Why do a lot women go for bums?

[Terminator2000]

you know what i love about this thread...

the irony about it and where its posted.

this is the toronto escort review board. You guys all come here for one reason and one reason only. Because of your love for women.

I'm actually surprised that this board doesn't have a section entirely and solely dedicated to "game" and how to connect and get dates with women.

you guys should poke fun at each other less and realize that you're all on the same team, The Men... and should be playing to win against the opposite team. The women.

instead of poking fun at each other. You guys should discuss game instead.

I know, i could use a few pointers.

 

[Dandy_Dapper_Boy]

Only girls under the age of 20 or at that maturity level go for the bad boys. Try talking to any woman over the age of 30, they go for quality.

 

[Bif_Butkiss]

Only girls under the age of 20 or at that maturity level go for the bad boys. Try talking to any woman over the age of 30, they go for quality.

Oooo... I don't know about that over 30 remark.... Let's just say, been there done that got the T-shirt and the damn thing don't fit! AND they still go for loosers.
The last one over 30 that I was seeing told me one day that she wanted to wait for her EX who was still in jail serving 12 for 2nd degree murder. Didn't think I could run that fast!

 

[afterhours]

Oooo... I don't know about that over 30 remark.... Let's just say, been there done that got the T-shirt and the damn thing don't fit! AND they still go for loosers.
The last one over 30 that I was seeing told me one day that she wanted to wait for her EX who was still in jail serving 12 for 2nd degree murder. Didn't think I could run that fast!

that was funny
and those who can go for 30+ women when there is a ton of 20yo on the market (albeit on a per hour basis), are damn lucky; at least I am not capable of such an act of heroism

 

[djk]

As Jay Leno says, "let me guess... single man are ya?"

Casually dating and living life without an apology for it. Not single but an bachelor.

Nice try on shaming tho, beta. Now run back under mommy's skirt.

 

[Dandy_Dapper_Boy]

Oooo... I don't know about that over 30 remark.... Let's just say, been there done that got the T-shirt and the damn thing don't fit! AND they still go for loosers.
The last one over 30 that I was seeing told me one day that she wanted to wait for her EX who was still in jail serving 12 for 2nd degree murder. Didn't think I could run that fast!

When I said women under the age of 20 go for the bad boys, I meant both chronolical 20 and the emotional age of 20.

keep in mind, once women reach a certain age, the number of elible men decline, and there is usually one man for ever four women.
Women would prefer to date men closer to their age or older, and will probably turn their nose up at men ten years their junior.

It seems jails are the only place where there is eligible men in many cases. We also have to keep in mind, just because they are in jail, doesnt necessarily mean they are bad.

I dont think any sane women would date a man who is a child molester, but she may date a man who went to jail for insider trading.
Men like Bernie Madoff and Conrad Black, as disgusting as it sounds, probably have a bevy of women waiting for them.

 

[jiiimmm]

I am noticing that women more and more are involved with men beneath them. Men who don't have jobs, criminals, and men who dress like gang members? I have a good job, no criminal record, and I treat people with respect. Since when did security and a good life become less-desirable?

Thanks for letting me rant.[/QUOTE


I know what your talking about. I see ladies of all ages that a decent guy would kill for to come home to and these ladies always end up hooking up with some dick head who miss treats them. I guess it is the bad boy that appeals to them. I guess some women enjoy being treated like shit.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

I find it hilarious that guys are only answering this question, where are the ladies???

 

[afterhours]

I find it hilarious that guys are only answering this question, where are the ladies???

I think the ladies just don't want to hurt our feelings.
Really, I know so many "decent" guys who are so proper that it makes me sick. Fucking guys are afraid to smoke pot even. What's the point of being a good guy if you are boring to the point of being afraid to live your only life. Women despise cowards, and rightfully so.

 

[sweetcookie]

The question is,"Why do so many men go for bums?".Heh

 

[cute-bald]

Notice non of these " bad boys" are short. Even the 30+ women won't date short guys. Just had a 37 yr. old woman, who has a loose relationship with this 21 yr kid living with his parents, tell me I am too short!

 

[reaper29]

The harder you chase, the further you will get to meeting a woman. Girls like the bad boys because they are confident and have a don't give a shit attitude. Just be yourself and don't make it look obvious that you want to meet a woman and they wil eventually come to you.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Well... I suppose it is for the same reason us guys go for a nice set of buns! They find them sexy!

Incidentally... cycling is a great way to tone and tighten your bum and leg muscles!

Hee hee... Ya, I know this thread is not about that... but who cares! LOL!

 

[Bif_Butkiss]

When I said women under the age of 20 go for the bad boys, I meant both chronolical 20 and the emotional age of 20.

keep in mind, once women reach a certain age, the number of elible men decline, and there is usually one man for ever four women.
Women would prefer to date men closer to their age or older, and will probably turn their nose up at men ten years their junior.

It seems jails are the only place where there is eligible men in many cases. We also have to keep in mind, just because they are in jail, doesnt necessarily mean they are bad.

I dont think any sane women would date a man who is a child molester, but she may date a man who went to jail for insider trading.
Men like Bernie Madoff and Conrad Black, as disgusting as it sounds, probably have a bevy of women waiting for them.

Let's see here.... i think he's comparing insider trading to MURDER!? I don't have to think too hard as to figure out which is the worse on that one! Granted NOT ALL guys that are behind bars are "bad", however, would you want your daughter dating someone with a criminal record and / or would you take the time to find out what his "mistakes" were before passing your judgement on him? Somehow I think you'd rather err on the side of caution than take a chance.

As far as that 10 years their junior remark maybe you should check out a website run by a friend of mine called cougarlife.com and see if that changes your opinion.

 

[james t kirk]

I'm shocked. ^^^

 

[CapitalGuy]

Well... I suppose it is for the same reason us guys go for a nice set of buns! They find them sexy!

Incidentally... cycling is a great way to tone and tighten your bum and leg muscles!

Hee hee... Ya, I know this thread is not about that... but who cares! LOL!

Self-pic?? lol

 

[GotGusto]

The OP = Tupac?

 

[Amused]

As for strippers, perhaps the #1 reason is that such 'bad boys' accept them for who they are and may have relationships with them. Men of opposite ilk usually will only want to 'fuck them and leave them', or see or treat them only as human sex toys. Also, there's no shame involved when a stripper sees a 'bad boy' if she's not open about or 'out' with her job......... important appeal by a guy is to treat them like a lady and not have any bad attitude about what they do (don't judge them).

Best answer IMHO.

I don't believe most or even a significant share of hot women in the non-Terb arena fall for bad boys. My observation: The girls are attracted to men in this priority 1) looks 2) success [money/ fame/ social status] and 3) personality [confidence/ intelligence/ humour]. If two guys are equally successful – the handsome guy gets first nod. If a dork is very wealthy and the handsome guy just wealthy – the handsome guy still gets the nod.

Most complaints I hear about girls going after bad guys – particularly on Terb – refer to strippers or other erotic service providers that the customer has become enamored in the club, etc. I think JohnFK is on the money that girls are generally judged by the customers who will constantly make demeaning references to her job (they may not realize it – e.g. ‘how can you do it ?, why don’t you quit ’ equivalent ‘why are you a whore ?’)

I also believe most strippers judge the customers (just as quickly as customers judge dancers) and are turned off by regulars to the club as poor prospects for boyfriends (not to be confused with bar friends). I have had conversations with many dancers who emphasize that their boyfriends do not hang out at strip bars.

I do admit that there are some girls working that have through abuse (sexual, emotional, etc) developed a severe self confidence problem and only feel good when they are in an abusive relationship. The bad boy abuse is a sign of strength and your non-abusive behaviour will be taken as a weakness to be exploited because she cannot respect you. Your stable life is too boring for her. So if you do run into this kind of girl move on – if she stays it will only be to bleed you dry until she gets something better. BTW: Waiting until she is too ugly to date wouldn't work if you are stupid enough to try it. If this chronic loser doesn’t have the fix of an abusive bad boy, she will not notice from the increasing level of hard drugs she takes.

Of course all IMHO.

 

[Amused]

this is the toronto escort review board. You guys all come here for one reason and one reason only. Because of your love for women.

I'm actually surprised that this board doesn't have a section entirely and solely dedicated to "game" and how to connect and get dates with women.

This is not lava life or some other long term dating board. This board is dedicated to men looking to pay for sexual encounters with women. This is about as far from the dating areana as you can get. The terms of a 'date' (strip club, MP or SP) only happen because of a negotiated transfer of money. Typically both parties do not want the other 'popping up' as a new dating prospect in their lives.

 

[GotGusto]

"Women seem wicked when you're unwanted." - Jim Morrison