Tips for lasting longer?

[Thackeray]

Used to be premature, now I'm fine but there are times when I've seen a girl a few times (and/or the first time really clicks) and she's close to cumming but I just can't hold out. Especially in doggie - Christ some of these girls look amazing with their ass bouncing against you, those tits swinging and their faces prettily contorted in the mirror. Sorry, got sidetracked.

Anyway, any tips for better control?

 

[boomboom]

I can loose it quick when I feel her muscles contracting & she is or about to cum......

 

[poker]

Used to be premature, now I'm fine but there are times when I've seen a girl a few times (and/or the first time really clicks) and she's close to cumming but I just can't hold out. Especially in doggie - Christ some of these girls look amazing with their ass bouncing against you, those tits swinging and their faces prettily contorted in the mirror. Sorry, got sidetracked.

Anyway, any tips for better control?

Everyone is responsible their own orgasm. If she doesn’t not cum fast enough, that’s on her.

Besides. A girl cumming 3 to 10x a day is probably a little exhausting on them. Give her break. Be selfish. Enjoy the bouncing parts.

 

[Mr Deeds]

My ex. used to say "a woman should cum first and last" I'm divorced now so um...........

 

[Sonic Temple]

Agreed with OP - these SP's are beautiful, sometimes I wish I can last longer but I just let nature take its course - I can't fight - I lose everytime.

 

[MONTYY]

Jerk off before the visit

 

[Thackeray]

Jerk off before the visit

Lol that's literally what a girl suggested to me this week... but sometimes that means I can't cum at all during the session and that's even worse!

 

[Thackeray]

A girl cumming 3 to 10x a day is probably a little exhausting on them. Give her break. Be selfish. Enjoy the bouncing parts.

I'm mostly talking about the times when the girl is kind of losing it and clearly wants to cum on my dick. Had one a while back literally say "don't you dare cum yet".

Of course that made me cum. *lol*

 

[boomboom]

Jerk off before the visit

Great if in my 20-40s.... not so good now that I'm late 50s

 

[boomboom]

I'm mostly talking about the times when the girl is kind of losing it and clearly wants to cum on my dick. Had one a while back literally say "don't you dare cum yet".

Of course that made me cum. *lol*

Yup.... been there a few times too

 

[superman12]

Try to switch it up a bit if you feel your going to cum before you want to. If yoir doing doggy and think your close pull out and go down on the lady with daty or dato for a couple minutes and when junior calms down start doggy again lol. Jerking off before a session also helps. If your with the right sp she will definetly make you cum again. If your really worried about not being able to cum again try to time your solo jerk off session so you will be ready to go again with the sp

 

[MONTYY]

Have the girl skip the BJ. Bet you will last longer.

I can tell when a girl skips the BJ I will cum less. If she gives me great head I know I will cum faster and blow bigger

 

[Ponderling]

Think about something that is a personal turn off for a few minutes.

When will I get the mortgage paid off.

When will I get the down payment together.

When can i afford to replace the car with no car loan.

Your get the idea; personalize it to distract you for a bit.

 

[boomboom]

I also find that while enjoying DATY & my lady is getting into it a lot, that also makes me extremely excited. Especially when she cums or squirts or holds my head down so I keep licking.

 

[Thackeray]

Have the girl skip the BJ. Bet you will last longer.

I can tell when a girl skips the BJ I will cum less. If she gives me great head I know I will cum faster and blow bigger

Ah but the BBBJ is so GOOD… *lol*

Yeah that’s worth a try.

 

[Akila Besos]

Curious me do cock rings work in that situation? Also does that even feel good?

 

[Goodoer]

Curious me do cock rings work in that situation? Also does that even feel good?

I don't think so... An actively working lady is what us dudes need. Starfish GFs and wives are what we need a break from.

 

[Goodoer]

I'm a bit seasoned... I can typically time my pop right near the end of a HH appointment. I think Doggy seems to be what's required to bring guys to a finish fastest... For me (and especially with some women), it really lines up and hits everything perfect. SPs push back, where your wife will not.

Most of the time, I get way more ramped up if I'm getting fucked (Doggy push back or CG) as opposed to fucking. Also if she gives me a great DFK while riding or even stroking me, it is easy to let go.

TBH, I find it easier to last longer with super-pretty chicks than I do 'normal/typical' women. Maybe the normal women like me and fuck me better. On the other hand, I had an SP standing RCG fuck me in front of the mirror with deep long strokes... Her pussy was so wet. I was mesmerized, I was in Heaven and lasted forever. She seemed to really enjoy herself (but it was the first appointment for the day).

My tips:
1. If you're planning to jerk off, do it earlier in the day. You're paying, so you want to make sure you have a good cum shot during your session,
2. Book for longer. During the downtime, eat that pussy, get hard and continue,
3. Avoid positions that trigger you. Save those for the finish, and
4. Don't worry about it. Book again!

I've taken a COVID/Omicron break... I'm so looking forward to my hobby return.

 

[Thackeray]

Curious me do cock rings work in that situation? Also does that even feel good?

Cock rings are actually interesting and underused in this hobby. I carry one around all the time, though forget to use it often.

It’s basically NOT for delaying orgasm. It’s for keeping you hard for that second or third round. You put it on while soft, then if you can even momentarily get aroused you can stay that way.

That said there are some that fit around the balls as well as the cock, and that may work.

 

[Greekgod69]

Used to be premature, now I'm fine but there are times when I've seen a girl a few times (and/or the first time really clicks) and she's close to cumming but I just can't hold out. Especially in doggie - Christ some of these girls look amazing with their ass bouncing against you, those tits swinging and their faces prettily contorted in the mirror. Sorry, got sidetracked.

Anyway, any tips for better control?

Here’s an old scout trick.
Buy a pack of robitussin cough gels (I see them at rexall, shoppers doesn’t seem to carry em anymore). Make sure that the only active ingredient is dextromethorphan – you don’t want to fuck up your liver. Take like 4 or 5 gels (60-75 mg) a couple of hours before you want to fuck. This works because dextromethorphan is a serotonin reuptake inhibitor. Drugs that increase serotonin in the brain also suppress orgasm. That is why people who are on antidepressants have difficulty cumming. Maybe also don’t jerk off or cum at least for 48-72 hours before you plan on having sex, just to make sure your orgasm doesn’t get too suppressed to the point of being unable to cum.