When an SP threatens you, what should you do?

[hurryhard]

I recently tried to hook-up with a SP who posts on terb. (Let's leave her name out of it) I was making an inquiry about her advertised incall service, not in the GTA but close. I completed and sent her preferred online scheduling form - I also PM'd her with my scheduling request when I saw she was on the Terb site.

No response 24 hours later. I then inquired why I had no response to my request and I guess my tone, although not rude could be described as short.

She responded accusing me of being rude. She then threatened to contact other SPs she knows to spread malicious rumours about me.

What should a hobbyist do when faced with this situation?

 

[Svend]

I don't see where he was referring to an agency or the price range, Selina.
You're projecting your concerns on to someone else.

 

[stinkynuts]

Sorry, it seems like you are the bad guy in this case. You submit an online form and expect to hear back within 24 hours, otherwise you get angry and demand to know why she hasn't responded yet. If you are familiar with this hobby, then you should be aware that many sps take a long time to respond because of the volume of inquiries.

You should apologize to her for your rudeness and that's all you can do. Next time try not to lose your cool.

 

[blitz]

Tough call.

Expectations versus time management and pressure.

Everyone has bad days.

Shrug it off, spend elsewhere and have too much fun.

Good job not naming names in this forum.

 

[hyperbole]

I don't see where he was referring to an agency or the price range, Selina.

I was thinking that as well. If anything, his reference to the scheduling form would lead me to believe the lady in question was higher end rather than lower end. Apparently the people at Holt Renfrew are crabbier than at Kmart.

Who knows.....maybe it was Selina and she's just trying to deflect attention by alluding to other girls.

hyperbole

 

[WhaWhaWha]

If she threatens you, expose here on this forum so we all know who she is. Personally I'm not interestd in booking with an SP who has contempt for customers making simple inquiries. After all this is a review board and I for one would appreciate fair warning so I don't make the same mistake of dailing her number and being arbitrarily added to her blacklist.

There are a lot of SPs, some who advertise here, who lack the people skills to answer their own business line, and for some unknown reason are ready to dump on you for saying hello.

And before I get lambasted by SPs, I'll ask you all to spare me the rhetoric about the bad customers. It goes with the territory. Be a professional or change professions.

 

[luv4lust]

jmho

That's unfortuneate......
Ladies who work everyday/answer phones all day and night for bookings at low rates tend to slip up. I suggest you try more exclusive independent escorts. It's like walking into Holt Renferew as opposed to K.Mart, they will not easily loose their cool at Holt's.
Or maybe she was just having a bad day/had PMS, don't worry about it, it will be forgotten by tommorrow!

What is with the target of SP's with lower rates!!!! I’ll have you know as an ex SP who charged lower than normal rates I had outstanding customer service, most girls were not happy with this fact ** oh well**. I had women threaten to black list anyone who saw me. My advice is let your fellow hobbyists know who it was cause a bully is a bully and they only win if you give them the power to. Petty threats like this belong in a school yard not on a review board there are plenty of great women who will treat you with respect

 

[hotsex2]

Just laugh it up, book the sp with another name, don't use your terb name.

 

[Fireflint]

Take off.

Hey you're the customer and she's in business. I'd tell her that she lost some business and leave it at that. I sure hope that you're not totally dependant on the 'affections' of this or any other SP. If she tells other SP's that you were rude, so what? It's all about business my friend.

theFire

 

[Marla]

I recently tried to hook-up with a SP who posts on terb. (Let's leave her name out of it) I was making an inquiry about her advertised incall service, not in the GTA but close. I completed and sent her preferred online scheduling form - I also PM'd her with my scheduling request when I saw she was on the Terb site.

No response 24 hours later. I then inquired why I had no response to my request and I guess my tone, although not rude could be described as short.

She responded accusing me of being rude. She then threatened to contact other SPs she knows to spread malicious rumours about me.

What should a hobbyist do when faced with this situation?

You are being the gentleman and showing integrity by not namecalling. It she namecalls at the drop of a hat, her friends know she is catastrophies everyting and take her with a grain of salt. Don't worry. Learn from your experience and maybe tone down your response but know that you are the one who has integrity and character and that above all means more than anything..

 

[CaptainCharisma]

She then threatened to contact other SPs she knows to spread malicious rumours about me.

You do the same and spread shit about her. Threaten to tell everyone that you became friends with her and she told you in confidence she is HIV positive. Trust me she'll quit her games in a hurry.

She wants to fuck with you, fuck with her back. Don't take shit from anybody.

I hate being threatened, and when I am, I take steps to reverse it.

 

[cortes]

And before I get lambasted by SPs, I'll ask you all to spare me the rhetoric about the bad customers. It goes with the territory. Be a professional or change professions.

I totally agree. Escorts are getting paid more than what highly trained professionals like doctors receive after years of extremely expensive education, during which they forego all income. This doesn't mean they should tolerate rudeness--they shouldn't--but equally they shouldn't be rude or threaten customers in any way. The professional way to deal with (real or perceived) rudeness is to politely withdraw any offer of services. There's no excuse for this SP's behaviour.

 

[barrybigheadbonds]

Sorry, it seems like you are the bad guy in this case. You submit an online form and expect to hear back within 24 hours, otherwise you get angry and demand to know why she hasn't responded yet. If you are familiar with this hobby, then you should be aware that many sps take a long time to respond because of the volume of inquiries.

You should apologize to her for your rudeness and that's all you can do. Next time try not to lose your cool.

you should post her name here so we all will know who it was that threatened you. don't wan't that shit creeping in.