I agree with your first statement, however nobody judges you. That is a very selfish, egotistical thing to say and what takes us further away from achieving full consciousness and awareness. It’s like saying be good to receive a reward or pray so you can go to heaven bullshit or treat others how you want to be treated. It is a control tactic invented by humans through the exploitation of our faith in god which undermines our own potential because we try to control others. Why can’t we just accept people and stop changing and manipulating them to become how we believe. Why not just let the people figure it out on their own within the confines of our society and governance structure and just BE who they think they are. Let people dig inside their own core and figure it out on their own regardless how long it takes.
God is infinite and in everything and everywhere. We are just a spiritual division of the infinite and live infinite until we become fully aware we are a division of god and if you keep digging will realize you are god. What happens then once you realize this. I think we just keep repeating the process and keep dividing and refining the spirit through our infinite reincarnations and infinite lifetimes not just on earth but anywhere there is life. Presently we are spirits having a human experience and refining our spirits and becoming more aware and conscious.
I am still not there to fully believe that we are god, however I understand the logic. I am happy accepting we are all part of god. I know this because each time I feel love for some one or some thing I feel god like a warm blanket giving me comfort, harmony and making it all make sense.