wtf! i think i'm on a roll on Plentyoffish
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I already figured that one out. Thats the first topic i bring up. It easily breaks the ice. Works like a charm. I was hoping for another one hour conversation topic after that. I know women tend to always want to talk about their exes. But i cant talk about their exes all the time 24/7/365. There has to be another conversation topic for women that is a guaranteed one hour topic that is not about their ex husbands. And sex isnt it.
Anyways. It seems this thread has died. Or terb guys that know a few things about women are being hush hush. What other conversation topics make a girl wet and light ip like a christmas tree? Im wondering if dancing is a hot topic amonst women,since i noticed a few women enjoy watching dancing on television ....
are you serious? that would work with high school drop outs i think. You have to try better with girls who have postsecondary education.. try reading their profiles and see what interests them. Everyone is different. ><
Tried POF on and off and really hate that site it has to be the biggest confidence killer out there and never had much luck the odd date out of 100's of emails and then only went on them because I was bored not because I was particularly attracted to them. I think it has been mentioned that unless you are above average in appearance it really doesn't matter what you message these woman as they are bombarded with 100's of emails. Then put on top of it I am picky and subscribe to the all I can carry rule which is no more that 115 lbs Spinners only and that wipes out the big chicks which are always to eager to message you. Trying to be discreet and state that you are looking for someone who is fit or athletic normally doesn't work either as I seem to have some big chick magnet or something, maybe next time I take a shot at POF again will have to put "NO BIG CHICKS" as my headline - that should work lol.
Despite how much I would love to forget about SP's and have a real relationship again I am beginning to think that it is no longer realistic for me with my average looks. Say has anyone tried that Russian bride thing out keep seeing that banner on POF and the woman look a helluva lot more appealing than what I see on there. Maybe have to try the photo in front of my sports car that sounds like a good plan despite reading womans profiles stating they despise it but do they really know what they like???
Despite how much I would love to forget about SP's and have a real relationship again I am beginning to think that it is no longer realistic for me with my average looks. Say has anyone tried that Russian bride thing out keep seeing that banner on POF and the woman look a helluva lot more appealing than what I see on there. Maybe have to try the photo in front of my sports car that sounds like a good plan despite reading womans profiles stating they despise it but do they really know what they like???
Im not a spinner but when I was on plenty of fish ,which i'm NOT on there anymore.I was bombarded like most woman on there. I was actually just looking for dates and nothing serious. Majority of the messages went like this." Hi nice picture ,are you horny ?" Have you been naughty?""I just want to see your tits bounce""what are you wearing?'Do you want to go on a trip ?'Do you want to see a picture of my dick?" these are not first lines most woman want to hear .
What I found interesting was the younger men in there twenties would want to start a conversation without sounding sexually and let it progress to another timeWhich I found odd cause i'm more attracted to mature men in real life .Yet online I was attracted to these younger guys cause of there character. Maybe dating online I was a sapiosexual but I knew if I found an intelligent guy I would turn it into a booty call . Where most men in my age group (i'm 35 ) would talk sexual within the first 5 sentences.I'm not saying ALL but most. Now don't get me wrong I LOVE sex but woman are also attracted to personality whether you want to believe that or not .Its no wonder why so many woman write bitchy things on there profile cause they are looking for someone friendly good sense of humour down to earth,intelligent and fun (most times sex last )
So if your looking for a friend first before sex it wins over woman in the real dating world.I just don't think many men want the friendship,they just want sex and this is the biggest problem when its not both,one seems to get cancelled out. Anyways like some posters they have learnt to change there angle with talking to woman on datting sites,hence the reason they are getting dates.If someone just wants sex its cheaper in the long run to see an sp cause those dating sites maybe free but by the time you wine and dine and everything inbetween your not even garanteed what you were hoping for.
Yes sexy that goes both waysAnd the girls aren't guaranteed to be good in bed either
If you can only carry 115 pounds, you must be Justin Bieber-esque in stature. No wonder women don't reply to your messages. How much do you weigh?
115 pounders are near impossible to come by unless you're into 14 year old Vietnamese imports. Hit the gym buddy.
Lets rephrase that not interested in carrying anything over 115lbs not that I can't carry more. Quite simply not interested in these woman who say they are thin or athletic and then you meet them and maybe they were 10 years ago before the 3 kids which they also forgot to mention. A kid isn't a big deal so long as you don't have to deal with an EX but when it is a ready made family no one likes that sprung on them at the last moment.
doesn't work for me at all........................, must be my race/height, darn it.
I do bit better in person.
this guy I know gets quite bit of avg women on there....consistently
what would you rate outta 10? no it's not me
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32576562
I do bit better in person.
this guy I know gets quite bit of avg women on there....consistently
what would you rate outta 10? no it's not me
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32576562
abstinent: So about the guy you showed on POF, I did not read all the profile. Women don't if the guy doesn't meet the height/build/looks MUST HAVE. I read in the forums women complain guys lie about their height. God forbid as this is the true measure of a guys worthyness!!!. So many women will think your friend is really 5'7"-5'8". A definate disqualifier & any message sent will be unread/deleted. IF he is 5'10" he will barley reach the minimum height REQUIREMENT. He has a good fit build many women will find acceptable & average good looks. I did read a few times in the forums section guys 5'10" on POF saying many times being told they are too short BUT never experiencing this in real life. He has a fighting chance on POF. IF he is really 5'10" he best be puttting, 6'. The holy grail of heights for men on POF.
not absolutely true. I'm 5'8 and had a lot of success on there and in the real world.
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