Would you get married with an escort girl?

[goalie000]

Sure I would marry an Escort, Why not?

 

[luv4lust]

Sure I would marry an Escort, Why not?

luv4lust gets down on her knees pulls out the ring places it on his cock and says will you bury it deep

 

[sleazure]

Guinevere, maybe.

 

[tool_man05]

luv4lust gets down on her knees pulls out the ring places it on his cock and says will you bury it deep

Goalie, Sounds like a Proposal to Me. LOL

 

[Philbe]

Yes, I'd marry an SP. Not because of the sex or anything like that, but because some of these girls are truly the type of people that would make for good life partners.

Off the top of my head.... Lola the lovely, Raya (roommates), Noir, Luv4Lust, Sasha (LoveBites)....
they all seem like pretty mature, intellectually developed, experienced, down to earth, communicative, caring, passionate and compassionate people.

Whether or not they stay in the business is not a factor for me. I guess I can kind of understand why it might be for someone else, but I'd be comfortable either way.

Ostensibly I'm against marriage, monogamy, etc. It's about time we moved away from relationships based on state laws, religious vows, jealousy, insecurity, etc. (Does that make me polyamorous?!)....
nonetheless I think some SPs would make for very good life partners.

It's interesting to read what other hobbyists and SPs have to say.

 

[Rylan]

...is the reason why not.

Or, as I would have put it...I want my life partner to be as absolutely straight, narrow, and vanilla as possible (and no, this does not mean she has to be boring in the sack...I know differently first hand) because they are going to be my life partner. I am going to open myself up to this persons emotionally, psychologically, financially, etc.

Now...life has no guarantees...but if a woman has the sort of emotional and psychological make up that would allow her to be an escort...especially one who is going to claim it left her unaffected...well, she ain't gonna exactly be June Cleaver, now is she?

I disagree completely with your labeling and generalization of escorts here. Why does a woman who decides to get into this business have to an emotional and psychological make up that is in the negative? Why can she not be a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants, like what she does, gets in, gets out and moves on with life to become a stay at home mom who bakes, cleans and cooks all day and fucks her husband all night?

I don't even know many civilian woman who are June Cleaver anymore, so what makes you think you are going to score better with a civilian woman over an escort?

 

[danmand]

The problem with marrying an escort, even if she gives up the
occupation in order to be with you, is that an SP by necessity
have learned and become accustomed to playing and living a
fantasy, or to say it more brutally, lying
has become natural.

That makes life very difficult.

 

[Ashley Dupree]

Some guy here say sp have problem. what about guy here? many have problem here and that why they are here. maybe they married and it suck. they say they dont want to be married to people with problem but what about their own problem. many people are screw up and they not escort and some guys married to this women. I never get involved with man from sp business again and one want to be with me talking mariage. They all screw me over and I not talking about in the sac. All had issue and some of them jealous. I quit business for a time and still see some client who I like to be with every 2-3 month but that it. I been threat by one guy trying to be a crazy person i didnt know of and he was last person I think would do this and he did all normal thing person do and he had good job. i think he got off trying to fuck wth my mind cause he was in job with power. that sucks after 6 year.I dont hate men and I think there some nice good guy out there wait for me one day. I will find him. Other say sps have problem. All sp with have isue with this job that is fact. I am dealing with it now. but this do not mean they are trash and not worth being love. I find life is simple and easy now. I work hard and like it. leaving business and missing money didn't afect me cause i never escort enough to make big money.I look at thing diferent now and know self value is not what i look like or how big tits are. I feel like kid again looking at world with open eye. it feel weird coming here sometime cause I have to get psyche up to read stuff here after living normal life for while now. Sorry trying to work on eglish. and to this guy mlam... didnt your wife leave you cause you cheat on her? I read in your post. i guess you not husband material either. some guy here think it okay for them to cheat, fuck around and still think they are good material for mariage but women who have baggage esp ones who have been with a lot of guy are to be toss by the side? how many men here sleep with many sp as possible and then go home and sleep with wife? then you are all living a lie.

 

[RTRD]

Because...

I disagree completely with your labeling and generalization of escorts here. Why does a woman who decides to get into this business have to an emotional and psychological make up that is in the negative?

...the VAST majority of women would never even CONSIDER being an escort, and accordingly, one who does consider it is probably going to be a little "different"...hence the higher incidences of bi-sexuality, homosexuality, openiess to open relationships, etc. amongst escorts. All of which is fine...but none of which I would want in a wife.

But the way, I didn't say "have to". And I was responding to an escort who suggested the reason why SHE escorts is because a straight life "bores her". Again, I don't want to be married to anyone who finds a straight life "boring"...

Why can she not be a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants, like what she does, gets in, gets out and moves on with life to become a stay at home mom who bakes, cleans and cooks all day and fucks her husband all night?

She could be. But since we are talking about LIFE PARTNER...and not "girlfriend", I am not prepared to take the risk...for the reasons I explained.

I'm betting you aren't married, and have never been, have you?

I don't even know many civilian woman who are June Cleaver anymore, so what makes you think you are going to score better with a civilian woman over an escort?

I do, and have....and thus this leads me to think you are also pretty young in addition to never married. Say...late twenties? Still full of wonderful idelic thoughts about how the world SHOULD be versus how it is.

Get back to me after you have a wife, a kid, and a mortgage.

BTW...the "June Cleaver" reference was a metaphor...I wouldn't be interested in marrying June Cleaver either...

 

[skypilot]

With the economy going down the tubes it would be smart to marry a SP. She would have a good paying portable career.

 

[RTRD]

Response...

Some guy here say sp have problem. what about guy here? many have problem here and that why they are here. maybe they married and it suck. they say they dont want to be married to people with problem but what about their own problem. many people are screw up and they not escort and some guys married to this women. I never get involved with man from sp business again and one want to be with me talking mariage. They all screw me over and I not talking about in the sac. All had issue and some of them jealous. I quit business for a time and still see some client who I like to be with every 2-3 month but that it. I been threat by one guy trying to be a crazy person i didnt know of and he was last person I think would do this and he did all normal thing person do and he had good job. i think he got off trying to fuck wth my mind cause he was in job with power. that sucks after 6 year.I dont hate men and I think there some nice good guy out there wait for me one day. I will find him. Other say sps have problem. All sp with have isue with this job that is fact. I am dealing with it now. but this do not mean they are trash and not worth being love. I find life is simple and easy now. I work hard and like it. leaving business and missing money didn't afect me cause i never escort enough to make big money.I look at thing diferent now and know self value is not what i look like or how big tits are. I feel like kid again looking at world with open eye. it feel weird coming here sometime cause I have to get psyche up to read stuff here after living normal life for while now. Sorry trying to work on eglish. and to this guy mlam... didnt your wife leave you cause you cheat on her? I read in your post. i guess you not husband material either. some guy here think it okay for them to cheat, fuck around and still think they are good material for mariage but women who have baggage esp ones who have been with a lot of guy are to be toss by the side? how many men here sleep with many sp as possible and then go home and sleep with wife? then you are all living a lie.

"All sp with have isue with this job that is fact. I am dealing with it now."

Well, at least you are woman enough to admit it.

"but this do not mean they are trash and not worth being love."

I don't recall anyone saying that. I certainly didn't. What I DID say was that *I* wouldn't marry one, because such a person would be very unlikely to be the kind of person I'd actually want to be married to.

If YOU can...based on observation, decide that you'd never want to be married to a guy who hobbied (something I would personally think is wise), why can't I make a similar decision based on observation?

You took it personal, when in fact I don't know you, and you don't know me.

"and to this guy mlam... didnt your wife leave you cause you cheat on her? I read in your post."

Actually...no, though I could see how you could concluded that based on some things I have said. But other things I have said initmated that I left her because of her financial irresposbility, and because we simply were not compatible. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle...

" i guess you not husband material either."

Perhaps not. I have somewhat concluded this myself. Good thing I am not looking to get married. So what is your point...that I should be willing to marry someone I don't care to be married to since I am less than perfect?

Why are you taking it so personal that I wouldn't want to be married to a former SP? Do you feel like I am some great catch that you have missed out on or something?

I might would suggest that the baggage you are sharing (and have admitted to having) is EXACTLY the type of issues I was speaking to, and wouldn't not want in a life partner.

Good luck in restoring your self esteem...

 

[Rylan]

...shorted for space...

I am not late twenties, but no I am not married and will not be married. For my own personal reasons. I think marriage is trap for both sides. You can have a life partner and not need to be married, but I am not going to get into my opinions of marriage. I do have kids, take care of my kids. Don't need to be married to have them.

Now I am not saying that there are not many stay at home mom's. There are, but they ain't June Cleaver. They cook, they clean, they bitch when the man gets home, don't put out and wake up to do it all again the next day. I have read some of your other posts about your failed marriage, so I know you understand what I am talking about.

I just don't agree that you can generalize a group of woman because they work in the sex industry as being the "unmarriable" type. And this coming from someone who doesn't even believe in marriage. It is in my opinion a very big negative generalization on your part.

 

[RTRD]

So...

I do have kids, take care of my kids. Don't need to be married to have them.

..we differ on this , because I think marriage is very much suppose to proceed having children. Accordingly, it is no suprise we would differ on other things.

So...go ahead...confess...how old are you? I'm thinking you didn't volunteer because late twenties was actually a pretty close guess...

I just don't agree that you can generalize a group of woman because they work in the sex industry as being the "unmarriable" type. And this coming from someone who doesn't even believe in marriage. It is in my opinion a very big negative generalization on your part.

And you are allowed to disagree.

But when it comes to thinks like deciding who to share my life with, I am not taking opinion polls...and YES, I get to make all the generalzations I want.

 

[Rylan]

..we differ on this , because I think marriage is very much suppose to proceed having children. Accordingly, it is no suprise we would differ on other things.

So...go ahead...confess...how old are you? I'm thinking you didn't volunteer because late twenties was actually a pretty close guess...



And you are allowed to disagree.

But when it comes to thinks like deciding who to share my life with, I am not taking opinion polls...and YES, I get to make all the generalzations I want.

I am in my 30's actually. With teenage children who I have supported fully since birth. Hope that kills your curiosity.

And you are right, WHEN you are deciding to share your life with someone, you don't need opinion polls, and you can make all the generalizations you want. But you are not getting married are you??????

So yes we will differ in our opinions. I think people who get married are little nuts personally, but I will still wish them well, and help out with knowledge where I can. I won't generalize them other then for me personally it is not going to happen, but for them I hope it is everything they want and more.

 

[RTRD]

Well...

And you are right, WHEN you are deciding to share your life with someone, you don't need opinion polls, and you can make all the generalizations you want. But you are not getting married are you??????

..of course. And it isn't like I hired an SP to visit my home so i could tell her she and I had no future of nuptuals.

Someone asked for opinions. I offered mine. You disagree with it. We are all entitlted.

 

[Rylan]

..of course. And it isn't like I hired an SP to visit my home so i could tell her she and I had no future of nuptuals.

I would think of you very differently if you did. Taking the plunge just to tell her she is not the marrying type, I would seriously question that one as well. LOL

But for the sake of fun - would you tell her before, after or during the session?

 

[jonai1]

i would...i really really wood

 

[Potang4U]

It's all about the Benjamin's or the Queenie.
If you decided to get hitch,she has more $than you. Will she be able to escape that lifestyle of $money$.
Will she continue to see clients?
Will you go poon?
Someone will recognize her in public and set up something on the side?
Having children?
The lie detector determine,"you are not the father of the child." -Maury show.