Yes indeed....
I am hardly taking this personal-perhaps anyone who is educated can articulate themselves in novel form, however certainly doesn't reflect HOW I VIEW MYSELF as a person...I am completely confident in myself both personally and professionally.
I stand firm on my views, which should be equally welcomed- just as yours are.... this is a discussion, not a heated argument. Perhaps what you view as lack of self esteem is the exact opposite. Computers are very one dimensional! Perhaps it’s the fact that I am able to articulate myself without having to stoop down to a degrading level or prove points at someone else’s expense. Maybe it’s the fact you haven't gotten the better of me... perhaps me being calm, composed and COLLECTIVE.... now if that makes me lacking the esteem department, then so be it? Which ever it might be- perhaps I redefine articulation, INTELLEGENCE and class???
I don't feed off the drama, or CREATE it... I only offer a humbling view point that perhaps many don't consider- especially when in regards to ME, someone YOU don't know-why do I have to justify or explain??? I don't.
However, I am human and perhaps the robotic act gets all too tiresome for most. I'm good at what I do because the mechanical ness isn't there... there’s a human element perhaps all too easily forgotten and mistaken for better lack of a word 'esteem', low self worth... poor image. The boards don't dictate my self worth, nor do you create my image- Francesca is not my alter EGO- ITS ME, which adds that personal edge-perhaps most aren't accustom to! I don't need to pretend to be anyone other then myself and time has shown over and over that, THAT my friend is good enough. Although I separate business and personal-they co-exist... and attempting not to let this affect my well being... understandably, it does at times. To what extent is it necessary????
Does negativity affect even the best of us??? Yes. I can say I am genuine disappointed with the resistance and confrontation displayed- however if I had poor self esteem- I'd run back to the hole I came from....in your views!
I can only control me, my thoughts, feelings and ideas that come with that are, who I am- accept it or not but at the end of the day, I rest well and quite happy with who I am...and I'm in tune with 'me' and quite in touch with reality. This may upset me, but certainly doesn't ruin my day or get the better of me. I keep things in prospective and consider where it’s coming from.
It seems to confuse you, why someone like me feels a need to justify even though your one of the leading front man. I guess it’s easier to kick them while they are down... only I ALWAYS land on my back and can ALWAYS get back up again and brush myself off!!!!
What would concern me is... anyone’s need to self gratify off someone like me in a vote of acceptance-perhaps that better classifies someone’s lack of esteem. But again everyone wants to belong and it is ONLY just the boards, right? I respect and VALUE the boards and contribute, like anyone else.... I have been WELCOMED by many... just as I'll never be able to please everyone- some won't be as inviting...
If its not one thing, it will always be another. You can't win and never will.
I LOVE people who can challenge thoughts and ideas, especially my own... but there’s a line and to what level are you or anyone else willing to go to prove a point?
animinity of the internet protects you- everyone knows me- maybe that’s worth justifying my two cents.
Just a note.....Friday at 1pm, I’m booked...sorry ‘Oil Please’...I hate to think my novelistic abilities allowed you to get lost between the lines, when attempting to explain the importance of pre-bookings...as they go quickly *wink* But a good lube job and oil change is in order! Perhaps another time may be better suiting????
I am hardly taking this personal-perhaps anyone who is educated can articulate themselves in novel form, however certainly doesn't reflect HOW I VIEW MYSELF as a person...I am completely confident in myself both personally and professionally.
I stand firm on my views, which should be equally welcomed- just as yours are.... this is a discussion, not a heated argument. Perhaps what you view as lack of self esteem is the exact opposite. Computers are very one dimensional! Perhaps it’s the fact that I am able to articulate myself without having to stoop down to a degrading level or prove points at someone else’s expense. Maybe it’s the fact you haven't gotten the better of me... perhaps me being calm, composed and COLLECTIVE.... now if that makes me lacking the esteem department, then so be it? Which ever it might be- perhaps I redefine articulation, INTELLEGENCE and class???
I don't feed off the drama, or CREATE it... I only offer a humbling view point that perhaps many don't consider- especially when in regards to ME, someone YOU don't know-why do I have to justify or explain??? I don't.
However, I am human and perhaps the robotic act gets all too tiresome for most. I'm good at what I do because the mechanical ness isn't there... there’s a human element perhaps all too easily forgotten and mistaken for better lack of a word 'esteem', low self worth... poor image. The boards don't dictate my self worth, nor do you create my image- Francesca is not my alter EGO- ITS ME, which adds that personal edge-perhaps most aren't accustom to! I don't need to pretend to be anyone other then myself and time has shown over and over that, THAT my friend is good enough. Although I separate business and personal-they co-exist... and attempting not to let this affect my well being... understandably, it does at times. To what extent is it necessary????
Does negativity affect even the best of us??? Yes. I can say I am genuine disappointed with the resistance and confrontation displayed- however if I had poor self esteem- I'd run back to the hole I came from....in your views!
I can only control me, my thoughts, feelings and ideas that come with that are, who I am- accept it or not but at the end of the day, I rest well and quite happy with who I am...and I'm in tune with 'me' and quite in touch with reality. This may upset me, but certainly doesn't ruin my day or get the better of me. I keep things in prospective and consider where it’s coming from.
It seems to confuse you, why someone like me feels a need to justify even though your one of the leading front man. I guess it’s easier to kick them while they are down... only I ALWAYS land on my back and can ALWAYS get back up again and brush myself off!!!!
What would concern me is... anyone’s need to self gratify off someone like me in a vote of acceptance-perhaps that better classifies someone’s lack of esteem. But again everyone wants to belong and it is ONLY just the boards, right? I respect and VALUE the boards and contribute, like anyone else.... I have been WELCOMED by many... just as I'll never be able to please everyone- some won't be as inviting...
If its not one thing, it will always be another. You can't win and never will.
I LOVE people who can challenge thoughts and ideas, especially my own... but there’s a line and to what level are you or anyone else willing to go to prove a point?
animinity of the internet protects you- everyone knows me- maybe that’s worth justifying my two cents.
Just a note.....Friday at 1pm, I’m booked...sorry ‘Oil Please’...I hate to think my novelistic abilities allowed you to get lost between the lines, when attempting to explain the importance of pre-bookings...as they go quickly *wink* But a good lube job and oil change is in order! Perhaps another time may be better suiting????
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