W Guess said:
A few clarifications/comments:
3. Sex was acceptable when we were dating, but it steadily declined in quantity and quality. Once there were kids, I was just a paycheck and was cast aside.
I envy some of the posting members here who have horny ex's. (I never meet woman like that, and I'd be happy to accept any contact info to give these ex-wives a call!).
Bill
See, you said "acceptable". In my eyes, that means unacceptable.
As to my ex's.
No. 1 that I mentioned was quite the horny do anything. No doubt about it. Also, she was good with money.
BUT, she was a total ball buster. Never ever stopped arguing with me about 1. My family (she hated them and wanted me to stop seeing them), 2. My friends (she hated them and wanted me to stop seeing them), 3. My work (complained nonstop about the number of hours that I had to put in.), 4. Generally made my life a living hell. So yes, the sex was great, but, it's a miracle I didn't jump off the Bloor Viaduct.
No. 2 was the intercourse queen, couldn't get enough,
BUT had this teeny weenie drinking problem. Like drank every day problem. Often drank to excess, never had a meal without alcohol. Then there was the money thing. She only spent money (lots of it) on herself. She used everyone else to pay for her lifestyle. Her father, her mother, friends, and me. In 1.5 years, I can count on one hand how many times she sprang for dinner (and that's only after I said to her, "it's your turn to buy), and I am a cheap date to boot. Also, she was a complete slob. You'd be cleaner living in a pig pen than with her. She always seemed to want it her way. You can compromise on some things, but after a while, too many things add up. I could handle the slob thing cause I am fairly neet, however, add in the drinking thing and the cheapskate thing, and it' s over the top.
So, I may have gotten my brains fucked out, but brother, I paid the price....
