Yes, there is!
Real people with admirable qualities:
1. Considerate
2. Temperate
3. Thoughtful
4. Healthy
5. Curious
6. Takes pride in virtue not possession
7. Values experience over inheritance and so on
If a person with above qualities is of male gender he is man enough. If that person is of female gender she is woman enough.
Interest or ability to wear high heels or black dress is all matter of personal choice which neither adds or subtracts that person's womanliness. Those who resent this are misfits who like big belly Trump go to poor countries to "marry" obedient "womanly" woman. Basically taking advantage of them.
we will have to agree to disagree.
all the qualities you have listed are great traits to have in a person but the problem is as humans we are fallible and qualities are on a sliding scale. I would consider all humans unable to be real people considering at face value people are completely different behind closed doors. as an example the users of terb. everyone has 2 faces, a public face and a private face. typically the public face is what you want people to see and private is who a person really is.
I dont think a list of qualities defines what a real person is. perhaps its what each person want in a person as their qualities which defines what is real for them. which is completely subjective, inconsistent and unattainable. the idea of being a real man/woman is bogus. its just another way manipulate someone to be a certain way or shame them if they are not a real man or women according to their wants.
wearing heels and a black dress is a matter of choice; however, womanliness(femininity) is a value to all men. men are attracted to what they are attracted to and dont have a choice in that matter. if a woman is very feminine she will attract more males versus a masculine woman will. males are attracted to women who are more feminine versus more masculine behavior. that is not a choice. there are exceptions to every rule but typically men want feminine woman and not women that act like men.
there is a difference between western woman versus non westernized woman, although with the further introduction of western culture change is slowly occurring. as for non western women being submissive and obedient that is a inaccurate stereotype. western women have adopted many male behaviors in order to be competitive with their male counterparts.
as for men going to other countries and taking advantage of them, how so? women are able to make their own choices in their life regardless of what country they come from. your assertion that woman are taken advantage of could be considered sexist since woman are capable and intelligent to make their own decisions. in thailand women can either work for 330 baht a day in a regular job or be a prostitute and make 10 times that amount in a day. women and men make choices and very few people are forced into things they do not wish to do.