I would definitely rather be remembered as somebody who could make you laugh over somebody who could make you come. But maybe they are the same thing, what?
I've now decided that the ladies go for me because of my sense of humour. In fact, I would definitely rather be remembered as somebody who could make you laugh over somebody who could make you come. But maybe they are the same thing, what?
Thank you SSS!
Musketeers are a chivalrous lot, and you are a noble lady! And ooh sooo sexy too!
My sword, shaft and blade are at your service milady! Lol!
Musketeers are a chivalrous lot, and you are a noble lady! And ooh sooo sexy too!
My sword, shaft and blade are at your service milady! Lol!
I am interested in knowing what would the woman choose when she has a sugar daddy who are self-made man with undergrad education but can bring home the bacon and a poor graduate student with heavy student debt load and uncertain career prospect. And yes both of them are "nice guys" if she can say so.sensual lady said:
How about if both have the similar personality but one is self-made man with lots of hard cash, while the one is just an average Joe, say, no offense blue-collar worker? Who will she choose to date in the first place?
Personally I have seen so many women acting the same way as I always claim. Worst, I feel pity for their spouses who probably have little ideas how the women complaining and bitching on the guys. You have to wonder what are the odds of being "one of the guys".
You say *some* but I bet substantial if not all the younger men like me are bunches of dogs humping with hind legs
I don't.
Whoa, SP as a sex toy! Definitely NOT me. I see the SP as "very special lady". Bear in mind once she gets paid before the deal, she has NO OBLIGATION to treat you any special, valued added service other than the standard "menu". I always feel appreciated to the SP who I believe deliver more than I expected and in good faith.
Maybe you just think I am phony. And I think you are not making things up on men seeking rapport with an SP but I do think you are BSing on the %.
There is not much difference between "pros" and "civilians" when it comes to gold digging, except the "pros" are "legitimate" to do the gold digging because of their profession.
There are only two thing money cannot buy. One is health and the other maybe love from your parents. Other than that my maxim is no problem can't be solved when you have tonnes of dough to fix it! It's all about how much premium you need to pay for your dues to get what you want, including love and intimacy.
You can learn whatever techniques to have great intimacy and sexual techniques by books, DVD, porn flicks or whatever that helps you BUT without amassing hard cold cash to buy the attention from the ladies, you're going nowhere. At best your intuition, sense of humour and knowledges on whatever interested the ladies let you to become just friends. As far as dating is concern, forget about it.
We are living in a very sad life called the reality and it's cruel and no mercy.
It's like finding needles in a haystack.
Being an older guy myself (and I guess we are defining that as the over 40 group), I can remember back to my youth when I was probably a bit more selfish than I am now. Several failed relationships later, I think any guy in his late 40's like myself and over has learned a few things and can better appreciate the pure beauty of women to include their complexities. I can see where that would be an attraction to younger women.
But here's the paradox...for every reason a younger woman may find the older man more attractive than his younger counterpart...Attentive, adoring, unselfish, mature, solvent, and perhaps even physically attractive, how is the older man's attraction to the younger woman percieved?
We have all of these great qualities that a young woman may admire, but on the other hand, do we seem shallow because we focus our attention towards an under 30 audiance? For every younger woman that's attracted to an older man, there are undoubtedly 100 older men that are attracted to younger women. Now, as much as I'd like to list the same criteria...Attentive, adoring, unselfish, mature, solvent (least important)...the truth is, physical attractiveness will grab me first. For a lasting relationship, I do look for the other attributes, which is why I like to take more than an hour to get to know a woman.
So, if the older man is in search of the younger woman, and the younger woman is attracted to the older man, and the younger man is attracted to the younger woman....where does that leave the older woman? Just curious??
Aaaahh, maybe it's the fact that I care enough to ask that question that adds to the attraction??? Hmmmm..cool
But here's the paradox...for every reason a younger woman may find the older man more attractive than his younger counterpart...Attentive, adoring, unselfish, mature, solvent, and perhaps even physically attractive, how is the older man's attraction to the younger woman percieved?
We have all of these great qualities that a young woman may admire, but on the other hand, do we seem shallow because we focus our attention towards an under 30 audiance? For every younger woman that's attracted to an older man, there are undoubtedly 100 older men that are attracted to younger women. Now, as much as I'd like to list the same criteria...Attentive, adoring, unselfish, mature, solvent (least important)...the truth is, physical attractiveness will grab me first. For a lasting relationship, I do look for the other attributes, which is why I like to take more than an hour to get to know a woman.
So, if the older man is in search of the younger woman, and the younger woman is attracted to the older man, and the younger man is attracted to the younger woman....where does that leave the older woman? Just curious??
Aaaahh, maybe it's the fact that I care enough to ask that question that adds to the attraction??? Hmmmm..cool
I don't think I've heard that jaded opinion before... The majority of my guy friends are your regular "upper middle class" 50K a year earners who have wives, kids, mortgages, don't hobby and are happy, not exactly sugar daddies.sweet guy said:
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, looking too hard, are attracted to the high maintenance women, written relationships off and settled on hobbying, or just have too negative an outlook.
Granted, perhaps not all women are "gold diggers". However, I contend that a woman evaluates a man and his dating/relationship potential on how much he earns.
While its true that women can, and often do out perform men in terms of their salary, women still want a sense of security that the man she is with can provide for her (and her children) through being able to afford the finer things in life.
Case in point:
Two women are talking. One says "Hey, I've got a great blind date for you". The other says "Oh, really?? What does he do?"
While its true that women can, and often do out perform men in terms of their salary, women still want a sense of security that the man she is with can provide for her (and her children) through being able to afford the finer things in life.
Case in point:
Two women are talking. One says "Hey, I've got a great blind date for you". The other says "Oh, really?? What does he do?"
Sensual Lady,what you say definetly has some truth to it but it may also be politically correct to say what you posted..especially in the SP/ client relationship..but i ask you ..how often do you see a 20 something out on a date with a 40 something, or even married for that matter...and when you do isn,t the first observation that you may have is ..he must have $...also a lot of women say "i prefer a man with a sense of humour",but does Ben Affleck lose any women to Bill Maher? lol!
sweet guy said:
This is one stereotype that I have a hard time swallowing. Not all, although some women may date men for what they can provide materially. Me personally I'd rather date a middle-class man with a sweet personality than a millionare who treats me like crap.
Hello gents,
Most of my client base and I prefer to see men 30+ because I find that they have had more dating/relationshop experience that they treat all women the same with kindness and gentleness regardless if you are a woman that sells her body. I'm sorry to say that all of my bad experiences have come from young men because they think once they pay for your time they can do whatever they want with you and treat you any way they want.
Now before the younger men get their panties in an uproar I'm not saying all young men do this, this just has been my personal experience.
Annessa
XOXO
Most of my client base and I prefer to see men 30+ because I find that they have had more dating/relationshop experience that they treat all women the same with kindness and gentleness regardless if you are a woman that sells her body. I'm sorry to say that all of my bad experiences have come from young men because they think once they pay for your time they can do whatever they want with you and treat you any way they want.
Now before the younger men get their panties in an uproar I'm not saying all young men do this, this just has been my personal experience.
Annessa
XOXO
Do you guys really believe that this cynicism makes you cool? It doesn't, you know, you're only rationalizing your failures with women by blaming it on something you're comfortable with.
You can't tell the difference between gold-digging and working? You can't tell the difference between an honest offering of services and lying?
Well, maybe you're going nowhere. Seems to me I see couples in parks and on the streets together all the time, looking perfectly happy together. They can't all be rich.
Most of us think reality is quite a nice place. Perhaps you should visit it sometime.
Here's one for you:
Two guys are talking. One says "Hey, look at the tits on that bitch!" The other says "D-uhhhh!"
Granted, this example is irrelevent and stupid, but that doesn't seem to matter as far as I can tell.
As for myself ... when I was in my twentiers I was completely wrapped up in myself. I spent all my time worrying about my career and what I was going to do in life and all the rest of it. Now that I'm a bit more established I can spare a few of those brain cells for trivialities like being pleasant.
Bingo. As I mentioned in some other thread, sounds like he's got some issues with women that has made him bitter. If the only way you can get the girls you want is by paying for it, then it is not too surprising to have this attitude.midLifeCrisis said:
Sweetguy, you're starting to sound like poorboy (over-rationalizing for failures w/women). Except while you blame money, poorboy blames his ethnicity and not his income.
I think your negative attitude is hurting your 'chances'. You need to kick things off with a better outlook and attitude. It really does make a big difference.
great bear said:
though i'm not an escort, i think what great bear said is dead on. it seems half the time young guys don't know what they're doing in bed. the older gentelmen are more "experienced" and can cater to a womens needs. i guess the saying "older yet wiser" is true, lol.
