Walking Away

[thumper18474]

How does one deal (and this is for the guys)..with an outcall...say...to your hotel/residence.who doesnt match who you booked...
They know where you are staying....how do you handle this situation?

 

[fuji]

How does one deal (and this is for the guys)..with an outcall...say...to your hotel/residence.who doesnt match who you booked...
They know where you are staying....how do you handle this situation?

If it's an agency, call the agency and explain the problem. They may be able to make good. If they can't make good, or it's an independent pay a cancellation fee and call it a day. If it's total bait and switch that sucks, but do you really want to have a big scene in front of your own hotel/residence?

 

[Pum-Pum Stabba]

I tell the bitch to beat it!

 

[Aardvark154]

They know where you are staying....

if it's total bait and switch that sucks, but do you really want to have a big scene in front of your own hotel/residence?

Does not the SP also have something to loose by acting like a jerk? Further when hotel security and/or police arrive a person causing a commotion outside a hotel room, house or apartment without cause is being disorderly.

Also what SP wants a totally p.o. client here on TERB saying that not only was it a bait & switch, but then there was a disturbance.

 

[thumper18474]

Obviously doing due diligence and meeting elsewhere is the first choice... but it isn't always that tidy. If the lady to arrives isn't the lady you ordered, and the agency expects compensation, it doesn't make sense NOT to pay the cancel fee. You don't know the lady, you don't know the driver, and they have just cased out your home. Don't think you wanna be pissing them off over a couple of bucks.

I dont have an issue with a cancellation fee...It would just piss me off to no end for the attempted B/S....or misrepresentation.....plus the fact that ...that still doesnt fulfill the reason for the meet anyways.!!

 

[Conway_Stewart]

I dont have an issue with a cancellation fee...It would just piss me off to no end for the attempted B/S....or misrepresentation.....plus the fact that ...that still doesnt fulfill the reason for the meet anyways.!!

Not much you can do about that, Thump. It's just the luck of the hobby.

If you want to minimize the risk of this happening, follow SPJ's advice and stick with well reviewed ladies. If you want to be adventurous and TOFTT, stuff can go wrong.

I don't see outcalls anyhow due to the concerns identified by Misty and SPJ...but if I was going to do an outcall it would not be a TOFTT.

My 5 cents.

 

[TheHulk]

This is a tough one but good advice given. Call the agency and let them know or see the lady at her incall. Im pretty soft hearted most the time and would never tell a lady to "beat it". If its an incall tho ill tell her shes not my type and was expecting something else.....
I often wonder what these ladies think when guys turn them down and they have to leave. Maybe you get used to it ?

 

[WoodPeckr]

How does one deal (and this is for the guys)..with an outcall...say...to your hotel/residence.who doesnt match who you booked...

If you are not interested in her, tell her this must be a mistake, as you are not the one I was waiting for....:eyebrows:

 

[buttercup]

. . Further when hotel security and/or police arrive a person causing a commotion outside a hotel room, house or apartment without cause is being disorderly.

Same if there is cause.