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Why do SP's lie and say its not about the money?

GotGusto

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It's like saying "I don't go to movies, they are all acting, it's not real". It's suspension of disbelief and pleasure, as is visiting a SP.

Enjoy it as long as she doesn't look like she is hating it.
A significant difference is that while watching a movie, you're not an active participant. You're not the subject. All the players are up on the screen and you're the observer.

With an SP you are engaging in intimate physical behaviors with another human being sharing bodily fluids, taste, touch, smell, and chit chat.

What does it feel like to come down from such a high after suspending disbelief during a session? Is it difficult when the hour is up and it's back to reality - the chick you just laid couldn't care less if you're run over by a mack truck the second you walk out of her hotel room?

An SP is easy access to sex for me. I don't even know the bitches real name (none of us do). No suspension of any beliefs required. To try to convince myself of anything else would be psychologically damaging.
 

alwayslooking

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Almost no one who has to create a temporary relationship with a person for money really cares about that person. You think car salesmen really care about your kids or your favourite team? They do it so you will want to buy whatever product from a good guy. Go to a car lot 1 week with a Leafs sweater on and see if the salesman says he's a Leafs fan then go with a Habs sweater another week and see if he says he's a Habs fan
 

Marla

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Just wondering...Why do SP's lie and say its not about the money? We all know what the truth is, so why try to decieve yourself or anyone else?
First of all, I don't think there is a more honest relationship anywhere than that between escort and payer/player. Each knows what they are getting and afterwards it is over. As has been mentioned here, there seems to be client appreciation, but of course, escorts do it for the money, duh, and hopefully they realize how hard it is for someone to earn one hundred dollars and therefore give superlative service. What hasn't been said is what happens to a woman when she is paid. For me it is that of a high compliment and goes straight to my crotch, so I am very excited and turned on to service that client-so for sure the money is an importatnt part of the whole dynamic. Without the money, I wouldn't feel like a nympho,desired, and able to take some of the bold acts that I do ...not with a stranger anyway. The money is the integral part of it and anyone who says it isn't is lying. The woman needs to feel appreciated in order to get her horns up and the money does that, pure and simple.
 

Brill

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What hasn't been said is what happens to a woman when she is paid. For me it is that of a high compliment and goes straight to my crotch, so I am very excited and turned on to service that client-so for sure the money is an importatnt part of the whole dynamic. Without the money, I wouldn't feel like a nympho,desired, and able to take some of the bold acts that I do ...not with a stranger anyway.
I never thought of that, but it sounds true for many women. Giving you money gives you value and indicates appreciation in a basic yet real way. If it's accompanied by the right words and actions, even more so.
 

luv4lust

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are there some i would fuck for free hell yes but i'll keep that part secret;)
 

Art Mann

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What ????

You guys are actually paying money to have sex with SPs???

Guess I should feel pretty lucky about all the free sex I've enjoyed with the lovely ladies.

Being generous by nature, however, I always provide a gift of cash in advance for their time and companionship.

Anything else that occurs is purely a private matter between two consenting adults.
 

Plain_Jane

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What ????

You guys are actually paying money to have sex with SPs???

Guess I should feel pretty lucky about all the free sex I've enjoyed with the lovely ladies.

Being generous by nature, however, I always provide a gift of cash in advance for their time and companionship.

Anything else that occurs is purely a private matter between two consenting adults.
Well put Art. You are truly a generous soul.

xo Jane
 

Rockslinger

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Almost no one who has to create a temporary relationship with a person for money really cares about that person. You think car salesmen really care about your kids or your favourite team?
So true. When I was in charge of authorizing our company's payment to law and accounting firms, it was amazing how many free lunch invites and Maple Leaf tickets I got. On a more personal note, when I switched stockbrokers, I never even got a Christmas card from my former broker.
 

S.C. Joe

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Just wondering...Why do SP's lie and say its not about the money? We all know what the truth is, so why try to decieve yourself or anyone else?
They do?? Heck I would take my money back if I was ever told that, ha ha
 

S.C. Joe

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Next time they tell you that, tell them their full of shit, otherwise they are going to be laughing behind your back, IMO.

I like to just hand the cash over quickly and move on. Its best just to get it out of the way and then pretend its for free. To me its kind of cheap, so it doesn't get to me much. Heck I looked at the hotel spa services, they want at least $80 to come up to your room for a massage--by somebody not as hot as most SP's. Was better yet when my US dollar was worth more but hey, shit happens. I knew back in 2000 when Bushie got in, things were going downhill, I just didn't think it be so bad.
 

S.C. Joe

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Maybe cause some gals like to lie to themselves. After all, they are raised by this belief that sex for money is unmoral.
 

great bear

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Just a thought: The Bear has been around the horn a couple of times. Always see the ladies for at least a 4-5 hour appointment. In all the years have had only two or three bad experiences where I had to shorten the appointment. When I first started in this game the norm was usually a 1-2 hour appointment, but as I matured I realized that the vast majority of women in this game are extremely interesting people with varied backgrounds. Some of the girls were very and I mean very well educated, well travelled and well versed. Some did not have these tributes, but nevertheless were fun to spend the afternoon with.

As it happened I ended up becoming friends with at least three of these wonderful women. Sometimes I saw these women as paid "escorts" other times they became my travel buddies at no cost other than paying for their flights. Not suggesting that they fell in love with me or vice versa, but a nice friendship did and still does exist. Escorts are people just like any other people. They have "favourite" clients they enjoy spending time with and other clients where its just a job. I have been on both ends of that stick. Treat them with respect, kindness, and it generally gets returned. Cheers GB
 

Bailey@DM

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Just wondering...Why do SP's lie and say its not about the money? We all know what the truth is, so why try to decieve yourself or anyone else?
Because some men like to believe the girl is into them and not the money. We create and act out fantasies for some that is part of the fantasy. Having a client walk in you don't know what they are looking for so it is easier to pretend with all clients that it isn't about the money so it doesn't ruin their experience.
 

hinz

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Again not so sure what's OP point here since many women do lie to get something or take advantage on the dudes. That's not exclusive for SP/MPA. :rolleyes:

BTW, that's pretty much identical for ladies asking why men "lie" and "cheat".
 

Scenicdrive

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Just wondering...Why do SP's lie and say its not about the money? We all know what the truth is, so why try to decieve yourself or anyone else?
It is not about money. It is about SPs wanting as many lovers as they like and learn more about dating and love making skills. LMAO!!!
 
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