Why Was luv4lust Banned??

[RTRD]

That might be true....but you know what...?

I have no idea why Luv was banned but I will tell you this much; Luv put her pictures out there for everyone to see, now along come you sweet gentlemen hiding behind the invisibility of the Board and blast her looks. [edited by moderator] Set up a web page and fill it with half naked pictures of yourselves and let the ladies cut loose on you.

I think you will enjoy some of the comments that you will hear:

"I would rather go to bed with Shrek" or "He would look okay if he lost 40 pounds and had plastic surgery" or "Was he hiding behind the door when God was assigning the penis sizes" or "If he got his teeth fixed, lost weight, started going to the Gym, got hair implants and shaved his back, I would consider being seen in public with him so he could buy me things; but I still wouldn't F**K him"

Chew on those quotes boys, because that is exactly what you would hear.

We didn't. She did. And if she didn't anticipated at least SOME coments to that effect, she was lying to herself.

If that is the source of her angst that is described in this thread (I don't know her, I don't go into the chat room, and I am unfamiliar with the comments that got her banned), it sounds to me like she chose the wrong business.

What was that I said about sex, acceptance, and people with low self esteem? Oh yeah...now I remember....

I bet Luv has some GREAT reviews on this site, doesn't she...

 

[Meister]

it sounds to me like she chose the wrong business.

Didn't she retire a few months ago anyways?

 

[Svend]

I bet Luv has some GREAT reviews on this site, doesn't she...

She does, I don't think she has any poor ones.

I don't want to say too much on brutal comments that most escorts on here have seen about their appearance at one time or another, that's one aspect of the board that sickens me and probably does more to drive away SPs from the business than any nasty or blunt comments by luv.

 

[calloway]

I hate people who are double-standard. Treat people the same way you expect to be treated... or they will treat you the same way you treat them.

 

[Papi Chulo]

I hope she does not come back again.. Wasn't there a big going away thread about a year ago, from her?.. that really lasted!

 

[RTRD]

Based on what I have read here from some of "Luvs" fellow providers...

I think this entire thread is disgraceful. Everybody piling on Luv when she isn't on here to defend herself. I have known Luv on a non professional basis for a few years and she is a very nice person. She is very bright and sincere. Most of all she is genuine which is more than I can say for a lot of people I have met. I doubt if most of you have ever met her and are just making a judgement based on what you read or have heard. You may think it looks "cool" trashing her and making numerous unkind and hurtful comments but I can assure you it only reflects badly on you. If you ever took the time to get to know her you would most likely have a different view but that will never happen. I think you all should be ashamed of yourselves. Many years ago I was at a lunch and the speaker said something which has stuck with me since "be nice to people on the way up because you'll never know who you will meet on the way down"

"Many years ago I was at a lunch and the speaker said something which has stuck with me since "be nice to people on the way up because you'll never know who you will meet on the way down"

...these weren't words she lived by either.

I am sure that you feel better having attempted to come to her rescue however, and that she is grateful as well...

 

[stinkynuts]

That quote means nothing to me. It's basically saying, "be nice to others because you never know when you'll need their help." That's a very self-serving reason to be nice, isn't it?

 

[calloway]

Since when is telling the truth about someone considered "pilling" on? All the things you said about her may be true. But for some of us... we only know her behaviour here on Terb... and at times it was completely unacceptable. You expect us to believe your comments... and yet somehow our responses are trash and lies? Perhaps you don't know her as well as you think you do.

 

[The Bandit]

Who cares...it must have been a good reason for her being banned. She'll be back in 2 weeks, so all of you just relax.

 

[Stacey_luvxxx]

Ban--- Isn't that a deordorant???? Now that Stinks!!!!

can you ban PHNINE? He's mean

Ban my PHNINE???? AWWWWWWWW!!!!!! He's a sweetie!!!!!

EOTD why be so mean?????


I luv ya both!!!!!!

To stay on Topic....

Luv4Lust chatted a few times with me and I found her to be pleasant....

But then again, what the hell do I know, I live in bubble and I'm Blonde!!!!!

 

[PHNINE]

Ban my PHNINE???? AWWWWWWWW!!!!!! He's a sweetie!!!!!

EOTD why be so mean?????


I luv ya both!!!!!!

To stay on Topic....

Luv4Lust chatted a few times with me and I found her to be pleasant....

But then again, what the hell do I know, I live in bubble and I'm Blonde!!!!!

I miss you Stacey...where have you been?

 

[Scenicdrive]

The good doc does not want to speculate what caused L4L to be banned. All I want to say is we had some very interesting exchange of posts in the past. IMHO and in all fairness to her, since she cannot answer anyone's criticisms of her at this time, why not wait till she is available and able to defend herself before shots are fired at her?

 

[gypsyeyes]

defending herself

one question i asked,,,,,

u mention she's not here to defend herself..... good point but

did the people she hurt through her numerous emails to others and pm's... did they have a chance to defend themselves?????

 

[stinkynuts]

No doubt she acts the way she does because she has poor self-image.

 

[Back Burner]

I'm not going to bash Luv4Lust but many don't know what happens in emails and/or PM's.

My story, when Luv lost some weight I congratulated her through PM. One week later she sends me a PM with all these mean BBW jokes. I was shocked. I replied to her that she's a BBW and her attitude has changed since she dropped a few pounds. She then rips into me telling me that she's not and basically I'm an ass because I can't take a joke.

Very Sweet and Lovin.

 

[stinkynuts]

Yep, that sounds like her.

 

[Scenicdrive]

one question i asked,,,,,

u mention she's not here to defend herself..... good point but

did the people she hurt through her numerous emails to others and pm's... did they have a chance to defend themselves?????

Thanks for agreeing on my point that I raised in the earlier post. Actually my point goes beyond this L4L example in that the good doc wants to bring out its implication to the larger principle of fairness. No one, accuser or defendant alike, wants to be in a situation that he/she is not given the fair chance to freely accuse or defend himself/herself.

As for your claim about the people that L4L hurt through her numerous emails and pms to them, the good doc wonders what make you think that those people did not have a fair chance to defend themselves? Since emails and pms are considered private channel communications and should remain as such due to privacy, confidential issues and what not, they are not and should not be disclosed in a public board such as Terb. Still, chances are there are many rounds of emails and pms going at both directions. Those people are certainly not banned by anyone and they are free to defend and express their views. However, if indeed they are insults and nonsense being thrown at each other, it will be a blessing not to see them here.

 

[Moderator]

end of discussion