The Confessional

[LC18]

I see SW to compensate for the poor choice of life partner I have made, with whom I’m loyal to because of family pressure. I have no hate towards her but we have zero compatibility.

I hear about that a lot and it might be an unpopular opinion but I find it healthy. At least healthier than if you were cheating with a tinder girl. You know it’s just for sex and you’ll never be romantically involved. She’ll never call your house in the middle of the night to get you in trouble, won’t show up at your office unannounced.

 

[Mandalorian]

I hear about that a lot and it might be an unpopular opinion but I find it healthy. At least healthier than if you were cheating with a tinder girl. You know it’s just for sex and you’ll never be romantically involved. She’ll never call your house in the middle of the night to get you in trouble, won’t show up at your office unannounced.

That’s exactly it. I have told many girls I have seen that they are marriage savers. Not everyone who’s unhappily married wants a divorce. There is an alternate pathway and you ladies provide that. You’re doing god’s work

 

[Nickelodeon]

Well, I have mentally "objectified" and "sexualized" every Asian woman I've known. This may be the result of having sex over the years with Asian women of all ages from 20's to '60's. I just can't help it...but when I see my new asian neighbor milf bending over to get groceries out of her MB SUV, I realize I'm hopelessly lost in this mental state...which is not entirely a bad thing.

 

[LC18]

When I was younger (18-19) and in my first apartment, I would post ads on ██████████ and ask people if they wanted to ████ ████ ██ ███████ ███ ██████. I wouldn’t post a photo of myself but would have a detailed description of myself. I would ask men to send photos of themselves first and then I would send one back if they were decent enough. I am really not proud to say this and I feel grateful nothing bad ever happened. There was definitely a lot of weird men. To be fair that’s what’s expected from posting ████████ ██ ██ ██████████ ███ ████.

 

[shack]

 

[NotADcotor]

Like remember when I told you
That I knew Pauly Shore?
Pauly Shore that's a lie
I don't know what I said that for
I borrowed your Chapstick
(from you) without asking
Oh, and I tried out your nose hair trimmer
Too and, by the way
Your diamond ring is cubic zirconium
I killed your goldfish accidentally
Just replaced it with another one

Threw up on your dog last time
I had too much to drink
There've been times when I peed in your sink

I'm still trying to figure out
Why I used your toothbrush to
Clean off the bathroom grout
Oh, and sometimes, in private
Really like to dress up like Shirley Temple
And spank myself with a hockey stick
Hockey stick my boss thinks I'm a jerk
Didn't get that raise
I haven't changed my underwear in 27 days
And when I'm kissing you
I fantasize you're a midget
I'm so sorry, Debbie I mean, Bridget

Gave you buttered toast I dropped and
Picked up off the floor
FYI it was not a cold sore

You don't know how hard it is
For me to tell you this
But you remember that shirt you got
Me for my birthday? Well
I returned it for store credit that thing
Was hideous what were you thinking? Oh
By the way
I wasn't really sick last week i just didn't
Want to go to your stupid office picnic
Oh, and when I told you at breakfast we were
All out of Rice Krispies, what I meant was
There was only enough left for me sorry

Once I blew my nose
And then I wiped it on your cat (cat)
And I lied, yes
That dress makes you look fat

 

[superman12]

I hear about that a lot and it might be an unpopular opinion but I find it healthy. At least healthier than if you were cheating with a tinder girl. You know it’s just for sex and you’ll never be romantically involved. She’ll never call your house in the middle of the night to get you in trouble, won’t show up at your office unannounced.

You girls have no idea how much of a marriage saver you are for so many men so thank you. If it wasn't for sp's I would be a depressed individual who would have gotten a divorce a long time which also would have made me a poor man.

 

[IM469]

I see SW to compensate for the poor choice of life partner I have made, with whom I’m loyal to because of family pressure. I have no hate towards her but we have zero compatibility.

For the record I was almost in the same position as you. I was unhappy and uncomfortable but it wasn't my wife - it was me. I didn't have a woman in the wings. I would have not trusted a woman that dated a married man (ie: Too comfortable in deceitful relationships). I needed the change - I recognised I was not on a road with a good ending. I made my mind up and talked honestly with my wife. I gave her all the support and everything to make the situation have as little impact on the kids as possible (the house). I was there when she needed me and for the kids events She is now in a great relationship and we are still close friends. It was difficult but worth the effort. We are all happy and not in some dark unhappy relationship.

 

[Mandalorian]

You assume too much.

 

[Leimonis]

Man up and get out.

I’ve noticed that men tend to be way more lazy and cowardly than women when it comes to leaving an unhappy marriage.
So perhaps a more accurate way to say it would be “woman up and get out”

 

[LC18]

How is it healthy to live and share your one and only life with another human because of family pressure? Killing oneself is healthier than that

Whats healthy is to not destroy your family. Sometimes it’s the lack of sex that makes a couple split. Like it or not, sex takes a huge place in a couple’s dynamic.

 

[bazokajoe]

Reading through this post and trying to guess who is telling the truth and who is bullshitting.

 

[RZG]

Well, I have mentally "objectified" and "sexualized" every Asian woman I've known. This may be the result of having sex over the years with Asian women of all ages from 20's to '60's. I just can't help it...but when I see my new asian neighbor milf bending over to get groceries out of her MB SUV, I realize I'm hopelessly lost in this mental state...which is not entirely a bad thing.

I feel just like you,...only I`d never admit it

 

[kherg007]

My confession: I'm active on terb.

 

[LC18]

I’ve slept with my bestfriend who is a woman twice and it felt weird. We never tried again, we never talk about it and we have decided to decline threesome invites moving forward.

I don’t think anyone in our entourage knows we have slept together because the man we had sex with was from Australia and went back home.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I’ve slept with my bestfriend who is a woman twice and it felt weird. We never tried again, we never talk about it and we have decided to decline threesome invites moving forward.

I don’t think anyone in our entourage knows we have slept together because the man we had sex with was from Australia and went back home.

Better hope it wasn't this guy.

 

[squeezer]

A long long time ago I was dating a young lady. It got serious to the point she brought me home to meet her parents and sister. To my shock, I had banged her sister twice and that was because her little sis was an escort. The sis and I should have won an Emmy for the acting job we pulled off. I of course kept my mouth shut and booked her again after the meet-up and even after the breakup.

 

[seanzo]

I've never had sex with anyone other than an escort and I've literally lost count of how many different ones I've booked through the 17 odd years I've been at it. It used to bother me a lot, to the point of being suicidal about it. Now I'm not as bothered by it, but I mostly just keep myself busy by working 60 hour weeks and getting drunk on my time off

 

[GeeBee]

I've never had sex with anyone other than an escort and I've literally lost count of how many different ones I've booked through the 17 odd years I've been at it. It used to bother me a lot, to the point of being suicidal about it. Now I'm not as bothered by it, but I mostly just keep myself busy by working 60 hour weeks and getting drunk on my time off

Don’t beat yourself up over this man. No one is getting hurt, mislead or exploited. You’re living a good life, and sleeping with girls most guys can only dream of.

I quit drinking a long time ago and it’s amazing how much money has gone into my budget for escorts vs. down my throat. Getting comfortable in your own skin makes us all better people, and I’m a firm believer that escorts are one of the best things I’ve ever done for my mental health.

 

[LC18]

Thank you for sharing. It makes me sad to know that some of you are struggling and aren’t in a happy place right now.

I’m glad to know that spending time with my colleagues has brought you joy and smiles.