think with the brain, not the dick
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wow, what a comprehensive list of suggestions. this is what I like about terb!
some answers....
- no way I'm visiting the ugliest SP I can find. Never would be able to spend money on that.
- pros/cons, yeah for sure way more cons. What if SO finds out? money drain, disease, etc.
- definitely need to slap the salami more often
- get a gf that loves to fuck? well, my SO loves to fuck - but can't/won't provide some services I'm exploring with SP's.
- budget? what budget? been trying to do that, just not enough will power.
- no way I'm taking anti-libido drugs. Might as well neuter me like Spot!
- no time for second job (SO, kids, extra-curricular activities, family, etc.)
- do sexual addiction centres really exist?
- beatin my meat at work has happened at a regular interval, check!
- I do make more than $200/day, but expenses are through the roof these days!
- 'learn game'? what game, this hobbying game?
- and yes, damn that website is great. I've been doing the xhamster.com, youjizz.com, myfreecams.com circuit the past few months. Good to get some new sources!
Cheers gents!
some answers....
- no way I'm visiting the ugliest SP I can find. Never would be able to spend money on that.
- pros/cons, yeah for sure way more cons. What if SO finds out? money drain, disease, etc.
- definitely need to slap the salami more often
- get a gf that loves to fuck? well, my SO loves to fuck - but can't/won't provide some services I'm exploring with SP's.
- budget? what budget? been trying to do that, just not enough will power.
- no way I'm taking anti-libido drugs. Might as well neuter me like Spot!
- no time for second job (SO, kids, extra-curricular activities, family, etc.)
- do sexual addiction centres really exist?
- beatin my meat at work has happened at a regular interval, check!
- I do make more than $200/day, but expenses are through the roof these days!
- 'learn game'? what game, this hobbying game?
- and yes, damn that website is great. I've been doing the xhamster.com, youjizz.com, myfreecams.com circuit the past few months. Good to get some new sources!
Cheers gents!
Here's a good start.
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Go through the archives, starting with the earliest posts.
Ur welcome. Its the best isnt it. The fact that u wrote that with one hand kind of scares me ... Did u enjoy urself atleast ?
Ok, here's something I'm hoping someone might be able to comment on: the whole "game" and "PUA" movements seem very interesting to me, and have certainly encourage many guys to write about their encounters with women; which I think is great as sharing info is a great thing (as this site is a good example of). But here my issue with it: it seems like possibly one of the most time consuming things ever. PUA writers often talk about going out four nights a week, etc. So my comment is: yes I think you could bring home a good girl once a month if you went out four times a week, every week [this figure of one lay per month if you consistently go out 4 x per week shows up a lot in PUA literature], but who has time for that? Seriously, if you're a competitive guy in a professional sense going out this much, it would be the equivalent of a second job and would drain so much energy.
I think the PUA stuff is great entertaining stuff, but how realistic is this? I don't think I even know enough other guys who would have it in them to hall their asses to a club four times a week, if I wanted to. Do people go to clubs alone to practice this stuff? It really strikes me as one of those "If I had 18 monthes with nothing else on my plate..." kind of deals.
To put that in perspective, at my approximate hourly rate, four hours x four days x four weeks = shitload of SPs.
Anyone care to comment, especially anyone who actually does the PUA thing?
Also (to clarify) I'm not talking about normal dating here (which I do), but I'm talking about hardcore pick-up-artist "I have at least 1 one-night-stand a month with a club girl" kind of deal.
I think the PUA stuff is great entertaining stuff, but how realistic is this? I don't think I even know enough other guys who would have it in them to hall their asses to a club four times a week, if I wanted to. Do people go to clubs alone to practice this stuff? It really strikes me as one of those "If I had 18 monthes with nothing else on my plate..." kind of deals.
To put that in perspective, at my approximate hourly rate, four hours x four days x four weeks = shitload of SPs.
Anyone care to comment, especially anyone who actually does the PUA thing?
Also (to clarify) I'm not talking about normal dating here (which I do), but I'm talking about hardcore pick-up-artist "I have at least 1 one-night-stand a month with a club girl" kind of deal.
Very practical post. But also fail to consider that some of thesegirls will be looking for a relationship. Great if u are, but not so great if in the shoes of the op!
Oh another thing for our boy johnmclaren81. Don do the ugliest SP thing. Whenever I have a bad SP session it only makes me want another one, so I can "make-up for last time". My only suggestion is wane yourself off them slowly, like cutback a little bit (so maybe go from 1 a week to 1 every 2 weeks, then 1 every 4 weeks). Like quitting smoking. Also get a girlfriend if possible. And just imagine yourself as a poor bankrupt loser (fear is a powerful motivator). That's my 2-c.
But back to the op. Seriously. Make a reasonable budget, and stick with it. Its ok to treat yourself, but just likeit is unreasonable to eat in michelin star restaurants for lunch every day, it is similarly unrrasonable to hobby multiple times per week. Your SO loves to fuck, so enjoy those home cooked meals, you are better off than most....
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Do something to your dick that will give it a rash or reaction of some kind which will last a week or two, so that even if you wanted to do an SP she would refuse seeing your diseased member.
yeah, perhaps if I were single, game would be something to really work on.
And I'm pretty damn lazy, so that much work for such a little bit of return - I'd rather spend my $ on more immediate returns.
Budgeting is the way to go, really it is. Problem is that I started off with just the Asian MP here and there, once every few months.
Of course that escalates to finding hotter and younger ladies to slide all over me.
Which then escalates to wanting them to do more than just sliding...
Which led me to where I am now, searching out SP every few weeks.
My lack of will power - not only with budgeting, but with sweets as well - is sending me in a downward spiral.
Trying to spice things up with the missus lately, but damn wish she could handle BBBJ DT / FF. Mouth is just way to small, and has a serious gag reflex!
Hey burt, I'm trying my hardest to burn my dick out with all the jerking off! But seriously, no way I can inflict some virus on Big John.
And I'm pretty damn lazy, so that much work for such a little bit of return - I'd rather spend my $ on more immediate returns.
Budgeting is the way to go, really it is. Problem is that I started off with just the Asian MP here and there, once every few months.
Of course that escalates to finding hotter and younger ladies to slide all over me.
Which then escalates to wanting them to do more than just sliding...
Which led me to where I am now, searching out SP every few weeks.
My lack of will power - not only with budgeting, but with sweets as well - is sending me in a downward spiral.
Trying to spice things up with the missus lately, but damn wish she could handle BBBJ DT / FF. Mouth is just way to small, and has a serious gag reflex!
Hey burt, I'm trying my hardest to burn my dick out with all the jerking off! But seriously, no way I can inflict some virus on Big John.
