I am a nice guy. I am still young. I am fit, very well-educated and reasonably well off. Yet on beautiful days like today, all I could do is fapping at home until I pass out. Hearing about old friends marrying their dream girls or Mr Rights every once in a while doesn't really help either.
You expect one to wander by and walk into your house ? Do you pull out your check list and read to any girls so they realise what a great catch you are ?
You remind me of a friend who had a similar problem which he repeated every time I talked to him. I took him out with me once and he was an unbelievable buzz killer. No matter how I tried to focus the conversation on the girls, he would steer the conversation back to himself and how hard it is to meet women. It was a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Any girl who is attracted to you will not know about the income or care. As long as you don't look like a walmart refugee - dress comfortable because you want a girl interested in you and your 'snob' clothes isn't the real you. If you are not interesting, a life of 'fapping' is your destiny. Steer (gently) the conversation to the girl. Where does she work ? Listen carefully - whether it is a concert, movie, vacation or restaurant - there has to be something that you can comfortably talk to her about. You will find meeting girls really isn't difficult and if she starts asking you questions .. congratulations.