Would you let your girlfriend become an escort ?

[benito]

I would have no problem if she had been an escort and no longer was. I would not date or marry an active escort. Just too many issues that I would not want to deal with.

 

[B~RAD]

If she decided to become an escort after we got together?

I'd most likely leave as well, that's different from demanding someone give up an established career.

However carpediemkayaker makes a good point, we really don't know how we'll react unless we're in the situation.

Actually, I could say with 100% certainty that I'd break it off. I wouldn't go after a relationship with a girl I knew was an escort. And worse than that, if she became an escort after we started dating, don't let the door hit you on the way out! On a seperate note, I don't have a problem spending quality time with a service provider, but I'd also hate to think she's got some poor shmuck at home waiting for her. Some will argue that he's probably laughing it up and spending our money, but let's face it, that money got us something in return. Both ways, my recommendation is to seperate emotions from the hobby. It will never lead to anything good over the long term. Can you imagine 40 years from now telling your grandkids, hey, back in the old days, your grandmother used to put out for money while i sat at home, smoked pot and played with my xbox. The worse thing would be, the kids would probably ask: what the hell is an xbox you old fart?

 

[benito]

Can you imagine 40 years from now telling your grandkids, hey, back in the old days, your grandmother used to put out for money while i sat at home, smoked pot and played with my xbox.

I have been hobbying since 1969, two years short of 40 years. I sometimes wonder where the SP's of old are today. There were some real angels who I will never forget.

 

[trisket]

Can you imagine 40 years from now telling your grandkids, hey, back in the old days, your grandmother used to put out for money while i sat at home, smoked pot and played with my xbox.

I can't imagine discussing my personal sex life with my grandkids or with anyone else for that matter.
Her escort career should be discreet as well as respected.

 

[B~RAD]

I can't imagine discussing my personal sex life with my grandkids or with anyone else for that matter.
Her escort career should be discreet as well as respected.

You're kidding right? I'm pretty sure most people reading this knew I was joking.

 

[XTORONTO]

I would, but I think I am more open minded than most.
Hopefully I would get to watch or join in more often than not.

Honestly is the key here as with anything. Everything should be discussed, out in the open, with nothing hidden

WTF is the deal with your quote? Everybody is cumming in your mouth?

 

[DAT69Y]

Hell Yes ! ! !

I do have a bit of a kinky side but the short answer is YES !!!!
I'd have no problem with it. Actually I'd find it a real turn-on for her to be pleasing multiple men in a day and then coming home to me and sharing her adventures with me. Remember guys... Sex is sex.. Love is forever and the 2 can be separate. Someday when I grow up (I may be getting older but I refuse to Grow UP) I hope to meet a woman that is that open minded and wants love without all of the jealousy and traditional restrictions. We only live once so let enjoy it while we have it.

 

[trisket]

You're kidding right? I'm pretty sure most people reading this knew I was joking.

heh heh, my joke was more subtle - I win!

 

[B~RAD]

heh heh, my joke was more subtle - I win!

Lol! You got me!

 

[foxwilly]

explanation

WTF is the deal with your quote? Everybody is cumming in your mouth?

Just a funny line I heard a female freind say once!

 

[drrogers]

Good question

Guess guys are not as liberal as they make believe they are - probably why most of the most amazing girls that I have met who are escorts have loser S.O's

Let the floodgates open

Lets say you fall in love and its the real deal

Would you be ok with your girlfriend being an escort ?


Would you be comfortable spending the money she makes seeing other men ?


This question comes up quite a bit and your feedback is greatly appreciated

 

[Spanglerdoo]

Guess guys are not as liberal as they make believe they are - probably why most of the most amazing girls that I have met who are escorts have loser S.O's

Let the floodgates open

LOL


Ya know what sucks is that some guys say they would never end up falling for an escort .....and it happens

 

[trisket]

Yeah, I ended up falling for you based only on your name.

I gotta get a grip!

 

[Grimwald]

If our world were Star Trek and we lived on the planet Riza I would have no problem with it granted she didn't have a problem with me doing other women. After all you couldn't be on that planet and not unless you were a unice However with our world in reality with all the violence, drugs, and STD's I would not be comfortable becuse I would always be worring for her safety. If I were to marry an Escorte who has retired I would want it clear that she would not return to providing service as a job. If she wanted an open relationship that would be possible within some boundaries as I am sure she would have some for me. After all it is a partnership.

My smart ass answer would be my girlfriend yes but my wife no and my girlfriend is never to meet my wife.

 

[Spanglerdoo]

If our world were Star Trek and we lived on the planet Riza I would have no problem with it granted she didn't have a problem with me doing other women. After all you couldn't be on that planet and not unless you were a unice However with our world in reality with all the violence, drugs, and STD's I would not be comfortable becuse I would always be worring for her safety. If I were to marry an Escorte who has retired I would want it clear that she would not return to providing service as a job. If she wanted an open relationship that would be possible within some boundaries as I am sure she would have some for me. After all it is a partnership.

My smart ass answer would be my girlfriend yes but my wife no and my girlfriend is never to meet my wife.

LOL What would you do if you were on planet Uranus ?

 

[Robio]

NO, I would think that a woman who chose this is more then a carrier it is a lifestyle and the Money is good but being single would be the sacrifice.

 

[renton]

Good question.
No doubt some guys probably fall in love with their regular sp. I'd also tend to think those guys are looking for love in the wrong place. Anyway you look at it, it's a disaster waiting to happen.

 

[Viewer]

LOL What would you do if you were on planet Uranus ?

Well Spanglerdoo, if *I* were on uranus, I'd be a happy man!


(But if memory serves, you don't go there.....) *wink*

 

[Steelengine]

OMG! If u r ready to start a relationship w. a guy, and ur already an escort, u should also then b ready to stop being an escort.... otherwise, ur not ready to have a relationship and u should just keep doing ur thing. **** Just my opinion.

 

[Spanglerdoo]

Well Spanglerdoo, if *I* were on uranus, I'd be a happy man!


(But if memory serves, you don't go there.....) *wink*

LMFAO ....must be your sex sense