Sugar Dating Experience

waxtrax

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I met a few ladies via Hinge , even on a free account ( no ppm , but gifts and requests for grocery money etc. Less transactional - closer to vanilla dating ) . But lots of messages and time. I got banned this week .... smh . I wasn't harassing . No recourse. Appeal not successful . This is a common occurrence from Google search. SDM has a small female user base. I have met a few ladies on that site as well
Banned for what? did they say?
 

IMBob

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Banned for what? did they say?
BS -
Lots of random Hinge banned stories . and PITA to open an new account without getting banned again ' new phone, new phone # , different photos ( erase Meta Data ) etc .

Your account was banned for violating one or more of our policies. Click here to log into Hinge, where you can learn more about why you were banned and how to appeal if that information is available to you. To see these details, you may need to update to the latest version of the Hinge app.

If you are a paid member, follow the steps on either the iTunes site or the Google Play site to cancel your subscription and request a refund.

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Hinge
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Thank you for contacting us regarding your Hinge account.


Our team has reviewed your appeal request and confirmed that you are in violation of our Terms of Service and our Community Guidelines. Therefore your account will remain banned. This decision is informed and final and subsequent appeals will not be considered.


Please understand that this decision came as a result of careful review of your appeal description, any reports on your account, consideration from our content moderation team and human review of any automated decision making that may have contributed to your ban. While we recognize it may be frustrating not to fully understand the specifics behind this ban, please know that we keep these decisions private to protect the anonymity of any users who may have reported you.


Per our Terms of Service, Hinge reserves the right to investigate and, if appropriate, suspend or terminate your account without a refund if you have violated these Terms, misused our Services, or behaved in a way that Hinge regards as inappropriate or unlawful, on or off our Services.
 
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waxtrax

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hmm I didn't realized they're so tight on their policies. I noticed some girls they're accounts disappeared for some reason so I guess it happens to them too. So unless you used a different number, you'll remained banned?
 
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RobI

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Is SDM starting to eclipse Seeking or is Seeking still the top?
Outside from North America, Seeking is probably still better just because of the name recognition and more members. SDM is great in Canada and USA, though, it's cheaper, and you don't get banned if if you try and negotiate on the site, though lately I've seen some profiles on Seeking that have PPM spelled out funny like "P* PM"

On the other hand, you see a lot of girls on both sides, and a couple of familiar faces from other places:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9b425b19-455f-4be1-9ac3-eb6bbc39d8a7

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73087826

(a couple of ladies from Seduction and other spas/agencies are on these sites)

So yes, I prefer SDM myself, but both have lots of room to grow :)
 

RobI

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BS -
Lots of random Hinge banned stories . and PITA to open an new account without getting banned again ' new phone, new phone # , different photos ( erase Meta Data ) etc .

Your account was banned for violating one or more of our policies. Click here to log into Hinge, where you can learn more about why you were banned and how to appeal if that information is available to you. To see these details, you may need to update to the latest version of the Hinge app.
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So basically a no soliciting or anything that sounds like sex-for-money? That's funny becasue Seeking/SDM has had that right on their sites home page for years. I guess the lesson is to take the conversation off Hinge?
 

leaglebeagle

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Question for people who travel. Do you scope out pots before you travel? I am travelling now more and now really the only time I spend in Toronto is mid-late summer. Was thinking of giving SA a shot but given the effort people have said, I'm wondering if I should start like a week or two before I travel. Also is summer a better time to meet some on these sites?
 

oral.com

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Jul 21, 2004
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Question for people who travel. Do you scope out pots before you travel? I am travelling now more and now really the only time I spend in Toronto is mid-late summer. Was thinking of giving SA a shot but given the effort people have said, I'm wondering if I should start like a week or two before I travel. Also is summer a better time to meet some on these sites?
I had an arrangement with one SB who had an account on Misstravel.
It connects potential girls with guys who are traveling. She said it was hit and miss. Sometimes it was good, sometimes awful and awkward.
 

GeeBee

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Question for people who travel. Do you scope out pots before you travel? I am travelling now more and now really the only time I spend in Toronto is mid-late summer. Was thinking of giving SA a shot but given the effort people have said, I'm wondering if I should start like a week or two before I travel. Also is summer a better time to meet some on these sites?
Start long before your trip and make some connections. Even if you’ve got arrangements made have a backup in case she flakes. The leg work may not be worth it in a city like TO where agency girls are so readily available and reviews are easy to find. Just IMO
 

leaglebeagle

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Start long before your trip and make some connections. Even if you’ve got arrangements made have a backup in case she flakes. The leg work may not be worth it in a city like TO where agency girls are so readily available and reviews are easy to find. Just IMO
Good to know. I want to give it a shot. The flexibility sounds better than agency girls though but as someone said earlier in the thread, if someone flakes, there is always an agency available.
 

GeeBee

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Outside from North America, Seeking is probably still better just because of the name recognition and more members. SDM is great in Canada and USA, though, it's cheaper, and you don't get banned if if you try and negotiate on the site, though lately I've seen some profiles on Seeking that have PPM spelled out funny like "P* PM"

On the other hand, you see a lot of girls on both sides, and a couple of familiar faces from other places:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9b425b19-455f-4be1-9ac3-eb6bbc39d8a7

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73087826

(a couple of ladies from Seduction and other spas/agencies are on these sites)

So yes, I prefer SDM myself, but both have lots of room to grow :)
Question about SDM.

I’ve used Seeking for several years with good success, and also had a profile on Secret Benefits for a while (until I learned my lesson lol). After reading suggestions in this thread I set up a SDM profile a few days ago, but the photo requirements have me a bit confused. Apparently you have to have a full face pic as your main profile pic? WTF?? According to the girls I’ve met in the sugar world, at least half of the guys on the sugar sites are married, and there is no way most guys like me are putting our full, clear faces on there for everyone to see. Full pic to the girl once you start to chat?, sure, but my main has always been either blurred or just a torso shot of my well dressed frame. It’s never failed me.

Why would SDM want to exclude married, and rightly cautious, guys from being front and centre on their site? And does anyone know of a work around to the problem?
 

markedwards

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Question about SDM.

I’ve used Seeking for several years with good success, and also had a profile on Secret Benefits for a while (until I learned my lesson lol). After reading suggestions in this thread I set up a SDM profile a few days ago, but the photo requirements have me a bit confused. Apparently you have to have a full face pic as your main profile pic? WTF?? According to the girls I’ve met in the sugar world, at least half of the guys on the sugar sites are married, and there is no way most guys like me are putting our full, clear faces on there for everyone to see. Full pic to the girl once you start to chat?, sure, but my main has always been either blurred or just a torso shot of my well dressed frame. It’s never failed me.

Why would SDM want to exclude married, and rightly cautious, guys from being front and centre on their site? And does anyone know of a work around to the problem?
What you can do is first upload your face pic and then get it verified (5mins). Afterwards, you can put your 'torso' pic as the main photo and private your face pic. That worked for me.

My exp with sugar dating:
I recently got into sugaring world. Found my first SB on SDM and she is very young and hott. I am curious from others here -- how do you deal with a young SB who I can see is becoming clinky. I am partly to blame because I do reply to her texts cuz mostly I do enjoy her company. Though the sex is great but not anywhere close to SP great :D Maybe I need to change my age range to above 25...
 
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IMBob

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A recent Seeking conversation with a cute SB. I know there has been inflation , but where are they getting the numbers from ?

Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?
her - 2000
? Allowance per month ? Could you ever host/entertain at your place ?

her - Per month 4000. I want to get my own place soon if I do then yes just have to save a bit more
 

Leimonis

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A recent Seeking conversation with a cute SB. I know there has been inflation , but where are they getting the numbers from .

Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?
her - 2000
? Allowance per month ? Could you ever host/entertain at your place ?

her - Per month 4000. I want to get my own place soon if I do then yes just have to save a bit more
block and move on
 
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Leimonis

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What is the purpose of blocking? Just tell her that she's out of your range and then don't reply to her messages.
Then she’s gonna change pics and you’ll be hitting her again and wasting time. I dunno, I like blocking. I brings finality. Like she’s not gonna hit you with “oh I have a 60% off this week”. She’s always gonna feel like you should have paid more. It’s not gonna be good so why see her face on your screen one time more than you have to?
 
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dchoye

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How do you stay patient on the slow responders?
How and when do you decide to cut the bait?
 

Leimonis

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what happened to the promo code window when paying on seeking? I am trying to pay and I can't see it now :mad:
it ain't much but still annoying
 
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