Miranda,
TTT's comment at the beginning was to recap the recent history regarding this. Although her post did have a certain intensity to it I believe it was due to her frustration, rightfully so, with this issue. I don't believe she intended to attack you and only included you because you were part of the original events. Since you have stated that you have nothing to do with the new Toni now there has been no suggestion of you being involved in the current situation. The only response to you has been from others, not TTT, with regards to your defense of Tantalizing Toni.
TTT acknowledged in the first post of that first thread that she did not have exclusive use of the name "Toni". After that the issue was dropped.
The issue has resurfaced because the new Toni has now got the word "tigress" on her web site and is now pretending to be TTT. In fact, the word "tigress" is in quotes to highlight it.
So we have two Toni's that are black, similar height, similar builds and both use the word "tigress" to describe themselves. IANAL but if this were to go to court the second "tigress" would lose hands down. Before it was possible that this was a coincidence but now it is clear that it is a blatant rip off.
If as you said she didn't necessarily have control of the text on her web site then she should find a new web designer. There are a number of web designers on this site, myself included, that believe that the customer's web site IS the customer's web site (crazy idea, eh?). If the text was put up there out of her control then she is either naive or stupid. I hope it is the former rather than the latter.