Sugar Dating Experience

[Meaning]

For those making Toronto sound easy - it's not if you're ugly (which I am). I am located right downtown Toronto.

I'm on about day 5 right now - have sent close to 75-100 outbound messages. I've struck conversations with about 6. Of the 6, only 1 potential date could had been setup but the rate was going to be too high for what I was going to get ($400 - and she wasn't my type). However, out of the blue today a 22 year old with a pretty face messaged me and I have the first date setup for Sunday. Her photos look pretty nice & she is already aware that this meeting is not being compensated but rather to see if we click.

This match was out of pure luck - trust me the amount of effort being put in is absurd. If you're half way decent looking, you might have an easier experience, but as it currently stands, I'm definitely not renewing my account/subscription.

 

[Uuoomkin12]

So much good info in this thread. Been using SA the last couple of weeks with moderate success. I've been able to have a couple of successful meet ups but the girls have been very normal and not what I would consider model types that have been mentioned here. The experience itself is very different than with an SP, it's much more genuine and real. It was actually very enjoyable and a nice change of pace from seeing SP.

For those who've had success with the 9/10 model types on the website what's the secret there? Is it just a higher ppm amount? The ones I've talked to have asked for 700-1000 per meet which to me is really high. Max I've done is 400 per meet. I'm not sure if theres a standard rate so maybe I'm just being a cheapass.

I saw someone else get chirped earlier in the thread but I actually wouldn't mind some tips haha.

 

[shack]

$400 is a reasonable amount, currently.

 

[indigo_27]

So much good info in this thread. Been using SA the last couple of weeks with moderate success. I've been able to have a couple of successful meet ups but the girls have been very normal and not what I would consider model types that have been mentioned here. The experience itself is very different than with an SP, it's much more genuine and real. It was actually very enjoyable and a nice change of pace from seeing SP.

For those who've had success with the 9/10 model types on the website what's the secret there? Is it just a higher ppm amount? The ones I've talked to have asked for 700-1000 per meet which to me is really high. Max I've done is 400 per meet. I'm not sure if theres a standard rate so maybe I'm just being a cheapass.

I saw someone else get chirped earlier in the thread but I actually wouldn't mind some tips haha.

Yup, per my experience, the only hurdle with 9s and 10s is extremely high allowance. I have been asked 800-1000 per meet. I do not think the posts here that mention dating 9s and 10s with only 300-400 allowance are referring to models. Perhaps it might be 9s and 10s for these guys and 6s or 7s for rest of us.

 

[Uuoomkin12]

I've had one I met at a hotel right away and one where we met for coffee beforehand. I actually prefer the coffee date, it's nice to meet and chat beforehand.

Recently I've had a lot of women expect full compensation for the initial coffee date. I've been tempted a few times to give in as those have been the hottest women but my logic has won out thus far and I've been able to move on.

 

[Tony2000]

Very similar to many of my experiences.

BTW, how did the date go last night?

It went great. She has a smoking hot body and the sex was awesome.
The connection was just OK .... I didn't feel the connection that I have had with some other SBs.
I will probably see her again but also keep looking.

 

[Tony2000]

Yeah think 400 is reasonable. I think all the 800+s are pros and are doing it as a living basically are SPs. Also some of them are willling to go lower to like around 600, they just throw our huge numbers. So far I've only had success meeting girls at hotels and then fucking basically right away, do you guys take them out?

I prefer to meet for coffee or drinks rather than go directly to a hotel. It allows me to assess that they are going to be a good match.
Of course, if you are just horny you can go straight to the hotel .... haha!

 

[shack]

I will probably see her again but also keep looking.

That's the way to do it. It's not like you're in a committed relationship or anything.

How long was the date?

 

[FunInToronto2023]

So much good info in this thread. Been using SA the last couple of weeks with moderate success. I've been able to have a couple of successful meet ups but the girls have been very normal and not what I would consider model types that have been mentioned here. The experience itself is very different than with an SP, it's much more genuine and real. It was actually very enjoyable and a nice change of pace from seeing SP.

For those who've had success with the 9/10 model types on the website what's the secret there? Is it just a higher ppm amount? The ones I've talked to have asked for 700-1000 per meet which to me is really high. Max I've done is 400 per meet. I'm not sure if theres a standard rate so maybe I'm just being a cheapass.

I saw someone else get chirped earlier in the thread but I actually wouldn't mind some tips haha.

Feel free to DM me

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yup, per my experience, the only hurdle with 9s and 10s is extremely high allowance. I have been asked 800-1000 per meet. I do not think the posts here that mention dating 9s and 10s with only 300-400 allowance are referring to models. Perhaps it might be 9s and 10s for these guys and 6s or 7s for rest of us.

Wow that is a really high allowance. I've only ever given 200-300 per meet up. I'm good looking, late 40s, in great shape and outgoing/nice which all definitely helps. I think a lot of the girls I've seen have some daddy issues (I hate typing that but just reflecting/analyzing). I have been with SB girls that any guy would say are a 9 or 10 and some that most guys would call OK like a 6 or 7. The rating of them is hilariously gross though. I can easily be with a girl who most guys call a 6 vs. a 10 girl based on personality alone. Thinking out loud, I hooked up with an insanely hot, tall model, we had great sex and she was into me but because she was only 22 with no real life experience, the conversation was lame. Another girl I saw is not insanely hot (also tall, most guys would say she's a 6 or 7) but we met several times, had great conversation (she's 29), we're in the same industry and the sex was just as fantastic, maybe even more so, than the hot model types I've hooked up with.

 

[GeeBee]

Wow that is a really high allowance. I've only ever given 200-300 per meet up. I'm good looking, late 40s, in great shape and outgoing/nice which all definitely helps. I think a lot of the girls I've seen have some daddy issues (I hate typing that but just reflecting/analyzing). I have been with SB girls that any guy would say are a 9 or 10 and some that most guys would call OK like a 6 or 7. The rating of them is hilariously gross though. I can easily be with a girl who most guys call a 6 vs. a 10 girl based on personality alone. Thinking out loud, I hooked up with an insanely hot, tall model, we had great sex and she was into me but because she was only 22 with no real life experience, the conversation was lame. Another girl I saw is not insanely hot (also tall, most guys would say she's a 6 or 7) but we met several times, had great conversation (she's 29), we're in the same industry and the sex was just as fantastic, maybe even more so, than the hot model types I've hooked up with.

I’d agree that the best looking young SB’s are not always the best arrangements. If conversation and a bit of connection are important to you younger is not always the best route.

Having said that I met a girl about 10 times over a few months who was a 20 year old emo chick type. Not a model type at all, but had a smoking body under the baggy clothes, piercings and ever changing hair colour. She was also quite intellectual for her age and we enjoyed our time and conversations. Best of all she gave me the most incredible head I’ve ever had from any woman in my life!! pro SP’s included. Holy shit, she was a natural, and an absolute horned up tiger in the sack most of the time.

As the old adage goes, you can’t judge a book by its cover.

 

[Tony2000]

Wow that is a really high allowance. I've only ever given 200-300 per meet up. I'm good looking, late 40s, in great shape and outgoing/nice which all definitely helps. I think a lot of the girls I've seen have some daddy issues (I hate typing that but just reflecting/analyzing). I have been with SB girls that any guy would say are a 9 or 10 and some that most guys would call OK like a 6 or 7. The rating of them is hilariously gross though. I can easily be with a girl who most guys call a 6 vs. a 10 girl based on personality alone. Thinking out loud, I hooked up with an insanely hot, tall model, we had great sex and she was into me but because she was only 22 with no real life experience, the conversation was lame. Another girl I saw is not insanely hot (also tall, most guys would say she's a 6 or 7) but we met several times, had great conversation (she's 29), we're in the same industry and the sex was just as fantastic, maybe even more so, than the hot model types I've hooked up with.

You are lucky if you can get a meet for 300. I try to keep it in the 400 or 500 range.
Yes, many women on the site want 1000 but I just say no.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

I’d agree that the best looking young SB’s are not always the best arrangements. If conversation and a bit of connection are important to you younger is not always the best route.

Having said that I met a girl about 10 times over a few months who was a 20 year old emo chick type. Not a model type at all, but had a smoking body under the baggy clothes, piercings and ever changing hair colour. She was also quite intellectual for her age and we enjoyed our time and conversations. Best of all she gave me the most incredible head I’ve ever had from any woman in my life!! pro SP’s included. Holy shit, she was a natural, and an absolute horned up tiger in the sack most of the time.

As the old adage goes, you can’t judge a book by its cover.

Wow that sounds like a 19 year old SB I met this past winter. We met up and hopped in the back seat of my car and banged it out for about an hour. She was kind of emo with partially coloured hair and baggy clothes - and took off her pants and top to show a perfect banging body underneath. Amazing DFK and when we were going at it she kind of squeaked and it was such a turn on. She got so super soaking wet before I slid in and it was good we got super horned up first because I don't know if I would have fit without so much natural lube she was so tight.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

You are lucky if you can get a meet for 300. I try to keep it in the 400 or 500 range.
Yes, many women on the site want 1000 but I just say no.

I've had numerous meets for only 200 each time. Also met several that have been happy to come to a nice hotel, maybe grab a bit of room service and wine, we hook up and they don't expect any funds

 

[Meaning]

I've had numerous meets for only 200 each time. Also met several that have been happy to come to a nice hotel, maybe grab a bit of room service and wine, we hook up and they don't expect any funds

Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.

 

[empmizh]

Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.

Pretty sure my man's legit but I do think he is a chad though so its not really replicable for us normies

 

[John Wick]

Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.

LOL! These are almost on par with 'shack-level' bombastic improbable and largely unbelievable claims!

 

[IMBob]

I'm in PEI for the summer . Seeking Arr - one month only and didn't renew. Tinder Gold , pof , bumble , swinging Heaven, have all been duds here . A few conversations only with ladies on SugarDaddyMeet and Secret Benefits. One lady via SDM replied- "1K and I'm there " ..... next . Having more luck with Hinge ; a civilian dating site . I met a 22 yr old ebony via Hinge. I'm lots older. Dates and dinners , but no compensation otherwise . Has anyone found similar on Hinge in the GTA ?

 

[art van dele]

Don’t get your hopes high there’s a good chance of her cancelling, not showing up or simply stop replying but you never know. The best approach is to keep the expectations low( not talking about quality or your standards) when it comes to them actually showing up.
One of the ways to mitigate ghosting is to keep the time between messaging and actual date as short as possible.

 

[jsanchez]

Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.

Take this whole thread with a bag of salt, SA and SB sites need to make money.