I have a client that I saw about a month ago. I drove 45 minutes each way to get to his place and it cost him just under $200 for an hr. We had agreed to greek, but the whole act was just awkward and terrible and I couldn't wait to get out of there. He had been drinking and was under the influence of some other drug and he wasn't able to do greek (entirely not my fault, I tried several times but he seemed to suffer from some kind of ED, probably from the alcohol or the drugs he was on) The whole experience was pretty awful, it was awkard and painful for me and at one point he couldn't keep an erection at all so I took a break and chatted with him for a bit. I asked if he wanted to continue and he said it was fine, that I could go and do what I had to do. I wasn't going to argue. Even having a conversation with him was painful. So he tried to set up several appointments after that and I was never available (part of me didn't want to go). This weekend he get a hold of me and starts demanding things from me because he gave me money for greek and we didn't do greek. I have never heard someone complain so much over $20. He asked me for an extra half an hour for free and I agreed (I don't know why. I just wanted to keep him happy). Then he wants greek, then he wants me to make sure "I'm clean", then he wants a discount and for me to be wearing the outfits he likes... all that for half of the cost of what other people are paying. At that point I said "forget it" to the entire thing and he gets rude with me. He kept saying he didn't care about $20, but he wouldn't stop talking about it. Then he tells me how to run my business. That I shouldn't just say no to calls. "any call is better than no call" ... but really no call is better than having to go see this guy and try to get through an hour and a half with him add to the fact that he only wanted to pay me half of what I ask for and I can't think of a worse situation to be in. He tried to talk to me like I was some kind of scammer. I'm really not sure what to do in this situation. I really just want this guy to leave me alone. I've never had anyone complain so much over $20. I tried to make it work, it just wasn't happening. I put the effort in and used all of my supplies for greek, but the problem was on his end. I still used up a condom and had to clean all of my toys afterwards. I still put on a show for him. I think I deserve that $20 for what I did and allowed him to do while I was getting ready for greek. Am I wrong? maybe I'm just used to people giving me money and telling me to keep it. Even when I offer people their money back for something we didn't end up doing, most of the time they tell me "don't worry about it" and they call it a tip.
I'm frustrated with this whole thing. I don't understand why this guy insists on bothering me about this and insulting me. It just seems like he was looking for something to argue with me about. He thinks I owe him $20... so he somehow thinks I need to give him $120 in extra services to make up for it.
I'm frustrated with this whole thing. I don't understand why this guy insists on bothering me about this and insulting me. It just seems like he was looking for something to argue with me about. He thinks I owe him $20... so he somehow thinks I need to give him $120 in extra services to make up for it.
