It's like you can read my mind....thought about this quite a bit before Tiger was caught, but am thinking about it more often now. I still enjoy surfing TERB, but haven't indulged in a long time. Not saying I won't hobby in the future, but am thinking more about giving it up.I think all the news lately about Tiger Woods and his "transgressions" has had many of us rethinking our involvement in this hobby.
Probably thoughts we already had, but were supressing. Much easier to think about these things when we see them in the paper every day.
I know it has me reflecting on my actions and questioning if or how frequently I will continue to hobby.
Tiger's humiliation could be ours, but obviously, thankfully, on a much smaller scale. I won't take part in making fun of him, because I think he's a very sad character and I very much relate to him. Obviously I don't relate to his fabulous wealth, but I do relate to his cheating and his inability to control it. Sex addiction is mercurial, from the incredible high of sex with a hot stranger to the lowest of lows that comes with guilt that hangs on my conscience like a deadweight. So why do we hobby - especially those of us with SOs who are good wives - the adrenalin rush of aniticipated sex. Can't seem to match this high with anything else.