I would imagine that many of us are "in that boat" when it comes to an SP that we may have some feelings for. It cuts both ways, one of my favorite SPs is still mad because I saw someone else when she wasn't available. Sure is nice to be wanted, in a perverted sort of way.thecoolguyms72 said:
what do you consider "a regular"?
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What!!!! OMG I thought I was the only *pouts*hehehehecorena said:
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If you are participating in this hobby whether you are a provider or client you know there are going to be others involved.
You just have to resign your self to this or you will go nuts worrying about who they are seeing or what they are doing.
You just have to resign your self to this or you will go nuts worrying about who they are seeing or what they are doing.
I've read alot of valid points here...
i guess i just find jealousy a useless emotion...it does nothing but harm in any situation...BE GONE OLD GREEN EYED MONSTER, lmao
but seriously...i realize some men only see one sp/mpa. usually. again i'll say, who am i, as an sp to get angry at someone for wanting to try that new cutie...or that well reviewed beauty..
JMHO
i guess i just find jealousy a useless emotion...it does nothing but harm in any situation...BE GONE OLD GREEN EYED MONSTER, lmao
but seriously...i realize some men only see one sp/mpa. usually. again i'll say, who am i, as an sp to get angry at someone for wanting to try that new cutie...or that well reviewed beauty..
JMHO
On the other hand, the appearance of reviews of one's regular "girl" (particularly good reviews) is also reassuring in a number of ways, not the least of which being an indication that business is probably going alright for her and that she can afford to be choosy and, presumably, safer. That's sort of a comfort for us worrywarts.thecoolguyms72 said:
I agree, but...
Part of the problem I have is that I am having a little trouble distinguishing between what is said "during the moment" and what is really meant and whether or not it is true.
Is it really true that when she says that we have so much in common that we should be friends outside of the professional relationship? I am not sure that that is called for unless it is meant. If it is not the case, why say it at all?
I am not so naive to think that everything the woman says is true, but where do you draw the line?
It then goes beyond the professional relationship, and as Angel Aurora says, "but realistically, this is not a personal relationship we're talking about. This is a business..."
It is not that I wouldn't mind being friends outside of the business relationship, but it complicates things a lot. And the business would infringe on the friendship, and the friendship on the business. Corena states it well about jealousy, "that it does nothing but harm..."
I am looking for an SP I can visit on a regular basis, who knows my wants, etc. without having to talk about it, which enhances the GFE (which is what I want). I don't expect fidelity from her; she shouldn't from me. And I do get jealous, if you call it that, when "my SP" is booked, not because someone else is with her, but because I can not be when I want to be.
Unfortunately, since society teaches us that feelings and sex go together, it is almost impossible to separate the two for many of us.
Part of the problem I have is that I am having a little trouble distinguishing between what is said "during the moment" and what is really meant and whether or not it is true.
Is it really true that when she says that we have so much in common that we should be friends outside of the professional relationship? I am not sure that that is called for unless it is meant. If it is not the case, why say it at all?
I am not so naive to think that everything the woman says is true, but where do you draw the line?
It then goes beyond the professional relationship, and as Angel Aurora says, "but realistically, this is not a personal relationship we're talking about. This is a business..."
It is not that I wouldn't mind being friends outside of the business relationship, but it complicates things a lot. And the business would infringe on the friendship, and the friendship on the business. Corena states it well about jealousy, "that it does nothing but harm..."
I am looking for an SP I can visit on a regular basis, who knows my wants, etc. without having to talk about it, which enhances the GFE (which is what I want). I don't expect fidelity from her; she shouldn't from me. And I do get jealous, if you call it that, when "my SP" is booked, not because someone else is with her, but because I can not be when I want to be.
Unfortunately, since society teaches us that feelings and sex go together, it is almost impossible to separate the two for many of us.
She never said it directly. It was said, as far as I can remember " Oh, I like ******** ***** too. Wow, we really should be friends..."
It wasn't just an off hand comment, but stated more than once, and with the weight of everything else said was a little more than just being said. This was in context of some favorite TV shows, activities away from the hobby, and just general stuff.
Like I said, I know that we should not believe everything the SP said in the middle of the moment, but this sounds weird to me. Again, I wouldn't mind, but is it an enhancement, or legit? If it isn't legit, why say it at all?
Also, it is not like we would ever be seeing each other either all that much as she lives closer to London, and I am a "lowly Buffalonian" which means to me a nice e-mail relationship.
It wasn't just an off hand comment, but stated more than once, and with the weight of everything else said was a little more than just being said. This was in context of some favorite TV shows, activities away from the hobby, and just general stuff.
Like I said, I know that we should not believe everything the SP said in the middle of the moment, but this sounds weird to me. Again, I wouldn't mind, but is it an enhancement, or legit? If it isn't legit, why say it at all?
Also, it is not like we would ever be seeing each other either all that much as she lives closer to London, and I am a "lowly Buffalonian" which means to me a nice e-mail relationship.
You're comforted by the fact that she is well reviewed she is somehow safer. Not sure I see the connection nor would I make that assumption.dax said:
