depends on what you're looking for...
If you're looking for a relationship, invest your energy into doing things you enjoy. Chances are - unless you're a big dungeons and dragons fan or something - that you'll end up meeting some nice women and you'll have some things in common. I know plenty of people who have had success meeting others playing co-ed sports like Ultimate Frisbee, walking with a hiking club, sailing, climbing, etc.
I personally met a number of wonderful women through match.com and lavalife... including the love of my life. If you act like a gentleman, can string together a few sentences, and can talk about something other than yourself, you'd be surprised at who you can meet.
When using lavalife, you might want to focus on the dating or relationships section. The intimate section is comprised of 20 guys for every gal, all thinking with their dicks. If you're real handsome like you say, you might get some action... but don't expect to meet someone that will change your life.
Of course, if you just want to get laid, you can drop some money on ashleymadison and ball some horny housewife.
To each his own...
Wev