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GeeBee

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There's a sucker born every minute.
There also seems to be a rich fucker with a trust fund or otherwise incredibly deep pockets around every corner. I hope they, along with the athletes, musicians etc… have more high end and elite channels to find the models and groupies to become Sugar babes, that we mere mortals are unaware of. But a good looking girl on Seeking hears about these whales being out there and decides to try her luck. I can’t blame her.

She’s free to ask, and we are free to say no.
 

shack

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There also seems to be a rich fucker with a trust fund or otherwise incredibly deep pockets around every corner. I hope they, along with the athletes, musicians etc… have more high end and elite channels to find the models and groupies to become Sugar babes, that we mere mortals are unaware of. But a good looking girl on Seeking hears about these whales being out there and decides to try her luck. I can’t blame her.

She’s free to ask, and we are free to say no.
If she's unable to find the whales of fantasy, once she gets enough rejections, her standards will be lowered.
 

futt bucker

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I also consider the total cost per meet. If the girl can host then I subtract 100 to 150 from the cost I'd have to otherwise pay for AirBnB or hotel and am willing to pay more. But most that can host are escorts.
 

waxtrax

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Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
 

futt bucker

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Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
Don't use your personal number. Use a virtual number with an app like TextNow. Leave no trace to you.
 

rajput

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Girls are asking but sane guys are refusing. I've been able to get young and cute girls (20s) for $300-$350 per meet. I've been asked for 1K per meet or $750 per meet but always end the discussion right there if they are not willing to come down. Some will ask for $600 to start but can be talked down to $300.
I'm too cheap to even pay the membership fee.
 

GeeBee

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Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
Use a burner, just like you would with SP’s. Also, don’t use your real name, keep everything in cash, and don't let her see your ID or credit cards. I know it sounds paranoid but there are some scammers out there in the SB world and IMO you can’t be too careful. Particularly as a married man, I take every precaution I can.
 

waxtrax

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Use a burner, just like you would with SP’s. Also, don’t use your real name, keep everything in cash, and don't let her see your ID or credit cards. I know it sounds paranoid but there are some scammers out there in the SB world and IMO you can’t be too careful. Particularly as a married man, I take every precaution I can.
Thanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
 
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GeeBee

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Thanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way :)

As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
 

waxtrax

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Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way :)

As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
I know exactly what you mean by the thrill factor. I use the analogy of collecting sports cards, like after opening so many packs, you finally find the rookie gem card!
 
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Urbanexplorer

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I’m talking to this one girl who seems great but leans towards platonic. In your experience, does this hold true 100 percent of the time or are the girls willing to adjust based on the guy?
I met a great girl. 21 at the time. Platonic for 2 months then intimate. After a year stopped even giving a gift. 2 years in she moved back to US. Then fiancée left me for unrelated and had two heart breaks at once lol. I’m a damn fool.
 
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Urbanexplorer

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I know exactly what you mean by the thrill factor. I use the analogy of collecting sports cards, like after opening so many packs, you finally find the rookie gem card!
It’s actually addictive. I haven’t been paying to message people for about 3-4 months and I still check who is “New” every few days to see if there is a top prospect worth handing a signing bonus to lol. It’s bad.
 

xix

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Be careful with some of the ladies. I remember a 17 yr old with fake ID at a strip club. She got booted.

See this movie to understand some issues.

 

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Prices keep going up on Seeking
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When you login go straight to messages and the discount jumps to 25%.
 

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Prices keep going up on Seeking
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The owner of the site has his own sugar baby to pay for
 

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I also consider the total cost per meet. If the girl can host then I subtract 100 to 150 from the cost I'd have to otherwise pay for AirBnB or hotel and am willing to pay more. But most that can host are escorts.
I agree with what you wrote. But in my experience the ones that can host are all MILFs/single mums. Which is the age range I prefer anyway so it works for me.
 
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