this is bad

[harmon y]

Hey guys. So check this out. This guy books me twice today and doesn't show up. So I ask him through email not to contact me no more and to grow up. This is his email scotty69@mailfreeway.com. Than check what he writes me now. Its no big deal... you're just a dirty whore who's probably sucked enough dick and had enough come sprayed on her today anyways.

Not to mention, $300 ?? I visited another girl instead... I got laid, a BJ with tongue stud and swallow and fucked her and blew my load twice for $80 ... a much better deal!

Wow huh. Ottawa is the only place that this happens. He is messin with me big. What should I do. He is sending me rude messages with threats and stuff. Wow. What a nice city this is.
But to the people that I have seen you have been great.

 

[harmon y]

Ask for referrals from local ladies - most of the TERB guys have visited Alexa taylor or Monique - as well many guys frequenting the SP scene see MA's as well - ask for a referrals...

Ignore the guy, or try and get as much on him as possible then politely ask him to leve you alone...

Thanks jas. I will for sure do this. Maybe the mod should look into his email adress cuz he is a member of terb and perb. He found me off of terb. Thanks again jas.

 

[northern_tantra]

How unfortunate! Bad for you ... bad for all of us.

You've made a good start by posting here. If anyone else has run into this guy you'll find out -- but a quick search of this forum didn't turn up anything. So, maybe this guy is unknown to the terb community.

There's a Public Service Announcements board in the General section. You could post a similar message there -- and it's a good place to check before you confirm an appointment with someone. Problem of course, is guys like this will give out false names, change phones, change email accounts etc.

As Jas said, referrals may be your safest bet. Hard on new guys -- like trying to get a job without prior experience! But, hey, ya gotta protect yourself from this kind of abuse.

Do you have a Junk Mail filter on your Blackberry? If you are not sure, check with your provider.

I sincerely hope this guy is an anomaly. I haven't been on terb all that long, but this is the first I've heard of this kind of behaviour.

Hope the rest of your tour goes smoothly!

 

[twizzler2]

Sorry to hear this Harmony

I can't explain how this could be an Ottawa only thing.

Clearly there are some members here who don't show much respect for others. I appalled as I am by some of those things I can't imagine these types are unique to Ottawa. Since that is your experience I'm wondering if it could be someone working on behalf of another SP or agency trying to drive out the visiting SP's.

Certianly a referal system would be a valuable tool.

 

[northern_tantra]

twizzler2 has a good point ... this could be the work of an SP (or an agency) trying to discourage you from future visits.

 

[crazyhorse33]

Harmony,
there is no rason for you to have to deal with this kind of thing anywhere that you chose to work, be it Ottawa or wherever. HOpefully the good outweighs the bad this trip and you return to Ottawa for some more fun, and hopefully I get some advance notice so I know to schedule my business there for the week.

 

[Just Relaxing]

I'm so sorry Ms Harmony that you had such an experience with any kind of bullshit like this guy. As one person was saying maybe this guy is a owner or some how related to some other SP here in Ottawa trying to discourage the better out of town SP's from coming to Ottawa and providing better services than what is offered here already. I hope that this guy does not discourage you from coming back again and I also hope those no shows don't stop you from coming back again also.

 

[Needs2Relax]

I am not LE, but, have a suggestion. Every email should have some means of tracking the sender. If the arsehole that sent you the inflamatory emails and threats isn't aware of this, I would inform them of such. I would also tell them that you will be contacting the police. That should be enough to stop them right then and there. If it doesn't stop them, then I would suggest that you DO contact police and pursue the matter. You will be doing everyone including yourself a favour. It's probably just a competitor, sounds like communist mafia tactic, so, you might be well advised to get this situation looked into.

 

[shitface]

sorry to hear about the asshole who can treat a lady like that, but did u happen to get the name of the lady who charges 80 bucks for all that?

 

[cheektocheek]

This guy is on CERB he post over there one post he is commenting on is the Quest Line looking for girls names on there or phone numbers seems like an asshole and yes it is too bad that we have these guys that seem to think they can degrade people or play with peoples mind

 

[Justin_time]

Very sad indeed.

Harmony:

I can tell from your style that you are a classy woman and do not deserve this type of abuse. Like all the other Ottawa fellas, I apologize for this sad situation. Unfortunately, there can always be a rotten apple in the barrel and I hope that this guy is NOT from Ottawa and is just visiting.

If it is a local SP doing this, shame on her. She probably already suffers from lack of business for poor service. ( Karma, what goes around, comes around. )

If it is a bad guy just causing trouble, then he is feeding on all the attention he is getting right now. We should just ignore him.

How did he manage book two appointments ? I hope all the other appointments that you had were a good representation of Ottawa.

As Jas has suggested, "referrals" may be the only answer.

Justin

 

[chuck007]

Harmony: He sounds like a loser. You seem to have conducted yourself and reacted to this very professionally. Don't let him pull you down.

On behalf of the rest of us, apologies from Ottawa for running into a bad apple.

 

[Diver Down]

There are methods available to track someone -even using free email accounts - for example- if the company providing it is in the US they have a legal obligation to keep records. mailfreeway.com has a link on there site to contact an admin manager@mailfreeway.com you should email and report the abuse of their system.

Below is an exceprt from their terms of service:
QUOTE]Accounts can and will be terminated for any of the following reasons.

Use the Communication Service in connection with surveys, contests, pyramid schemes, chain letters, junk email, spamming or any duplicative or unsolicited messages (commercial or otherwise).
Defame, abuse, harass, stalk, threaten or otherwise violate the legal rights (such as rights of privacy and publicity) of others. [/QUOTE]

you should email them asking for his IP address(es) then there are other ways to track him down PM me if you want to pursue it.

 

[southstreet]

Grrrr!

On behalf of the rest of the Ottawa hobbyists, sorry about that experience, Harmony. I am glad you did not paint us all with the same brush and that the other guys you met with here in Ottawa treated you with respect.

 

[selection]

Be glad he cancelled

Harmony the people that have seen you respect you since you respect yourself. Its unfortunate and hurtful but like Alexa and Asia you are not the only one that gets this kind of email so dont take it personaly.

All that for 80$ is like someone bragging that he got a lada and is proud of it!

Don't let idiots ruin your day or your stay
Hope you will keep coming

 

[JoyfulC]

Harmony, I'm sorry it happened, but if you've only had it happen in Ottawa, then you've been lucky elsewhere. Jerks aren't confined to any geographic area.

The thing is, you have his number, so be thankful he gave you the means to sidestep him. That's one up for you.

Most people out there are really decent, and a few are real princes. Of course, a few are real jerks too. Don't focus on the jerks. Focus on the nice guys, be thankful for the jerks you sidestepped, and life will always be sweet for you!

..c..

 

[fun-guy]

Wow huh. Ottawa is the only place that this happens. He is messin with me big. What should I do. He is sending me rude messages with threats and stuff. Wow.
QUOTE]

This happens alot in Toronto, you maybe haven't experienced it yet but it happens everyday here in TO, but doesn't get posted. All kinds of crap happends like that.
Just yesterday I heard from a lady that a guy buzzed her and she opened the door to the building and he never showed up to her unit. The guy just basically wasted her time right up until the appointment time. Geez, what a prick.

These type of guys are gutless jerks who hide behind a computer and couldn't face anyone cause they have no balls. They give the respectful hobbyst a bad rep.

You could ask for a land or cell phone number for your incalls so you then always have a number to fall back on if need be.

 

[Tip-Drill]

An Alternate Explanation

The abusive treatment that Harmony received is abhorrent and shameful. The email abuser is despicable in the extreme. An alternative explanation for the abuser's behavior is that he may have developed some sort of emotional attachment to Harmony and may have had trouble accepting the fact that she was seeing other men --- this type of thing does occasionally happen. After all, we are all human beings and all human beings have feelings, emotions, desires, aspirations and personal issues. Anyway, I'm sure that all TERBites will wish Harmony a speedy "recovery" from the emotional abuse that she received while she was in Ottawa.

 

[campuppy]

This clown may not even be from Ottawa.....who knows?

 

[Tip-Drill]

Check Out the Abuser's IP Address !!

This clown may not even be from Ottawa.....who knows?

This is a very good observation. It should be possible to determine the geographical origin of the abuser's email by noting the IP (Internet Protocol) Address in the email header and then plugging it into the following IP ADDRESS LOCATOR:

http://www.ip2location.biz/free.asp