STAY AWAY from Lola

[Ladyluvr69]

She scammed me for $300

Basically I have chatted and had coffee with her before so I was stupid and trusted her.

Met her outside her house on Baseline near woodroffe. gave her my money and she said she would go in and I should wait 5 minutes before going in. Well she texts me and says to go get some candles and bubble bath. Well I go to the store.

then texts me her friend is there and I should wait. well 30 minutes later she texts me it should be not much longer, 20 minutes later she calls and says it does not look like they will leave so we reschedule for the next night.

I pick her up and we go to pizza hut parking cause she said she needed to get something from a friend. Well she says she needs $40 to give to her friend (I am not an idiot {or am I }i know what that is for) so I give it to her. Car pulls up she tells me to stay and she gets in and they drive away. 1 hour later she is not back and not answering my calls or answering my texts. I reached her a few hours later and she said she was having phone issues and I should call her back in a few minutes, call her back and again no answer. One week later still nothing from her.

So its up to you but I would stay away from her.

So I am out lots of money :-(

Oh well that is life.

Her numbers are
613-xxx-8046
613-xxx-9838
613-xxx-4082

 

[fast times @]

sorry to hear, i have fallen for similar trap in past too,
what is her description, age , and other names she uses???

 

[Ladyluvr69]

she is 29, blonde, 120lbs beautiful lady i think she had said 5'6" and looks about right but not sure.

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

Where did you come across this scam artist ? Sorry you got scamed pardner! What goes around, comes around. She'll get hers some day. That's just so wrong.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

Well ill give you one guess but I am sure youll get it on the first try.

I had chatted with her on Q and met before for a massage and we chatted many times and met a few times has just friends and I was going to go for some real fun and she decided she would have more fun then me.

 

[BigDaddyOttawa]

Sorry... but anyone who hands over money in a public place and allows the girl to voluntarily leave is asking for their money to be taken.

Anyone who "trusts" an SP needs to give their head a shake.

 

[sysy3333]

BigDaddy is right, but still Kudo's for ladyluvr for steppin up to the plate and reminding us what happens when you do make that "oh so human" mistake of letting the little head tell the big head what to do!

 

[herelookin (pt2)]

I have made the same mistake (sadly to admit more than once) so I feel for you. Never for that amount (at one time) but if you add it up...

 

[Bluenose]

What a bummer. The upside is that you got out of it with only losing a few hundred dollars and not having her methed out boyfriend slip a knife into your kidneys. Quest is like several rungs below even the Sun, maybe even a notch below streetwalkers for security.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

Sorry... but anyone who hands over money in a public place and allows the girl to voluntarily leave is asking for their money to be taken.

Anyone who "trusts" an SP needs to give their head a shake.

SHE WAS IN MY CAR for one and no I do not have a problem. Last time I share things since all you do is insult people.

 

[Needs2Relax]

staying away from Lola

I feel your embarrassment. it's NEVER happened to me Ignore the negative comments. Remember when someone is pointing a finger at you there are three of them pointing at them. Quest is where my last gf was fishing for her suckers. She had 3 of them on the line when I became aware of her manipulations. That's probably why I prefer pros. No bullshit, just sex. They get what they want, you get what you want.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

I feel your embarrassment. it's NEVER happened to me Ignore the negative comments. Remember when someone is pointing a finger at you there are three of them pointing at them. Quest is where my last gf was fishing for her suckers. She had 3 of them on the line when I became aware of her manipulations. That's probably why I prefer pros. No bullshit, just sex. They get what they want, you get what you want.

Yeah thanks man.

The thing is i thought we had developed a friendship. well good actress.

But her loss really cause she could have been making lots of money from me in the long run.

 

[Tip-Drill]

...... The thing is i thought we had developed a friendship ......

Tread very carefully my friend. Many of us have "been there and done that". The following thread dealing with the subject of emotional attachments to SP`s may be of interest to you .....

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=150636&highlight=emotional+attachments

 

[antlerman]

SHE WAS IN MY CAR for one and no I do not have a problem. Last time I share things since all you do is insult people.

Relax......just because some one is being a little unkind....do not let them scare you away....
The sincere people thank you.

 

[Needs2Relax]

Watch out for "Lola's"

Yeah thanks man.

The thing is i thought we had developed a friendship. well good actress.

But her loss really cause she could have been making lots of money from me in the long run.

Either you will accept the situation and move on or you won't. My spidy sense is telling me that you are not done with her yet. Like a stray cat, man if you feed the little *u*k*ng thing, of course its gonna hang around. I hate to be the one to snap you out of it... but it sounds far from star crossed lovers here. People are capable of manipulating us if we let them.

 

[fast times @]

SHE WAS IN MY CAR for one and no I do not have a problem. Last time I share things since all you do is insult people.

hey man, dont ever stop sharing, the good and the bad, sharing experiences help us all
I had a girl do the same thing to me, couple of months later she was online again, and blocked me, however a little later that night i told her I am not mad at you, just want to have fun ya know, she said she was sorry, and we made plans to hook up again, i was leary that she might try shit again, but she was worth the attempt and adrenaline rush of getting, together, she really was sorry and gave me double time, we later chatted about how it was her man wanting the money, and she was a little strung out and wasnt making any good decisions.
just remember if you give respect you usually get it back

 

[Winstoncup]

Thanks for sharing. If your experience helps one guy it is worth it. Shit happens. The one sens game I went to this year for two tickets was a couple of hundred dollars and some looser put a dent in my car that I have to look at every day. Don't let this girl get you down.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

Thanks for sharing. If your experience helps one guy it is worth it. Shit happens. The one sens game I went to this year for two tickets was a couple of hundred dollars and some looser put a dent in my car that I have to look at every day. Don't let this girl get you down.

OMG im glad that when i go to see them I never got a dent (so far)

It annoys me how people just do shit and run away. My dad got a super big scratch on his NEW car from what we think is a shopping cart. Its like 2 feet long. Me I am always careful. I will put my hand in between the door and the other car if there is not much room so that i dont scratch their car.

But not everyone is careful. thats life :-(

 

[straitshooter]

There are all kinds of scams. This happened to a guy I know. He met a working girl at a bar. They make a deal, and he gives her some money up front. Off to the hotel.
"Whoops," she says "I don'thave any protection, let's stop at the the Shoppers Drug Mart."
He says, "You're gonna come back, right?"
She says,"Sure, I'll leave my purse with you."
She doesn't come back. Of course, the purse is a cheap vinyl thing, and there's nothing inside!
Talk about being left holding the bag -!

 

[Monamie]

It Will Keep Happening

She sounds very familiar - always asking for things and when she gets what she wants she dissappears, doe snot call back, does not answer her calls, changes her number, makes excuses. This wouldn't be so bad if the lady was not what you were looking for - it becomes extremely difficult when she is beautiful and lots of fun to be with - this is when it is difficult to let go - they kind of know it and use it - crossing that line ever so slightly so that you keep coming back. I'm sure a few of us had and still have this problem. Its difficult but I guess its the nature of this scenario. Maybe she has just as much to hide and lose as you do and is being very protective and secretive - that would be fair too.