UGG - Not used to this - I need to FriendZone someone

[barnacler]

I have a female friend who I have become at times a little flirty with, why? - I don't know (big mistake) who I now need to go into reverse a little bit because I am not really that attracted to her. But personality-wise we get along great. I mean really great. Things are coming to a head fast, and I need to have a damn awkward conversation.

Have any men out there just plain and simple told a woman that they want to stay friends but they don't have any enduring physical attraction? How do women react?

Never happened to me before, I was always the one friendzoned.

 

[great bear]

Tell her about your Terb membership.

 

[Scarey]

.......and request she pay you up front.

 

[L8Guy]

Have you been intimate (had sex) with her? From your post, I suspect not. There is nothing wrong with flirting. I flirt with most women I know in one way or another. That doesn't mean I want to get into bed with them. Nothing wrong with flirting ... doing so usually is an ego boost for them. If a lady flirts with me either in general or in return, I too find that is an ego boost for me as well. So what is your problem? If she makes moves or sounds that she wants more or comes onto you wanting a more intimate relationship and you don't, rather than say to her you don't like her in that way and, as you say, friendzone her, just tell her you are in a relationship with someone at the moment. This should garner you some points for being a nice guy and still maintain her friendship.

If she knows a lot more about you and knows you are not in a relationship, then just tell her you really like her but not in that way.

 

[Caelus]

Ask her to introduce you to one of her female friends, even if you are not really interested, the fact that you ask, will kill her mood. say something like : "You are like a sister to me, a cool sister and I know I can count on you. Can you introduce me to X?"
just an idea

 

[KarlieX]

TBH you're likely not going to remain friends with her.

Lol

 

[GPIDEAL]

Flirting to a degree is okay but at the same time, you don't want to send the wrong messages.

OTOH, you say you're not attracted to her, and I'm not suggesting this as an experiment, but have you every slept with a woman that you're not particularly attracted to, but surprisingly find her attractive in other ways (her 'touch', her personality, etc. etc.).

Who knows, maybe she's the one? (Nobody is perfect, including ourselves).

 

[italianguy74]

Google a pic of a frightening sti and text her the pic with the message "does this look common to you or should I see a doctor?"