VIRGIN needs help!
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tonnyandreti said:
The top 3 spas are SRM, HFH, and Allure. Personally I prefer the later 2. They're both cozy and intimate spas that exude professionalism. SRM is more a flashy-nightclubish atmosphere and would be all wrong for a first timer.
As for attendants, do a search, focus on 'personality', and I would recommend attendants over 25 to handle this 'mature' situation.
I have a friend who is almost in the same situation as yours. Refuses to pay for sex or pick up in bars. Wants to find someone who is on the same intellectual as himself but comes up empty all the time. He spends too much time thinking about the big picture and not the moment.
How about finding a sympathetic woman who will get his feet wet in the dating game? Do you know anyone who has the patience to guide him?
If he still doesn't want to meet ladies, then consider him asexual, don't try to make a perv out of him by introducing him to strip clubs or massage parlours.
Maybe he's right, perhaps it's a bit ridiculous to spend so much money and time to pursue a few seconds of orgasm.
If he still doesn't want to meet ladies, then consider him asexual, don't try to make a perv out of him by introducing him to strip clubs or massage parlours.
Maybe he's right, perhaps it's a bit ridiculous to spend so much money and time to pursue a few seconds of orgasm.
This thread is really funny. I have a friend who is also almost in the exact situation. He is 27, and a total zero around women. Has never had a girlfriend, and seems to never want to socialize or put himself in the position to get laid. He makes about 70K a year, not too bad looking, but just has no verbal skills what so ever.
I have taken him to a strip club, and the exerpience was very bad. I told him to get a dance, instructed him that it is $20 for one song, one. He comes out 45 minutes later and says, "Yo you got $260 I can borrow?" Had to put it on his company card, and almost got fired. Never returned to a strip club again.
A few months later, on a business trip to Asia we decided to revisit the no pussy topic. We went hunting in the red light district of Hong Kong. Got him an escort and checked ourselves into a hotel. We got seperate rooms, and I thought I had finally done it, finally broken the curse. Honestly about ten minutes into the hour, he calls my room and says he is done, and she is gone. Spent a shit load of money and the girl fucked him quick and left. Probably smelled the fact that he was a virgin and took advantage of the siutation. Perhaps my fault for not being totally there for him, but come on you can't babysit right?
So a few months have gone by, and he has hinted to me he wants to take the plunge again and try for another SP in our fine city, but it has never happened. Always hints at it, somtimes very passionate too, but always seems to never happen. I try to get him out, but he refuses. When ever I mention there will be girls, or any type of social setting he backs out with some bogus excuse, I have heard them all. Work related, family related, too tired, no money, all the bullshit one can say to get out of getting pussy. I have tried normal girls, I have tried strip clubs, I have tried MP's, I have tried SP's, but he just doesn't get it. It has gotten to the point where he is so self conscience about himself that he even tried convincing me that he is not looking for a relationship. Meanwhile spends about 3 hours a day downloading porn and pleasuring himself. He isn't gay, I know that. What to do?
I guess some guys just don't get it. I mean if work didn't hold me back, I would be in pussy all the time. I mean my life would consist of either dining at the Y, getting lap dances, getting rubbed and tugged, or booking escorts. Although that is primarialy what I do with my leisure time, work has me consumed for the rest. I dunno I am about to give up, call it quits, and just hope he one day realizes how much he is missing out on....
I have taken him to a strip club, and the exerpience was very bad. I told him to get a dance, instructed him that it is $20 for one song, one. He comes out 45 minutes later and says, "Yo you got $260 I can borrow?" Had to put it on his company card, and almost got fired. Never returned to a strip club again.
A few months later, on a business trip to Asia we decided to revisit the no pussy topic. We went hunting in the red light district of Hong Kong. Got him an escort and checked ourselves into a hotel. We got seperate rooms, and I thought I had finally done it, finally broken the curse. Honestly about ten minutes into the hour, he calls my room and says he is done, and she is gone. Spent a shit load of money and the girl fucked him quick and left. Probably smelled the fact that he was a virgin and took advantage of the siutation. Perhaps my fault for not being totally there for him, but come on you can't babysit right?
So a few months have gone by, and he has hinted to me he wants to take the plunge again and try for another SP in our fine city, but it has never happened. Always hints at it, somtimes very passionate too, but always seems to never happen. I try to get him out, but he refuses. When ever I mention there will be girls, or any type of social setting he backs out with some bogus excuse, I have heard them all. Work related, family related, too tired, no money, all the bullshit one can say to get out of getting pussy. I have tried normal girls, I have tried strip clubs, I have tried MP's, I have tried SP's, but he just doesn't get it. It has gotten to the point where he is so self conscience about himself that he even tried convincing me that he is not looking for a relationship. Meanwhile spends about 3 hours a day downloading porn and pleasuring himself. He isn't gay, I know that. What to do?
I guess some guys just don't get it. I mean if work didn't hold me back, I would be in pussy all the time. I mean my life would consist of either dining at the Y, getting lap dances, getting rubbed and tugged, or booking escorts. Although that is primarialy what I do with my leisure time, work has me consumed for the rest. I dunno I am about to give up, call it quits, and just hope he one day realizes how much he is missing out on....
Well, I work 24/7. Family company. So if I worked less, then I wouldn't be able to hobby. Needless to say, I wouldn't have the funds. I manage to balance that out now. I work hard, but play even harder!!funsmartguy said:Work holds you back??????
Work less, play more.
Definitely. Sometimes I wish I'd never gotten hooked up.
I love her and everything but the sex gets a bit dull. Same taco every night and the dreaded "monthly no-no" really makes hobbying a worthwhile past time. Now if only I can get around my conscience. LOL
I love her and everything but the sex gets a bit dull. Same taco every night and the dreaded "monthly no-no" really makes hobbying a worthwhile past time. Now if only I can get around my conscience. LOL
It appears that Scorpion King is under the mistaken impression that my little sarcasms were ill natured and I'm out to get him. This is certainly not the case, however as a concilliatory gesture I have unearthed this little case study for his reading enjoyment.
A secondary benefit would be if tonnyandretti gives us the update on how this actually turned out.
A secondary benefit would be if tonnyandretti gives us the update on how this actually turned out.
your V friend
Instead of trying to" get him laid" why dont you help him be more comfrortable around women --with No pressure to have sex---he could be a guy that needs more stability than just a f*ck . Some people are just slow starters--I know guys are always trying to give away their virginity,but I dont believe an sp is the right choice for your friend.
Instead of trying to" get him laid" why dont you help him be more comfrortable around women --with No pressure to have sex---he could be a guy that needs more stability than just a f*ck . Some people are just slow starters--I know guys are always trying to give away their virginity,but I dont believe an sp is the right choice for your friend.
Your point is noted, my sarcastic friend.Hard Idle said:
I'll be sure to keep the salt shaker next to my computer... for quick application when reading your posts in the future.
BTW... thanks for digging this one out... I did enjoy the read.
And to show my good nature as well, I'm gonna drop another fun thread or two down for y'all.
Stay tuned.
Cheers,
SK.
Well after we freely poured out experiences and sincere advice in this thread, I would have tought MR. tonyandretti might let us know how it worked out .
.I agree just leave the guy alone and let him be who he is! What do you care if he's a virgin anyway? How does it effect you? Sex is not something you should force on him or preassure him into doing. He'll have it when he's ready If you preassure him he might just push you away. If he wants help with women he'll ask for it.
