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The Economics of Prositution Wife or Whore?


The choice is that simple. At least according to economists Lena Edlund and Evelyn Korn, it is.

The two well-respected economists created a minor stir in academic circles a few years back when they published "A Theory of Prostitution" in the Journal of Political Economy. The paper was remarkable not only for being accepted by a major journal but also because it considered wives and whores as economic "goods" that can be substituted for each other. Men buy, women sell.

Economists have been equating money and marriage ever since Nobel Prize-winning economist Gary Becker published his seminal paper "A Theory of Marriage" in two parts in 1973 and 1974--also, not coincidentally, in the Journal of Political Economy.

Becker used market analysis to tackle the questions of whom, when and why we marry. His conclusions? Mate selection is a market, and marriages occur only if they are profitable for both parties involved.

Becker allowed nonmonetary elements, like romantic love and companionship, to be entered into courtship's profit and loss statement. And children, in particular, were important. "Sexual gratification, cleaning, feeding and other services can be purchased, but not children: Both the man and the woman are required to produce their own children and perhaps to raise them," he wrote.

But back to whores: Edlund and Korn admit that spouses and streetwalkers aren't exactly alike. Wives, in truth, are superior to whores in the economist's sense of being a good whose consumption increases as income rises--like fine wine. This may explain why prostitution is less common in wealthier countries. But the implication remains that wives and whores are--if not exactly like Coke and Pepsi--something akin to champagne and beer. The same sort of thing.

As with Becker, a key differentiator in Edlund and Korn's model is reproductive sex. Wives can offer it, whores can not.

To be fair, Edlund and Korn were merely building an admittedly grossly simplified model of human behavior in an attempt to answer a nagging question: Why do hookers make so much money? Prostitution is, seemingly, a low-skill but high-pay profession with few upfront costs, micro-miniskirts and stiletto heels aside.

Yet according to data assembled from a wide variety of times and places, ranging from mid-15th-century France to Malaysia of the late 1990s, prostitutes make more money--in some cases, a lot more money--than do working girls who, well, work for a living. This held true even for places where prostitution is legal and relatively safe. In short, streetwalkers aren't necessarily being paid more for their increased risk of going to jail or the hospital.

Notwithstanding Jerry Hall's quip when she was married to Mick Jagger, about being "a maid in the living room and a whore in the bedroom," one normally cannot be both a wife and a whore. "Combine this with the fact that marriage can be an important source of income for women, and it follows that prostitution must pay better than other jobs to compensate for the opportunity cost of forgone-marriage market earnings," Edlund and Korn conclude.

Ouch.

Another zinger: "This begs the question of why married men go to prostitutes (rather than buying from their wives, who presumably will be low-cost providers, considering that they can sell nonreproductive sex without compromising their marriage)." Guys, nothing says "Happy Valentine's Day" more than "low-cost provider."

Of course, it's easy to pour cold water on some of the assumptions made in Edlund and Korn's mathematical model. But these so-called "stylized facts" are supposed to predict human behavior; they don't necessarily pretend to mirror it.

In particular, the assumption that there is no "third way" between wife and whore is problematic, if not outright offensive: "The third alternative, working in a regular job but not marrying, can be ruled out, since we assume that the only downside of marriage for a woman is the forgone opportunity for prostitution."

Be sure to let all your married friends know what they're missing.

Also, the emphasis on the utility of children is puzzling. In most Western democracies, fertility rates have plummeted as wealth has increased. Empirically, men not only buy fewer whores as they get richer, but they have fewer children.

Still, the economic analysis of marriage explains one age-old phenomenon: gold digging.

"In particular, does our analysis justify the popular belief that more beautiful, charming and talented women tend to marry wealthier and more successful men?" wrote Becker. His answer: "A positive sorting of nonmarket traits with nonhuman wealth always, and with earnings power, usually, maximizes commodity output over all marriages."

In other words, yes, supermodels do prefer aging billionaires. And Gary Becker proved it mathematically decades before The Donald married Melania.
 

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I think some of the questions this asks can be answered in evolutionary terms--a lot of it is what we are evolved to do. Why do guys have sex with other women when their wife is the low cost provider? Personally, I can answer that one! Variety is the spice of life! And from an evolved standpoint, it makes sense too--for a guy, why not impregnate as many women as you possibly can? Of course in the modern world we have condoms... but my hormones and instincts don't know that yet.

For a woman the ideal situation is to have a nice, good, successful stable husband, and have him raise the five kids she had with five different guys, that he thinks are his own kids. That mixes the woman's DNA with the DNA of as many healthy men as possible, while ensuring a stable home. Of course in the modern world we have condoms... and DNA testing.. but a woman's hormones and instincts don't know that yet.

So men and women both have a strong incentive to cheat.

I wonder why there isn't another more common third option mentioned here: A woman who has a husband who doesn't know that his wife is out whoring herself out to guys like me :) I do know several SP's personally, and through them I do know a couple of women doing exactly that. Married women who work as SP's whose husbands don't know... somehow, when I find that out about an SP, it makes the sex hotter.

Actually on that line, one time I was with an SP and we were just about to start the session when her BF called her. She told him a bunch of lies on the phone, and then she hung up, and we had sex. Normally if an SP takes a phone call during a session it pisses me off... but in this case, somehow it made the sex much hotter. While I was banging her I kept making jokes about her BF, I think it made her hot too.
 

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enduser1 said:
Here's the thing. Variety is the spice of life but you can't have your cake and eat it too. I got into SPs because my EX stopped having sex with me for over a year and I had enough. I am sure if my DW did the same I would be into SPs in a big way again.
Why can't I have my cake and eat it too in this case?

There is however an emotional factor as well. No Sp, unless you marry a sex worker, can give you a relationship. No amount of money can buy love. That is simply a fact. So if you need a relationship then; well, your sex life may just have to do with a little less variety. My life has a lot less variety, LOL.
100% agreed with the relationship stuff, but I just can't see why you'd give up on the SP's :)

What's the moral/ethical/practical problem with cheating? Sorry, I just don't see it.
 

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stacey4u2luv said:
Another zinger: "This begs the question of why married men go to prostitutes (rather than buying from their wives, who presumably will be low-cost providers, considering that they can sell nonreproductive sex without compromising their marriage)." Guys, nothing says "Happy Valentine's Day" more than "low-cost provider."
Stacey,

Thank you for posting this article. I now remember why I felt economics was a morally corrupt pseudo-science back in university! If married men were thinking strictly like the rational economic agents exalted in economic models, then they would take the present value of the future expenditures on SPs and compare them to the present value of future expenditures on the wife. I guarantee you that using this methodology, married men would conclude that wives are "high cost providers."

Of course, the risk of divorce if your wife finds out that you're hobbying and her subsequently taking you to the cleaners might make you think twice before reaching this conclusion.


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Strongbeau,

I picture you hunched over on a stool, in a poorly lit, musky, cavernous labrynth, pouring over reams of old Terb threads.
The sound of water dripping echoes in the far distance...
 
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