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Who are these guys at restaurants with SPs?

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Jaguar17

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A buddy once said upon seeing that - "There is a wide chasm between that guy and that girl....and that chasm is filled with money."
A buddy once said upon seeing that - "There is a wide chasm between that guy and that girl....and that chasm is filled with money."
Copacabana on Adelaide was (pre-pandemic) a place to see & be seen with dates as young as one's grand daughter.
One of my faves at the time, pointed out how many of her G/F's were there, with dates old enough to be their grandfathers.
We just laughed, toasted to a life worth living and ordered another round of caiparinhas.

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Lou Siffer

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If you think people look twice at the age difference for dinner companions, you should see the looks when checking into a hotel or boarding a flight.
 
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I used to go to dinner on a regular basis with a regular that I was seeing.
It didn’t start right away but over time we worked it into our dates. Yes, some would stare but it would mostly be the female wait staff. It also depends on what she is wearing, some of the SP’s have great style and dress amazing. There are others that think they are going to a strip club for dinner and attract the unnecessary attention.
 

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I used to go to dinner on a regular basis with a regular that I was seeing.
It didn’t start right away but over time we worked it into our dates. Yes, some would stare but it would mostly be the female wait staff. It also depends on what she is wearing, some of the SP’s have great style and dress amazing. There are others that think they are going to a strip club for dinner and attract the unnecessary attention.
Saw a very lovely girl a few times on an outcall basis. But she has enormous fakes and kept wearing titty dresses...

Kind of had to rush her into the room. Whereupon I banged her silly.

But yeah... some of these girls you can't really take out.
 
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This is an interesting subject and one that lends to how much a woman enjoys your
company. Would I pay a woman for her time plus dinner NO ! Mind you I've been on this great site for years and have had multiple dinners with women who would never consider charging me there time for dinner. The question is why? My take is it depends on how you make her feel !! After all they are the most sensitive gender of our human species.
 

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I mean, if money was no object I can see taking an SP out for dinner or local sightseeing if I was on vacation or in a strange city. I might even get a bit of a thrill from other guys ogling her. But close to home, where there's a chance I'd run into someone I knew? I mean, how do you explain that?
 

Jaguar17

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I mean, if money was no object I can see taking an SP out for dinner or local sightseeing if I was on vacation or in a strange city. I might even get a bit of a thrill from other guys ogling her. But close to home, where there's a chance I'd run into someone I knew? I mean, how do you explain that?
You sound like a 10 year old.
And are clearly lacking in anti-paranoia medications.
Just sayin'

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Kracker

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I mean, if money was no object I can see taking an SP out for dinner or local sightseeing if I was on vacation or in a strange city. I might even get a bit of a thrill from other guys ogling her. But close to home, where there's a chance I'd run into someone I knew? I mean, how do you explain that?
I ran into an industry colleague when I was out with an SP once - but the SP was dressed semi-normally, and it just looked like I was walking with a pretty girl. No real issue.

But cuddled up in a dark corner in a bar....
 
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Jaguar17

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But maybe for his sarcasm? ;)
My associates & I were celebrating a major business transaction at Susur years ago.
They put us next to a table occupied by one of my faves who also enjoyed showcasing her substantial frontal assets.
Her face went white on eye contact.
Was it due to my arrival or the fact that her date was old enough to be her grandfather.
Nevertheless she asked to be relocated to another table.
She also never returned my texts nor e-mails after that encounter.
Such a shame.
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My associates & I were celebrating a major business transaction at Susur years ago.
They put us next to a table occupied by one of my faves who also enjoyed showcasing her substantial frontal assets.
Her face went white on eye contact.
Was it due to my arrival or the fact that her date was old enough to be her grandfather.
Nevertheless she asked to be relocated to another table.
She also never returned my texts nor e-mails after that encounter.
Such a shame.
J17
Something similar happened to me.

It's a shame but that girl was most probably ashamed that you saw her with this gent.

Once I gave a girl a lift back to her apartment. Once there we talked for about 30 minutes. I ask about her childhood. Big mistake. She said nothing and saw that she would cry. I remembered the line from movie Good will hunting and just said "It's not your fault".
She cried. I apologized and said I should have never ask that question.

Today this girl is retired from sp and doing amazingly great. She had to bury a lot to get where she is now.
 

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You sound like a 10 year old.
And are clearly lacking in anti-paranoia medications.
Just sayin'

J17
Depending on where you live, running into someone you know is a real possibility, especially a small community.
A decade ago I used to live in downtown TO. I knew many people socially, and interacted with many more through my work So, whether walking around in the street, at restaurants, bars, on the TTC, shopping, I’d run into someone I knew personally or from work very frequently, often multiple times a week. If a person is married and taking an sp out for dinner, this could’ve been a real problem.
 

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Depending on where you live, running into someone you know is a real possibility, especially a small community.
A decade ago I used to live in downtown TO. I knew many people socially, and interacted with many more through my work So, whether walking around in the street, at restaurants, bars, on the TTC, shopping, I’d run into someone I knew personally or from work very frequently, often multiple times a week. If a person is married and taking an sp out for dinner, this could’ve been a real problem.
though I'm in my 30s and I've developed friendships with many ladies in the industry and gone for drives/walks/runs/coffees/dinners and never had an issue. I recently even briefly dated one. These girls are human, get lonely and develop emotions (friendly or romantic) about their clients just like anyone else. If you're going to go out and about and have anything to lose, be discreet. That's all really.
 

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You sound like a 10 year old.
And are clearly lacking in anti-paranoia medications.
Just sayin'
Or he sounds like someone who is married and much like Jimmy from Pulp Fiction he isn't willing to get a divorce. The odds might be small but even big cities can be small at times and if you do get seen, it is a huge deal that can fubar your life.
 

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I think that good conversation and eye contact over dinner is great foreplay.

I developed an online rapport with a client who only saw women around 40+ and he wanted to take me out for dinner while in town, dinner only as I was too young for his preference.

Over dinner he became so attracted to me, my eyes and my mind (mature for my age) that his age limits went out the window.

It was foreplay and made him want me.
 
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