This is great. Well lucky for everyone i've been given the gift of knowing everying. See woman who try to have some type of control over a man means that they are with someone who may be out of their usual buondries in physical appearance. Could be very aarogant and a female may have to mentally think that she has a tight grip on the relationship. A smart male will accept this from a female because he knows that his mojo is always peeking> Do a search on google and type in characteristics of let say the way a female treats her man and how she acts when her friends are around with him their> I'm assuming he is good looking and knows it? cheers someones calling....
Words Women Use & Their Real Meaning
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i'm like a tom boy but still have sexy lady like characteristics. see i love my man but i also know that i have to keep him interested so I have my moments where i act a bit bitchy but i also know how far to take> does he buy you flowers when ever you to fight???? if you don't get flowers in the next 24 hours me may be having some drinks and catching a buzz!!!!! got to go because he's sexy when sleeping...yummmy
Very Seldom
I am seldom single. Right now I'm with a lovely Asian woman who is as elegant as she is stunning. The communication is great, open and there are no mind games being played.xdog said:
And....."We should see other people" means she already is. 
My personal fav is "you should have known". That is the one line I always told women never to lay on me. You want something, you tell me.
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My personal fav is "you should have known". That is the one line I always told women never to lay on me. You want something, you tell me.
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Hey Bridgeman, not sure if you are white but so many white males have given up on white Canadian women and have turned to Asian women because they know how to treat men properly. Take a look at couples you see in public, notice how many are white male and Asian women.Bridgeman said:
Any person who has come to enjoy being bossed around has lost all self respect. Unless of course it's sexy role playing.peach said:well there are some man who like to be given orders .. they actually love it , it turns them on .. a woman in charge ... there's smth sexy about it ....
Any one who enjoys having someone to boss around, doesn't really love them.
I blame Cosmo, GQ, Sex and the City, chick flicks, and Women-are-from-Venus-and-Men-are-from-Mars crap literature for this.
All of those pop culture productions are teaching us that women and men are fundamentally and inherently different and that there is some kind of war at play between us. Rather than promoting genuine connection and honest communication, Cosmo, GQ and the likes are all about "revealing secrets" from the "other side", giving tips and strategies on how to lure the "other side" in doing what you want them to, and stereotyping us into bad/good girls and bad/good boys categories.
Then you have every other tv show and movie reitering the BS idea that men only want sex and women only want love (with the corrolary that men who want love are pussies and/or gays and women who want sex are whores), and the even more dangerous BS idea that with "True Love" comes mind reading ability.
Socialized as we were in those schyzophrenic expectations and stereotypes, many of us seem to forget that it could be so much easier to relate to one another as fellow human beings with desires and needs that come not from the shape of our pink bits but from who we are as human beings.
All of those pop culture productions are teaching us that women and men are fundamentally and inherently different and that there is some kind of war at play between us. Rather than promoting genuine connection and honest communication, Cosmo, GQ and the likes are all about "revealing secrets" from the "other side", giving tips and strategies on how to lure the "other side" in doing what you want them to, and stereotyping us into bad/good girls and bad/good boys categories.
Then you have every other tv show and movie reitering the BS idea that men only want sex and women only want love (with the corrolary that men who want love are pussies and/or gays and women who want sex are whores), and the even more dangerous BS idea that with "True Love" comes mind reading ability.
Socialized as we were in those schyzophrenic expectations and stereotypes, many of us seem to forget that it could be so much easier to relate to one another as fellow human beings with desires and needs that come not from the shape of our pink bits but from who we are as human beings.
Finally, scientific proof that men and women are hard-wired differently ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM
So true
Don't know if the term "white" applies, as in North American. My heritage is European but I suppose I would be described as "white" by definition. I do love Asian women, always have since D. Wong kissed me in the second grade. They do know very well how to treat men properly. Likewise, so do Latino, Middle Eastern, African, East and West Indian women. Pretty much everywhere where the culture is deeply rooted in classic traditions and values. North American women only seem to value $ and have no sense of tradition. I can't say that they are all like that but that is my North American dating experience. I'll stick to the aforementioned cultural backgrounds since I know what I'll be getting. They are simply more interesting and attractive women.Rockslinger said:
peach said:well there are some man who like to be given orders .. they actually love it , it turns them on .. a woman in charge ... there's smth sexy about it ....
Can't stand it when women seem to think they know what it means to be a man when they've never walked a day in our shoes. Usually these types of women have definite penis envy.
lol ... I believe that's called serial monogamy. Exactly how long have you not been single, with women who know how to treat men properly?Bridgeman said:
This should generate some amiable discussions ...
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/
Ok...
...when you spin it like this, I buy what you are saying - so this leads to a different question...
Why are your "buddies" in these terrible relationships that you speak of, and why can't they seem to have the relationship success you do?
Is it women...or is it them?
Bridgeman said:
...when you spin it like this, I buy what you are saying - so this leads to a different question...
Why are your "buddies" in these terrible relationships that you speak of, and why can't they seem to have the relationship success you do?
Is it women...or is it them?
I pretty much agree with this, save for....
"All of those pop culture productions are teaching us that women and men are fundamentally and inherently different "
...being a false premise.
In my observations, (mainstream) men and women ARE different....and it is recognizing and respecting these differences that are the key to communication. It is also my observation that women have more of an issue with men not being like women then men have an issue with women not being like men. In summary, women have more angst over the fact that the man in their life doesn't agree with / understand / care about / feel the same way they do about the same things they do, then men.
Or, to further simplify
Men: She's a woman - I'll just deal with it
Women: Why aren't you more like a woman?
...this...genintoronto said:
"All of those pop culture productions are teaching us that women and men are fundamentally and inherently different "
...being a false premise.
In my observations, (mainstream) men and women ARE different....and it is recognizing and respecting these differences that are the key to communication. It is also my observation that women have more of an issue with men not being like women then men have an issue with women not being like men. In summary, women have more angst over the fact that the man in their life doesn't agree with / understand / care about / feel the same way they do about the same things they do, then men.
Or, to further simplify
Men: She's a woman - I'll just deal with it
Women: Why aren't you more like a woman?
MLAM said:
Who would want to be like a woman? Being a man kicks ass.
I mean, look at women who try to be like men by climbing the corporate ladder, having casual sexual relationships, putting off motherhood, these women are celebrated as some kind of uber-woman, while men who try to be like women are ridiculous, Perez Hilton, catty homosexuals, etc. (I'm not homophobic, just saying the most annoying and irritating ones are the ones that act like women, from my experience in the working world anyway)
Obviously the masculine identity is what people of both sexes strive to attain, while the feminine identity is like a default. Not bad, good enough, but certainly never great and definitely not something men should aspire to emulate.
I was in a relationship where the woman used words like "fine" and "that's OK". Like a clueless idiot I purposely and knowlingly misinterpreted these as carte blanche to have things my way. If she complained after I plausibly denied any knowledge that anything was wrong. Hey you said it was "fine" and "OK". I knew I was wrong and I didnt care. It frustrated her to no end but she never stopped communicating that way. Good times....
Oh...
That said....have you ever seen a woman have a REALLY GOOD orgasm??
That...along with knowing that as long as I kept myself it just REMOTELY decent condition in the looks department I could get laid does sometimes make me think the other half might have it better....
...I agree. Sometimes I think women envy the fact that a lot of shit they obsess about just isn't that fucking important to us. And while they try to counter that there are silly things that ARE important to us (like sports), the truth is we might care about those things, but we aren't emotionally invested.thewalker said:
That said....have you ever seen a woman have a REALLY GOOD orgasm??
That...along with knowing that as long as I kept myself it just REMOTELY decent condition in the looks department I could get laid does sometimes make me think the other half might have it better....
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