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William St

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I think she hasn't figured out that attraction shouldn't affect anyone's ability to "service" someone. I'm pretty sure you can tell from reading all the sex worker alt accounts on social media that we're not attracted to like 99% of our clients.

Some women forget that it shouldn't matter what a person looks like and some men forget that not every woman they pay wants to f*ck them. Shocker i know... the woman you have to pay hundreds of dollars to touch doesn't want to do it...😂

I'm sorry you went through that. Honestly, good service comes with time and maturity. A lot of people don't get into this because they want to.

If women loved it, they wouldn't charge hundreds of dollars for it, you know what I mean?

Part of me feels bad for the lady but it sucks she's ripping people off. Gives us all a bad rep.

I hope you have a better time next time.

You should try a hot older lady. You won't really find all that immature bs with someone older. There are lots of older providers who would never do that to anyone.
That's absolutely true about the older ladies! If you want a hot experience, see one of them!
 

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I think she hasn't figured out that attraction shouldn't affect anyone's ability to "service" someone. I'm pretty sure you can tell from reading all the sex worker alt accounts on social media that we're not attracted to like 99% of our clients.

Some women forget that it shouldn't matter what a person looks like and some men forget that not every woman they pay wants to f*ck them. Shocker i know... the woman you have to pay hundreds of dollars to touch doesn't want to do it...😂

I'm sorry you went through that. Honestly, good service comes with time and maturity. A lot of people don't get into this because they want to.

If women loved it, they wouldn't charge hundreds of dollars for it, you know what I mean?

Part of me feels bad for the lady but it sucks she's ripping people off. Gives us all a bad rep.

I hope you have a better time next time.

You should try a hot older lady. You won't really find all that immature bs with someone older. There are lots of older providers who would never do that to anyone.
Many married women don't like sex with their husbands either. Sex gets done in many kinds of relationships, for many reasons. Sex is not, and never was, all about attraction.
 

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Some ma are also hybrids.😉

Also .. It is a huge amount of clients that are looking for cheap rates so they keep getting scammed by fakes advertising everything for nothing.

Good services & great look = expensive
Good services & bad look = medium rates
Bad services & good look = medium rates
Bad services & bad look = low rates

You can’t have everything for nothing. If you want good services , great look , upscale incall & well established (safe) , it will cost you. This is a luxury hobby… It’s not Walmart …
Just saying…

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The beauty of the industry is having all kinds of choices for all kinds of prices. I will always cheer up for the higher end ladies to charge what they want but when it becomes condescending like this post, it kind of tames my enthusiasm. Girls can charge what they want and in no way is this a reflexion of their worth.
 
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Shaquille Oatmeal

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Some ma are also hybrids.😉

Also .. It is a huge amount of clients that are looking for cheap rates so they keep getting scammed by fakes advertising everything for nothing.

Good services & great look = expensive
Good services & bad look = medium rates
Bad services & good look = medium rates
Bad services & bad look = low rates

You can’t have everything for nothing. If you want good services , great look , upscale incall & well established (safe) , it will cost you. This is a luxury hobby… It’s not Walmart …
Just saying…

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You could have a great looking provider, with expensive rates, provide bad service too.
And you could have a good looking provider, with low rates provide great service.
I have found many providers belonging to the latter category.
 

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You could have a great looking provider, with expensive rates, provide bad service too.
And you could have a good looking provider, with low rates provide great service.
I have found many providers belonging to the latter category.
Yeah, I consider myself in the medium rate category, so according to the post I must have either "bad looks" or "bad service" I guess.

I know quite a few SPs who are at medium rates that have good looks AND good service.
I don't personally know any sexworkers who are in the lower rate category but I'm sure there are many who have good looks AND good service too.

It isn't so black and white.
 
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Yeah, I consider myself in the medium rate category, so according to the post I must have either "bad looks" or "bad service" I guess.

I know quite a few SPs who are at medium rates that have good looks AND good service.
I don't personally know any sexworkers who are in the lower rate category but I'm sure there are many who have good looks AND good service too.

It isn't so black and white.

This is bang on! I was wondering how providers might view the criteria established in the previous post by Alison.

Another take that may be unpopular with some is that while providers have every right to set their rate and market their business however they choose, but the client still decides if the experience is good and they get to set the criteria for what makes a good experience. Is it the sexual interaction? The looks of the provider? The rates? The "chemistry"? The conversation?Each client comes to this looking for something different. That's what makes a review board so challenging as we can not possibly have a standard for poor, satisfactory, good, or exceptional. I mean, we can't even agree on what the term GFE entails so how could we ever agree what makes something great? The +1/-1 for the GFE thread is almost useless other than to start an inquiry about a provider deformed some.
 

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This is bang on! I was wondering how providers might view the criteria established in the previous post by Alison.

Another take that may be unpopular with some is that while providers have every right to set their rate and market their business however they choose, but the client still decides if the experience is good and they get to set the criteria for what makes a good experience. Is it the sexual interaction? The looks of the provider? The rates? The "chemistry"? The conversation?Each client comes to this looking for something different. That's what makes a review board so challenging as we can not possibly have a standard for poor, satisfactory, good, or exceptional. I mean, we can't even agree on what the term GFE entails so how could we ever agree what makes something great? The +1/-1 for the GFE thread is almost useless other than to start an inquiry about a provider deformed some.
I was a little surprised that so many people liked her post.

I've read many instances of high rate providers stealing deposits, providing subpar service and not looking like their photos (whether true or not.)

It is ridiculous to put us in a caste type system and it saddens me when higher rate providers look down on their peers of a lower rate like we are less than.

Some on Twitter have gone as far as to accuse anyone under a certain hourly rate of perpetuating negative "hooker" stereotypes.

I live in Kingston and while the market doesn't fully dictate my rates, it is most definitely involved in my rate decision making.
 

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It is sad to read that some SWers will look down on or treat negatively other SWers who charge less. Much like clients need to respect a lady's right to charge what they want so too must the others in the industry. Your business, your rates. No one should tell you otherwise. Maybe this is why so many are vocal about higher rates if they have the sense that ladies are bullying other ladies to raise their rates??? I don't know, but I don't believe that both situations are very toxic and tarnish and otherwise wonderful experience.
 

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The assumption that medium or lower rates equals high volume is not always true.

I am low volume at medium rates and very happy with my situation, so I understand having better mental health when taking only what you can mentally, physically and emotionally handle.

I can never understand what you have had to deal with as a Black Canadian Companion and I won't ever pretend to.
I can only empathize and not contribute to stigma or stereotypes regarding sexworkers of colour.

Thanks for your response.
 
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That's a reasonable response. Setting higher rates does have the effect of screening out the shit-heads. There's a nugget of gold in here: your regular clients. If you have regular clients it means, or it should mean from a market point of view, that you are reliable, safe, and reasonable provider. All things considered, from a business point of view this is exact what is needed. And it sounds like your clients are also reliable, safe and reasonable. That's really all anyone is asking for on either end of the exchange. It's blood ridiculous that we live in a country where providers/clients are in fear of charges/violence/theft, you name it. Consenting adults, in a fair exchange of services, as dictated by the market, should never be hindered, this industry is no different than any other.
 
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Can only imagine a forum exclusively for providers, guarded tighter than Fort Knox, but a haven to discuss punters with all of their good, bad, and ugly. Maybe even who are the preferred gold standard.
Reportedly rumoured to exist
Its so guarded. My application was rejected :LOL:

As far as low rates, people pay what they see value in. It's easy for a person charging too much to blame other people for why they're not getting the pay they want. It's much harder to see it as a reflection of themselves and maybe $300+ is an absurd amount just for some quick intimacy. I'll never knock a girl for getting what she can, but I'm also not ashamed for keeping my rates low and only dealing with 1 person, instead of 5 for the same pay. I'll work longer and harder to keep one person happy because I dont want to deal with 5 plus people for the same amount of money. I am absolutely comfortable working longer for less pay and get paid hundreds of dollars to watch movies and sit in a jacuzzi and talk with the occasional bj or FS. lol

Like, they might be selling straight sex (get in and GTFO) and I'm selling companionship with some sex. There are so many variables. Im also an all safe provider. I could charge whatever I wanted if I provided extras, but I cant. I want to, I just couldn't stomach it. I dont like d*cks that much. lol. I would be in constant fear of contracting something and getting sick. My anxiety about diseases would ruin my mental health. I could easily tak on an extra $100 or $150 an hour to my rate if I could get over it and offer bbbj. People offer me whatever I want right now to provide those services. I just cant bring myself to do it. I would quit for good if it ever came down to having to do it. I'm not oblivious to how much money I'm losing out on everyday though. I will never knock a woman for getting all the money she can by whatever means neccesary, but other people getting their money doesn't affect me and shouldn't affect anyone else if they're offering a good service that people see value in.

Someone else not getting the rate they want is a reflection of them.
 
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