wouldn't be the only issue on which Fuji has all sides covered -- as his "clear" opinion .
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Brother weirdo!!!! welcome aboard, come get your badge of honour. I'd like to ditch that ceiling cat, too fucking lame for me.
I have most respect for guys w game; hobby a little, take some risk in life , make mistakes, have an open mind, get into the odd verbal joust, behave like men!
Sorry to hear, but if that's the case, it's time for a change, ASAP, or at least a dump and flush.
Well Hemi, i am currently unattached. When in a relationship I actually dont hobby. I feel for you though, even though Ive always bailed, i know all too well the stale feeling and the build up of tension ! Although I would never tolerate the morning to nite nonsense some guys accept. It seems to me that her job is to build up your ego, and your job to do the same for her.
When w a gf i pay close attention to her centres of influence; her mom, her sisters, her bff's , including her inevitable gay best friend ... because they ultimately seem to get more involved than necessary in our thing. My buddies never meddle in my business, but "she" always seems to get all sorts of unsolicited counsel !!!!
When not in a relationship I date about 2, 3 times a week. I will commit to a relationship only after at least a month of serious written correspondence ... in addition to spending time w a lady. I feel very strongly that a woman who can express herself is super attractive to me and at least then, there is a reasonable shot that THE number one relationship killer, communication, is possible with her.
I hobby out of curiosity and convenience. I will "go nuts" from time to time, go thru the Cupids roster sort of thing, and then there are times when I will focus in on one regular (like now I have a crazysexycool, as yet unreviewed ultra gem, who has basically decided to focus on me!! ) I also travel a lot, so i have fwb/ whatever you want to call them transactional arrangement in about a dozen cities around the world. So at the minute, the odds of me committing to a real reln'ship are very low ! Until i get the clock ticking / gotta have kids urge.
When w a gf i pay close attention to her centres of influence; her mom, her sisters, her bff's , including her inevitable gay best friend ... because they ultimately seem to get more involved than necessary in our thing. My buddies never meddle in my business, but "she" always seems to get all sorts of unsolicited counsel !!!!
When not in a relationship I date about 2, 3 times a week. I will commit to a relationship only after at least a month of serious written correspondence ... in addition to spending time w a lady. I feel very strongly that a woman who can express herself is super attractive to me and at least then, there is a reasonable shot that THE number one relationship killer, communication, is possible with her.
I hobby out of curiosity and convenience. I will "go nuts" from time to time, go thru the Cupids roster sort of thing, and then there are times when I will focus in on one regular (like now I have a crazysexycool, as yet unreviewed ultra gem, who has basically decided to focus on me!! ) I also travel a lot, so i have fwb/ whatever you want to call them transactional arrangement in about a dozen cities around the world. So at the minute, the odds of me committing to a real reln'ship are very low ! Until i get the clock ticking / gotta have kids urge.
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get out. she sounds like an abusive personality. it don't get better. just worse.
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I have one side covered. The side of democracy and human rights. In particular, I support democracies against non democracies, and oppose any move to make democracies less democratic, especially when it is done in the name of fighting terror.
Setting up a show trial that undermines the rule of law does not strike me as being the pro democracy viewpoint.
At the same time I strongly support attacks on foreign terrorists who seek to attack and destroy our institutions, or those of other democratic nations.
It just burns me when we destroy those institutions ourselves in the name of fighting them.
Since I am in favour of democracy itself, rather than simply being "pro Western", that has put me on opposite sides of the gitmo debate, or the situation in Egypt, relative to people who agree with me in opposing terrorism in places like Israel or Afghanistan.
In Afghanistan I also find myself strongly supporting intervention there while being deeply troubled by the way it has sometimes been done.
My position is consistent but principled rather than ideological or partisan.
Hahahahaha sure Fooooji just as long as the voters in your "democracy" don't need to produce photo Id.
Exactly !! i thinks its perfectly reasonable and simply "nice" to from time to time put some cards on the table.
Its good that you are paying close attention to how she makes you feel. No one, partner, business associate, TerB Poster, parents, should put you down and the problem is that you can only control how you respond to it, it is very rare to have the other person actually change (in my experience). I only hang out with people who elevate my life experience.
Without exception, every single time I have met an "online friend" in the flesh, it was awkward. Sometimes just a little awkward, sometimes cripplingly awkward, but always awkward. I could only imagine how awkward it would be to meet someone whom I have gotten to know based on a shared interest in hobbying.
Can someone explain to me how the very bottom section of TERB works ... it s the "whats going on" and it lists a bunch of members TERBnames and indicates when they are on TERB. Is this list comprehensive? does it list everyone who is currently logged in? if not, why not? and how is it determined whose TERBname shows up or not?
I previously raised the question why the number of "guests" seem to outnumber "members" by a ratio of 4-5 to 1. Never got a rational answer.
P.S. Not sure there are any formal "alliances" but it does appear there are some "mutual admiration societies" and "cliques" on the Board. I once accidentally clicked on the profile of a certain member and noticed he had 10 million (hyperbole) "friends".
Maybe the board software counts those browsing with their privacy setting on "invisible" as a guest. Otherwise, there are hella lot of folks just lurking, reading reviews, and never contributin'.
you become invisible in real life too. you can walk around and people can't see you.. try it.
