Sugar Dating Experience
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I don't like making my first impression in a car. I live literally 1 minute from a subway stop. I tell them that if they can make their way here, I'll drive them home.
I mean , what comes first ? SA or the mental health issues ? Or do they coincide for any reason but that one is making a trade off they maybe weren’t ready to ? Aren’t mature enough? Are seeing what the pros and cons of what ones wants vs needs are ? If they need help and need the money to get help does this keep them in that cycle ?
do they have vices ? Do they think of them as such ? This can be telling. It’s a cycle.
maybe you can be in a mature position to suggest lightly how to seek the resources they need outside of what you’re offering.
It’s about trying to adhere to classic dating outlines. She’ll think better of you as well. Or at least offer to pay her cash when she Ubers to you. It’s a better first impression. Otherwise you seem lazy and unwilling. Or are you making it clear you’re providing dinner and cash on that meeting ?
The party people are the worst. I almost want to say you can just ask them what music they listen to and this can be your filter. Or if you feel like the playlist they put on is just the same song on repeat they are very high and don’t know it’s the same song.
they don’t want to disclose where they live and they don’t really trust you the first time around. It’s a safety thing
dont mind the issues as long as they are good in bed, not trying to change anyone just looking for a good time.
Yeah. I know it's not perfect but sometimes it has to do with where they live. If they're within a 15-20 minute drive it's OK. But if I've got to drive out to Mississauga and back during rush hour, no thanks. But hopping on the subway is such an easy thing. There's also a GO Bus stop right there as well. I've had girls come in from Oshawa and even Bowmanville that way.
I let them know that drinks and dinner are on me. I also tell them that if it's just a meet and greet I don't give any cash. However, if we consummate the arrangement that same date, then I'll pay the agreed upon amount.
The easiest is if they agree to meet me at my place. I have drinks, can cook, set a nice mood etc. and we have privacy to get to know each other. I totally understand if they're not comfortable but surprisingly, I'd say 40-50% of the girls agree to a 1st date at my place. And those almost always end out with sex.
What if she comes to your place and her ass and belly is twice bigger than the picture? It’s bad enough at the restaurant, but having it at your own place is gonna suck even worse.
Thank you very much for your company. It was great. I’m going to have to think about it. I’ll be in touch.
What I would want to know is how to politely ask a woman to disclose her dress size before meeting. So tired of these angled pictures where you cannot say whether her stern is the size of a titanic.
Recently had two dates like that and couldn't part ways fast enough. So annoying.
Recently had two dates like that and couldn't part ways fast enough. So annoying.
If you get their actual number and maybe sync it with Instagram you might see more photos. Had that happen a few times and avoided some before even meeting.
Honestly I blame SA's whole brand change and the fact that they no longer advertise on universities. You'd think in this economy you'd find more college and uni girls but the lack of advertising which leads to word of mouth, it's sadly gone down a bit based on the old demographics.
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otherwise it’s a gotrain.
How far do they live from the gotrain. Do they have to bus. Or Uber there. Then why not offer to get their Uber to you since itll get her to you faster and with less stress.
The subway doesn’t go to Mississauga unless you mean Kipling. That’s Etobicoke.
otherwise it’s a gotrain.
How far do they live from the gotrain. Do they have to bus. Or Uber there. Then why not offer to get their Uber to you since itll get her to you faster and with less stress.
This is mean. Dont do it at the restaurant where you’re going to make her cry and embarrassed in public. Ugly is a harsh word.
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Many SBs live downtown so the subway option comes up quite often.
I was using Mississauga as an example of a place I wouldn't drive to. It's usually SBs with cars that make Mississauga viable.
Many SBs live downtown so the subway option comes up quite often.
a lot of ppl say that but I fear it's something else, like a culture shift.
A few years ago being a slut/hoe seemed popular as a manifestation of female empowerment etc. Sugaring was so amazing that I went for months if not years without hiring an escort.
But now it seems like sluttiness become less popular
either because of all the tiktok incel whining about womens high body count equal less value or who knows what else.I really hope I am wrong about it.
My last true sugar relationship ended about 18 months ago. I was seeing a few girls episodically and discretely since then, but in the past number of months their circumstance has changed and our relationship has ended.
My experience at the sugar bowl since has never been worse.
It’s rare to meet anyone who doesn’t have unreasonable or unrealistic $$$ expectations.
The scams have become more sophisticated and prevalent.
Some connections I have made, make it clear that $$$ is expected on the first meet. I regard this tactic as a pseudo scam. There is never any intent on her part to ever go beyond first meet.
SA used to be a way to meet and connect in mutually beneficial relationships.
It seems to have sunk to “get what I can from this punter” and its just not getting better.
My experience at the sugar bowl since has never been worse.
It’s rare to meet anyone who doesn’t have unreasonable or unrealistic $$$ expectations.
The scams have become more sophisticated and prevalent.
Some connections I have made, make it clear that $$$ is expected on the first meet. I regard this tactic as a pseudo scam. There is never any intent on her part to ever go beyond first meet.
SA used to be a way to meet and connect in mutually beneficial relationships.
It seems to have sunk to “get what I can from this punter” and its just not getting better.
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