Is it just me but I have notice that really hot women are wasted on guys who have no class, imagination and no damn sense! Now I have dated many women over the the years who have related me many 'abusive boyfriend' story from the "...he made me had sex with his friends..." to "...he stole from my family and friends to buy crack..." to"...he maxed out my credit and left.."to"..he gave me ghonerea(sp?) and beat me up for asking him if he would get tested"to"...he left after I told him I was pregnant..."to"...after he came in my mouth he would say I was nasty...". Guys the stories never end! Maybe I should stop bathing and get a crack habit to score chix 4 free!
women wasted rant...........
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Playa's back it up with looks.
It is not the personality that is the focus of attraction in those cases.
It is not the personality that is the focus of attraction in those cases.
It's the same thing as seen on tv show like average joe, women don't want the guy who is easy to get they want to get a guy to chase them...the more he doesn't want her or care about her the harder she works to get him to like her...it's just thst simple
This is only the case though if the guy is hot...because she then is able to say to her friends look "at how good I'am to get this hardassed guy to chase after me"...type of thing, and make her girls envy her.
If you are hearing these things in the first place, she really does think of you as a "friend" -the fact that she talks to you like a friend is the kiss of death.
This is only the case though if the guy is hot...because she then is able to say to her friends look "at how good I'am to get this hardassed guy to chase after me"...type of thing, and make her girls envy her.
If you are hearing these things in the first place, she really does think of you as a "friend" -the fact that she talks to you like a friend is the kiss of death.
"So you never knew lovemaxim4 said:
Until you crossed the line of grace.
And you never felt wanted
Till you'd someone slap your face.
So you never felt alive
Until you'd almost wasted away."
U2 - Please
And you want these women why? Just because of their looks? You sound just like them!
You too would get what you have chosen. BTW nothing in this life is "free", pay one way or the other, your choice. Like Kkarn says: "Be careful what you wish for".
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Funny, I know a lot of girls with similar complaints about guys. And many's the time I hear girls saying "Well, maybe I'd have better luck with guys if I started acting like a catty bitch, slept around on them, and played mind games, and generally treated other people with disrespect. Seems that's what all the good guys end up with, that must be what they find attractive." Lotta stories from guy friends of mine that go on and on and on, crying about how they're being strung along, played with, cheated on, mentally abused......hmmmmm, I guess if you wanted to you could take the abrupt stance that anyone who gets abused or fucked over in matters of love deserves it, but I don't think it's a matter of "deserving" as it is a matter of learning a lesson. For some people it takes longer to learn certain lessons. Helps if you have the right people around you to influence you in the right direction.
I guess many of both sexes are into real life S&M and/or mental bondage, or they simply are whiners who do not want to take responsibility for their choices and actions. Or are looking to relive their childhood.Fay said:
The same thing as the good girls. So by that rational, all the good guys are still getting F***ed over. Or until she comes to her senses and by that time you'll have moved on or your 60 years old.pineappleguy said:
Some answers to the age old question...
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So let me get this straight, Nice girls like the bad guys (so do the bad girls). And nice guys want a hot girl. It seems to me that we are all just using each other.
Just my observation.
Incognito (in need of a hot g/f)
Just my observation.
Incognito (in need of a hot g/f)
Arousal does not result from rationally assessing the prospects for a successful long term domestic partnership. If anything, the two processes are even more disconnected for men than women. I would say, though, that the similarities between men and women on this one are far greater than the differences. Lucky people find it all in one person. Most of us don't. So we compromise some, and try to figure out ways to get different things from different people, etc. Like we're hobbyists here, right?
It's easy to assess physical attractiveness. Just about everybody can do it. It's usually not so easy to assess someone's long term economic potential, and people differ a lot in their ability to do that. Character is the most difficult thing of all to assess, for everybody. And we tend to be more optimistic about some things than others. It's easier to hope that an asshole will become nice than that an ugly person will become attractive.
So the first cut tends to be physical attractiveness. And we're more likely to fuck a physically attractive asshole and move on than to spend a long time trying to become physically attracted to someone who isn't so attractive, but who might still be "nice" 30 years from now. Men and women both. And the dichotomy is even more extreme in people who just get confused thinking about anything long term.
It's easy to assess physical attractiveness. Just about everybody can do it. It's usually not so easy to assess someone's long term economic potential, and people differ a lot in their ability to do that. Character is the most difficult thing of all to assess, for everybody. And we tend to be more optimistic about some things than others. It's easier to hope that an asshole will become nice than that an ugly person will become attractive.
So the first cut tends to be physical attractiveness. And we're more likely to fuck a physically attractive asshole and move on than to spend a long time trying to become physically attracted to someone who isn't so attractive, but who might still be "nice" 30 years from now. Men and women both. And the dichotomy is even more extreme in people who just get confused thinking about anything long term.
Sheesh passion, and they say MEN are shallow? If he doesn't make you go wow you won't have anything to do with them?
Little lesson for you: Pretty boys are like pretty girls, they rely too much on their looks to get them through life, least of all in my experience anyways.
Why do women like bad boys? There have been a million studies on this (just watch the discovery channel) but here are the main reasons:
1) they think they can change him (he won't do THAT to me!)
2) they like the excitement/turmoil/unknown (is he cheating on me? is he flirting with other girls? why won't he call?)
3) the trophy factor (for attractive men) "wait til my gf's get a load of HIM"
4) Competition: they beat out all the other girls and got "the one" even if he will be "the one" to all the others eventrually.
1) they don't have to change nice guys, we're already nice....
2) Where's the excitement in knowing that we won't cheat on them, will call just to say hi, will be open with our feelings etc
3) Trophy factor, yeah ok, we got some guy on the B list, big deal...
4) Competition: there's no competition for nice guys, we're everyone's friend
I've known some VERY attractive men in my life, some of them eventually (and I repeat some) eventually settled down and became pretty decent guys (towards women) but for the most part, they treated women like pieces of meat and the women just lapped it up!
For eg: Guy looks like Patrick Swazye (I mean REALLY looks like him) and got himself a trophy wife (ex stripper) She finds him in the living room, week before their wedding, his pants are around his ankles and the maid of honor (bride's best friend) is on her knees in front of him....she still goes through with the wedding. ...
Women (IMHO) date/marry/chase men for the above reasons but trully WANT the nice guy. I have a saying: Women really want a gay satan's choice biker. Tough, strong, mean on the outside but a teddy bear who they can go shopping with on the inside.
Whenever one of my female friends complained to me about the jerk they were currently involved with, first thing I did was laugh, then told em to dump him (which of course they never did) then just stopped accepting their calls. Who needs to hear the same old story over and over again? Hell, I like to watch reruns but not 10 times......
I also have a saying: Relationships can be either like a redwood tree (nice guys) or a rose bush (bad boy). A rose garden smells great, and looks wonderful, but usually only lasts for 1 season where a redwood while taking a long time to grow, will last 10000 yrs and eventually will be just as beautiful as a rose......
Little lesson for you: Pretty boys are like pretty girls, they rely too much on their looks to get them through life, least of all in my experience anyways.
Why do women like bad boys? There have been a million studies on this (just watch the discovery channel) but here are the main reasons:
1) they think they can change him (he won't do THAT to me!)
2) they like the excitement/turmoil/unknown (is he cheating on me? is he flirting with other girls? why won't he call?)
3) the trophy factor (for attractive men) "wait til my gf's get a load of HIM"
4) Competition: they beat out all the other girls and got "the one" even if he will be "the one" to all the others eventrually.
1) they don't have to change nice guys, we're already nice....
2) Where's the excitement in knowing that we won't cheat on them, will call just to say hi, will be open with our feelings etc
3) Trophy factor, yeah ok, we got some guy on the B list, big deal...
4) Competition: there's no competition for nice guys, we're everyone's friend
I've known some VERY attractive men in my life, some of them eventually (and I repeat some) eventually settled down and became pretty decent guys (towards women) but for the most part, they treated women like pieces of meat and the women just lapped it up!
For eg: Guy looks like Patrick Swazye (I mean REALLY looks like him) and got himself a trophy wife (ex stripper) She finds him in the living room, week before their wedding, his pants are around his ankles and the maid of honor (bride's best friend) is on her knees in front of him....she still goes through with the wedding. ...
Women (IMHO) date/marry/chase men for the above reasons but trully WANT the nice guy. I have a saying: Women really want a gay satan's choice biker. Tough, strong, mean on the outside but a teddy bear who they can go shopping with on the inside.
Whenever one of my female friends complained to me about the jerk they were currently involved with, first thing I did was laugh, then told em to dump him (which of course they never did) then just stopped accepting their calls. Who needs to hear the same old story over and over again? Hell, I like to watch reruns but not 10 times......
I also have a saying: Relationships can be either like a redwood tree (nice guys) or a rose bush (bad boy). A rose garden smells great, and looks wonderful, but usually only lasts for 1 season where a redwood while taking a long time to grow, will last 10000 yrs and eventually will be just as beautiful as a rose......
It all adds up to Law of the Jungle theory, psyche101.
The bad boy/girl appears not only as the Alpha but also as a good provider!
Elusiveness has always worked as well. I don't mean snotty/snobby, I mean presenting yourself as someone that is curious BUT NOT desperate!
Chivas
The bad boy/girl appears not only as the Alpha but also as a good provider!
Elusiveness has always worked as well. I don't mean snotty/snobby, I mean presenting yourself as someone that is curious BUT NOT desperate!
Chivas
What do bad girls like???
They like attention from guys and girls, and they do anything to get it!
They like the attention of other girls when showing off what they have or can get (Money, Clothe, getting a good looking bad guy to chase her...stutus of any kind will do)
The question is not what do they want...It's what don't they want...they don't want to be their mothers and they don't want to be average. they need attention to feel special!
Thats it my friends...they want attention!
They like attention from guys and girls, and they do anything to get it!
They like the attention of other girls when showing off what they have or can get (Money, Clothe, getting a good looking bad guy to chase her...stutus of any kind will do)
The question is not what do they want...It's what don't they want...they don't want to be their mothers and they don't want to be average. they need attention to feel special!
Thats it my friends...they want attention!
