Toronto women: are they mostly all golddiggers?

[hinz]

The first three questions out of their mouths should give you a hint.


What do you do for a living?

What kind of car do you drive?

Where do you live?

.... but nice shoes though.

Time to move on.

That's what you routinely hear from Asian hotties/chicks, including some Bananas and/or the Oreos.

OTH, those same group of people rarely shoot out of mouth asking those same questions when the "audiences" are White Anglo Saxon/Waspy dudes.

BTW, when it comes to ladies doing the golddigging, why restricted to Toronto?

The truth of the matter is the world is flat and globally women are like this with various degree. Some explicit, others acts like hypocrates, pretending they are not that kind of trophy type, professional mistress/courtsean/workers they "disprise"

Regretably, those ladies who believe egalitarianism in relationship are few and far between. They could be bi/lesbo or simply no longer exist, while men nowadays are brought up and taught to believe this BS, BS in the sense of truly believe women would appreciate men become genuinely enlightened.

 

[ang]

I had one regular lady that came in... was a real shoe freak! Loved the high heels. I always though maybe she was a dancer or had a REAL lucky hubby... She didn't "look" like a stripper (with all due respect to our Lady Terbs), just a regular girl- real sexy and all but in regular clothes- she always wore a dress and when she tried on her shoes she always hiked her dress right up to see how they'd look with lots of leg showing! ;-) Of course I always got a great show! ;-).

She shaved her pussy and one summer she had a Playboy bunny tanning outline "tattoo" (not sure what you call it...) Is THAT your SO????

Very close..she had a butterfly tanning outline...nice try though CG

 

[Cycleguy007]

Very close..she had a butterfly tanning outline...nice try though CG

 

[ang]

That must hurt.......LOL

 

[dagwood69]

some are

some of the girls who work at stripclubs,,aka Cannonball r def golddiggers but should any1 be surprised?

 

[Toke]

Some maybe not me I am looking for a man who is ambitious who has a career he can move up the corporate ladder and enjoy a hot meal when he comes home.

He can make enough where he can buy me a car and I will making enough where I could also buy him a car too. you know the simple stuff. and also does not mind to rub my feet and my back when I had a long day of work and cooking and house stuff.

Now define a gold-digger. (This may be an 'oil-driller')

 

[Kya_Jean]

The point is, times have changed, everything today is to be 50/50 with everything possible, relationships will survive only if each partner is contributing their 50% share.

But it is not 50-50. That is the problem. Women go to work now which is great except they come home to do laundry, dishes, make dinner and take care of the kids still.

Men don't pick up 50% of the house-hold chores or child caring.

Women have stepped up to give our 50%, call me when men match that, k?

Lots of bankers are unemployed right now, and a lot of lawyers just don't make much money. Is it about status then?

I don't judge people based on thier job or how much money they bring in. Their job title however does reflect a bit about the person. Just like me being an ex SP gets judges on what type of person I am. Some of it right, some of wrong? Again, what is wrong with wanting to date a banker or a lawyer? Or what is wrong with NOT wanting to date a cop or garbage man? Do you want to date an SP/Stripper?MPA?

"good job" and "financially secure" are very vague and unspecific terms, they could mean whatever you want them to mean. Care to enlighten us? Most men aren't rich, are they automatically not goal driven, responsible, or reliable people? Based on credit, you'll have to marry a guy before you know how much money he really has anyways, as this is the age of credit where image is everything and anyone can finance an audi and a boss suit. On the other hand, a guy in jeans with a hard hat could be making over 100K but drive a mazda.

Where did I ever say anything about money or being rich?

Also if you read I said good job AND financially secure. I never once said that if you don't have either that are not goal driven, responsible or reliable. Don't try to put words in my mouth to make your argument look better.

You happen to be taking to a lady who ends up getting screwed over by more guys because I pay the bills then the other way around and personally I am sick of being called a gold digger because I want someone who can bring their fair share to the table instead of me fitting the fucking bill all the time.

Man!!! You know it would be nice to actually go on a date where I am not required to open my wallet {to prove I am not a gold digger} and my legs {to prove that I am not a prude} at the same time. Oh and not continue to be cheated on because men can't keep their dick in their pants.

 

[Cycleguy007]

some of the girls who work at stripclubs,,aka Cannonball r def golddiggers but should any1 be surprised?

LOL! Those girls are just doing their jobs... which is, in essence, to separate you from your $$$$! LOL!

 

[Toke]

Stupid-ass thread. We all have reasons why we select partners, and they vary by individual. Women also have their reasons, and like people, there are millions of them. I've met very few gold-diggers, but all else being equal, doesn't the more successful guy, or gal for that matter, win?

I agree.

 

[D-Fens]

I'd rather have a escort then a godigger. The escort doesn't care what kind of job i have or how much money i make. She won't ask for anything but the money which was previously agreed on. Nothing wrong with wanting a man who is a good provder and has a good job, but if that's ALL you care about, well then, good luck with that. I'll stick with the escorts .

 

[freedom3]

Just because they are not successful, doesn't mean they aren't trying.

That's so old school, doesn't apply anymore. In fact I raised my girls, both adults now, to be completely independent, there is no waiting around for a guy in white shining armour, that's a fairy tale. All my friends colleagues raised their girls the same way, all got an education and for the most part make equal or more than their husbands or boyfriends. I know there are always exceptions, but not in my world any longer.

I understand that many women can not find boyfriends/husbands to pay all their bills. It's like me and supermodels: I don't date any but that's just because I haven't been able to find one who would date me. It's not because I am not hoping for it to happen.

The important thing for men to keep in mind is that women are more than happy to put themselves in a position where you will pay all their bills. It is like with cycleguy, they started out paying bills equally, but soon enough she was home with the kids while he was working. Can you point to any couples you know where the man stayed home while the woman worked? Of course not. Just try telling a young mother that she should work while her husband stays home with the kids. She will laugh in your face.

 

[ang]

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Just try telling a young mother that she should work while her husband stays home with the kids. She will laugh in your face.

I know a few men that HAVE raised the kids and the wife has gone out to work These were the case of the woman making more money than him and was also promoted (making over 30K more than him)...so you have to weigh the facts....more $ or less $...I know for a fact that my wife would have gone out to work and me stay home with the kids, but even after our kids were born she always went back to work about 3-6 months after

 

[Cycleguy007]

But it is not 50-50. That is the problem. Women go to work now which is great except they come home to do laundry, dishes, make dinner and take care of the kids still.

Men don't pick up 50% of the house-hold chores or child caring.

Women have stepped up to give our 50%, call me when men match that, k?

Calling Kya_jean!

I don't know about the rest of my gender, but I have certainly stepped up! I am definitely a "hands on" dad. I changed diapers and bottle fed all 3 of my children approximately 50% of the time. When they were older, I helped them with their homework and cooked at least half the meals (when Mrs. CG went back to work...), I also do laundry and a fair amount of cleaning... (but not all of it- we pretty much share that 50/ 50 too.) Now that they are teenagers, I still help them with their homework and cook most of the meals (Mrs. CG gets home from work later than I do) and still do my share of the cleaning.

Hmmmm... I just came to the startling realization that maybe, JUST maybe that is why Mrs. CG is so willing to pay her fair share and look after MY needs in the bedroom... related? Who knows... every one is different. I just know it sure as hell works for us!!

 

[Mia.Colpa]

Can you point to any couples you know where the man stayed home while the woman worked? Of course not. Just try telling a young mother that she should work while her husband stays home with the kids. She will laugh in your face.

Of course I can, actually it was almost 25 years ago. She was a doctor and he was a fireman and they made the decision that she would continue working and he quit his job and stayed home and raised 2 kids. He did a great job, I use to see him at every parent/teacher day, he did all the cooking, clothes washing, cleaning the house, chauffeured the kids around to all the activities, etc...., you name it, it was the traditional role reversal. Kids are all grown up now, working and their marriage is a happy one. I know this is the exception, but proof it can be done. I suspect it's easier when the lady earns more.

 

[Kya_Jean]

Man!!! You know it would be nice to actually go on a date where I am not required to open my wallet {to prove I am not a gold digger} and my legs {to prove that I am not a prude} at the same time.

Just curious, do you fulfill either of these requirements?

What?

No I am not a prude and no I am not a a gold digger.

 

[Kya_Jean]

Calling Kya_jean!

Don't ge tme wrong. I know this happens, and I know there are also single dad's out there. My father was one of them to my younger siblings {different mother}

I am just pointing out that it is not the norm and until it is, we are not 50-50 in relationships at all. Not by a long shot.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

But it is not 50-50. That is the problem. Women go to work now which is great except they come home to do laundry, dishes, make dinner and take care of the kids still.

Men don't pick up 50% of the house-hold chores or child caring.

Women have stepped up to give our 50%, call me when men match that, k?

Keep looking, they're out there, you just haven't connected with one yet. Many men I know put in their 50%, includiing cooking, dishes, cleaniing, home chores, kids, etc....

 

[Kya_Jean]

Keep looking, they're out there, you just haven't connected with one yet. Many men I know put in their 50%, includiing cooking, dishes, cleaniing, home chores, kids, etc....

Well I am free on Friday night to date any one of these men. I will pay for half the meal and if I get myself and him drunk, I expect him to put out!

 

[Mia.Colpa]

Well I am free on Friday night to date any one of these men. I will pay for half the meal and if I get myself and him drunk, I expect him to put out!

lmao, I'd give it a shot, I'll pay for half the meal and I'll get drunk with you, however, if I get a headache I might not be able to put out.

 

[Kya_Jean]

lmao, I'd give it a shot, I'll pay for half the meal and I'll get drunk with you, however, if I get a headache I might not be able to put out.

Fuck that bitch!

Canada now has sells Aleve, so you ain't got no excuses!