Stood up...again...

[Ryan1967]

This seems to be happening more and more frequently lately for me, perhaps (to quote from Indiana Jones) "I am choosing...poorly...". A few weeks back it was Natalia/Daisy previously from PK then GP and now Indy and last week it was KaydenceKox. In both cases they simply went radio silent on the day of the agreed to rendez-vous, no contact even after the fact aknowledging that they blew me off...just nothing. I remember many months ago I cancelled on an SP with mixed reviews the night before we were planning on meeting since I came down with a head cold and she informed me, in no uncertain terms that I was black listed from that point forward. I guess all we can do when we are stood up is come here and complain.

I get that things come up, emergencies happen and appointments are missed...but is it really too much to ask to aknowledge that you could not make it?

Anyway...add Kaydence Kox to the list of unreliable SP's, we were all confirmed for a meeting last Friday then complete radio silence since then...

 

[jjw99]

hey ryan try out the stiletto girl
http://stilettogirls.wix.com/stilettogirls

 

[Ryan1967]

Agree completely with most BP girls, most if not all fly by the seat of their pants, same with some agencies...the best you can hope for is a day of booking. That just does not work for me with my schedule...I need to book several days in advance. In the case of Kaydence she put up two ads 10 days and 3 days before her visit, asking clients to prebook. So yes, I thought it was a reliable pre-book...evidently not. Anyway...my purpose of posting here is to let others know that she is a potential no show.

Ryan1967 my experience is that unless it's a higher end reliably reviewed lady, there is NO POINT in trying to pre-arrange anything with most of the bp girls. They are fly by the seat of their pants, book no more than an hour or two prior to desire time.

Otherwise, you are mostly setting yourself up for disappointment.

 

[LisbethNova]

Agree completely with most BP girls, most if not all fly by the seat of their pants, same with some agencies...the best you can hope for is a day of booking. That just does not work for me with my schedule...I need to book several days in advance. In the case of Kaydence she put up two ads 10 days and 3 days before her visit, asking clients to prebook. So yes, I thought it was a reliable pre-book...evidently not. Anyway...my purpose of posting here is to let others know that she is a potential no show.

My biggest advice guys... especially with this new law passing.. I would completely stop using BP! Or any other cheap provider service.,, you will only get burned in the end. Also, giving as much notice as possible is a good rule of thumb. I find a lot of gents from this website cancel and I have gotten used to it. However if its in the same day... its pretty aggravating.

 

[DB123]

My biggest advice guys... especially with this new law passing.. I would completely stop using BP! Or any other cheap provider service.,, you will only get burned in the end. Also, giving as much notice as possible is a good rule of thumb. I find a lot of gents from this website cancel and I have gotten used to it. However if its in the same day... its pretty aggravating.

Except the two aren't always possible. Aside from the slight ulterior motive in the fact that you you presumably do not advertise on backpage, there are, in fact a number of at least relatively reputable providers who do not advertise on boards at all. Some of these ladies have regimented schedules, many do not. I can say from personal experience that there are some absolute gems on backpage: reliable, trustworthy, professionals who take what they do seriously. At the same time, they tend to post when they are working. Sure, there are a few I can contact on non 'work' phones to get an idea of when they will be around, but most are only available by phone on the days they are available in person.

Also (and please bear in mind that this is in no way a criticism, because in that realm I suppose it is sound advice), your advice is largely relevant only to independent SPs. Being more of an agency man myself, 95% of the time if I call in the morning, I will see who I want that day.

 

[Ryan1967]

I realize my posts we not very clear...this provider is from CERB, I never saw her ads on BP. I have actually never booked anyone from BP, I almost exclusively book with providers from terb, cerb or EC. And she is actually quite well reviewed in the Durham/Barries forums. Agree with both of you that booking from BP is a roll of the dice at best.

My biggest advice guys... especially with this new law passing.. I would completely stop using BP! Or any other cheap provider service.,, you will only get burned in the end. Also, giving as much notice as possible is a good rule of thumb. I find a lot of gents from this website cancel and I have gotten used to it. However if its in the same day... its pretty aggravating.

 

[AJstar]

Well made an appt today with Kaydence Kox.
Arrived on time and then no response.
Didn't answer phone or texts.
Another one joins the waste of time club.
This from a girl who has had good reviews?

 

[carloska1961]

Well made an appt today with Kaydence Kox.
Arrived on time and then no response.
Didn't answer phone or texts.
Another one joins the waste of time club.
This from a girl who has had good reviews?

Same experience here with Kaydence. Off my TDL for now.

 

[Eddie401]

My recent rule is to only see independants that are established enough to have a web site.

 

[LikeRedHeads]

My recent rule is to only see independants that are established enough to have a web site.

Then you will not see much variety my friend.

 

[Eddie401]

Then you will not see much variety my friend.

So true I'm super cautious and more of a FWB guy than a hobbiest. Perfect arrangement for me is 1 independent incall that I stick with, rather than changing it up all the time. I like getting comfortable with repeat visits. Looking for that right now.

What can I say? I'm old and tired

 

[wild4sex]

Yasmine stood me up recently, and Miss Kiki before that. Maybe their excuses were legit, maybe I just got bumped ?? I have no time for unreliable SPs.