Saw this on the other board and thought that it should be discussed... Lately ive been hearing stories about guys trying to take off the condom without the girl knowing and I just thought that guys would no better than to go no rubber with an sp. I know level headed sps never allow that service as it is not safe. Now here is the question I have : why do guys think its ok that they do this? Not only can u catch something , pass it on to others but if a girl does not consent to that is it not rape? I don't understand. Why would guys risk getting charged with rape just because they don't want to play safe. Now I have had guys ask me for it but it is always no. I am also bringing awareness to this because I have caught a couple guys trying to do this and have had to end the session and end up in a screaming match. Ladies have u had any problems with this? Gents, would you ever put yourself in this situation? .... discuss....
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I couldn't begin to imagine why a guy would want to do this to begin with. Any time I've been offered BBFS, I decline, and never see that SP again.
But even if these men desired it, they'd have to be incredible assholes to attempt it.
There have actually been two threads on the subject in the last month, and I think most people agree that it's disgusting:
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...secret-removal-of-condom&highlight=stealthing
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?598960-Stealthing&highlight=stealthing
1) 'Stealthing' has gotten some media play recently. I doubt it was much more of 'a thing' then it ever was before this, though it may become something of 'a thing' for a while since the media made it one. Basically, it was a handful of losers talking about 'a thing', and the media ran with it. Things will probably get back to the 'normal' level of "dicks taking condoms off their dicks" soon enough.
2) If you've checked the state of a lot of male dominated, english language, online communities things are particular toxic right now. There is a lot of woman hate. There is a lot of effort with losers trying to figure out ways of tricking women into fucking them (often listening to whackjobs and other losers). There is also a lot of talk about women being little more that pieces of meat. This would seem flow from that. "Once you found a cum dumpster to throw your junk in, why bother using a bag? I the sign says use a bag, just pretend to, as it's only a hole for junk."
3) Beyond the heath issues (which are bad enough for BBFS / Bare Anal / Bare Pussyslides) which should be scary enough, there is also a pretty clear issue of lack of consent and this being some flavour of assault in pretty much every jurisdiction under the sun.
It doesn't matter if you're a civi or a pro all you can do is be mindful of the dicks that are close to your vagina and ass. I suspect that's as much about your good judgment about men, as it is watching a penis every second it's around you. Many of the guys the cheerlead for this stuff are pretty delusional about themselves, often with a side dose of bitter, while simultaneously not having all that much experience with real human girls. Maybe keep a eye out for those types in particular (or anybody laying it on too thick)?
Same as me. Any guy who asked me BBFS through phone or text is going to my blacklist, save their phone number and refuse to see them forever. It happened with my two long time regular clients too( a lawyer and a restaurant owner). They asked me BBFS after a few years relationship, but I banned them forever instantly. They desperately asked me to forgiving, but I didn't. I lost money and good clients, but I don't care. My problem: If they asked me, they asked other girls too and I know a few of them do everything for the money. For me the money is not everything. So I always say good bye for idiots!:wave:
I agree with what has been said. Anyone who asks me for bbfs immediately goes on my blacklist. I was not aware that their is two other threads on this topic. The reason I posted this is because I have had guys ask me during the session " can we please do it without please, I swear I'm clean" and then I have had to end the session and send them packing. Then they get mad when they realize how stupid they were being and beg me not to end session.
Theoptionsmenu " watching dicks around your pussy and ass" sounds easy enough. We watch the guys when their around us but let me ask you this. Do you not think if a guy is doing doggie that he can easily slip off the condom without the sp knowing? I have also seen how much woman hate is out there and it is very disrespectful to us sps . We are people like everyone else just trying to make living.
I am pretty sure if a girl does not consent to bbfs that she can charge that guy with sexual assault or rape and have the client charged. I think this is extremely disgusting and cant believe that I even had to start a thread about this... Don't people value their health anymore? Or do they just think with the little head???
Theoptionsmenu " watching dicks around your pussy and ass" sounds easy enough. We watch the guys when their around us but let me ask you this. Do you not think if a guy is doing doggie that he can easily slip off the condom without the sp knowing? I have also seen how much woman hate is out there and it is very disrespectful to us sps . We are people like everyone else just trying to make living.
I am pretty sure if a girl does not consent to bbfs that she can charge that guy with sexual assault or rape and have the client charged. I think this is extremely disgusting and cant believe that I even had to start a thread about this... Don't people value their health anymore? Or do they just think with the little head???
Well, that's certainly true. Like I said, I can't fathom why a guy would put himself at risk like this, or stoop to such a low level as to do this without consent. I'm not sure we're going to find the answers here.
Also, kudos IRIS for having the lady-bits to cut long-term clients off like that!
Not a chance. Not only is this one of the most disrespectful acts that one could pull on an unsuspecting woman, it shows that the idiots who would try this regard the person they are with as less than nothing. Despicable.
I would hazard a guess that this is done by a small majority of those that hobby. I would also second what T O M has said, that this isn't something that's new, it's just getting airplay right now.
I completely agree. it really shows the persons true character.
This is not done by a small majority. The reason it is getting airplay dirkd101 is because more guys are doing it and ladies are being put at risk that is why it is being brought up.. At least that's the reason I brought it up.
This is not done by a small majority. The reason it is getting airplay dirkd101 is because more guys are doing it and ladies are being put at risk that is why it is being brought up.. At least that's the reason I brought it up.
great on you
I would never think of doing or asking.
If offered.... that's it never call on that sp ever again
