LOL James, your last paragraph is a hoot, seriously lol. Didn't you know? EVERY woman's recollection of any conversation or event will be different than what actually was said or transpired. See, women count on us not remembering so that way, whatever they "remember" will be what actually transpired and because we weren't paying so much attention, we can't argue her point.
See, in one of my past relationships I used to keep notes. Then whenever we argued again, I would refer back to the notes. I caught her in a "fib" on many occasions. That's probably one of the reasons she dumped me because she couldn't manipulate me.....