Toronto women: are they mostly all golddiggers?

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I love gold-diggers. I don't feel bad screwing them over. It's the girls that seem to genuinely love me rather than my job that I have a harder time managing--oddly, I feel a need to treat people fairly when they're being sincere.

Gold diggers on the other hand are great--fuck 'em and dump 'em and don't look back.
 

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I get the vibe from the women you meet downtown like they're all looking for hotshots, bankers, brain surgeons, etc. You know, career-hunter types that want a "successful guy" with a "good job." What's the story?
I believe it is best if all girls seek this if they can. A better man is always a successful man.
 

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Calling Kya_jean!

I don't know about the rest of my gender, but I have certainly stepped up! I am definitely a "hands on" dad. I changed diapers and bottle fed all 3 of my children approximately 50% of the time. When they were older, I helped them with their homework and cooked at least half the meals (when Mrs. CG went back to work...), I also do laundry and a fair amount of cleaning... (but not all of it- we pretty much share that 50/ 50 too.) Now that they are teenagers, I still help them with their homework and cook most of the meals (Mrs. CG gets home from work later than I do) and still do my share of the cleaning.

Hmmmm... I just came to the startling realization that maybe, JUST maybe that is why Mrs. CG is so willing to pay her fair share and look after MY needs in the bedroom... related? Who knows... every one is different. I just know it sure as hell works for us!! :cool:

Here Here!! I find it fricken HILARIOUS that Kya is bitching about men not doing their fare share yet go after guys who PAY people to do their fair share for them.....

I have been single and living alone for almost my entire adult life. I do ALL my chores, laundry etc and would have NO problem doing that if I lived with someone, married, or had kids. That's the difference though, I am a grass roots kind of guy and don't stand on pretense where most of the top execs I've met wouldn't DARE pick up after their dog, kid, themselves....

You want the snots? Deal with their faults too........
 
I love gold-diggers. I don't feel bad screwing them over. It's the girls that seem to genuinely love me rather than my job that I have a harder time managing--oddly, I feel a need to treat people fairly when they're being sincere.

Gold diggers on the other hand are great--fuck 'em and dump 'em and don't look back.


Spoken like a true womanizing slimeball! Well done fuji! You'll never have an identity crisis!
 
Here Here!! I find it fricken HILARIOUS that Kya is bitching about men not doing their fare share yet go after guys who PAY people to do their fair share for them.....

Give your head a shake buddy.

You want to honestly tell me that ALL men take care of 50% of the work load at home in relationships.

No, Tboy not all men - not even half the male population. But all Toronto women are gold diggers. :rolleyes:
 

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Keep looking, they're out there, you just haven't connected with one yet. Many men I know put in their 50%, includiing cooking, dishes, cleaning, home chores, kids, etc....
I certainly do...one reason I got divorced she thought making school lunches and some washing was enough...wouldn't work and I did most inside and outside work including all the above along with all sports activities etc. as well as a FT job.

I now have the kids FT without her around.
 

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That's what you routinely hear from Asian hotties/chicks, including some Bananas and/or the Oreos.

OTH, those same group of people rarely shoot out of mouth asking those same questions when the "audiences" are White Anglo Saxon/Waspy dudes.

BTW, when it comes to ladies doing the golddigging, why restricted to Toronto?

The truth of the matter is the world is flat and globally women are like this with various degree. Some explicit, others acts like hypocrates, pretending they are not that kind of trophy type, professional mistress/courtsean/workers they "disprise" :rolleyes:

Regretably, those ladies who believe egalitarianism in relationship are few and far between. They could be bi/lesbo or simply no longer exist, while men nowadays are brought up and taught to believe this BS, BS in the sense of truly believe women would appreciate men become genuinely enlightened.

i never had an asian girl asking me those questions
 

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I love it...

...the usual suspects always come out in these threads to show off their own "un-"worldly experiences and self-absorbed / narcissistic brand of misogyny, not to mention the added bonus of stereotypical classism / haterism. Well played, ole chaps!

Seriously, thanks for the laughs and keep up the great work! On top of the humour, your bitter outlooks and dispositions make the real world much easier for the self-actualized amongst us. :D
 

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...the usual suspects always come out in these threads to show off their own "un-"worldly experiences and self-absorbed / narcissistic brand of misogyny, not to mention the added bonus of stereotypical classism / haterism. Well played, ole chaps!

Seriously, thanks for the laughs and keep up the great work! On top of the humour, your bitter outlooks and dispositions make the real world much easier for the self-actualized amongst us. :D
Lately this applies to a great many threads around here.
 

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...the usual suspects always come out in these threads to show off their own "un-"worldly experiences and self-absorbed / narcissistic brand of misogyny, not to mention the added bonus of stereotypical classism / haterism. Well played, ole chaps!

Seriously, thanks for the laughs and keep up the great work! On top of the humour, your bitter outlooks and dispositions make the real world much easier for the self-actualized amongst us.

Lately this applies to a great many threads around here.
You said it. I rarely look to see 'who wrote what' until I find something unusual (positive or negative) and I'm surprised at how often the 'same ol same' is written by the same people...
 
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Give your head a shake buddy.

You want to honestly tell me that ALL men take care of 50% of the work load at home in relationships.

No, Tboy not all men - not even half the male population. But all Toronto women are gold diggers. :rolleyes:
No, and I never said they do. I simply stated that there are types that DO and types that DON'T and if you go for the type that don't, don't bitch about it......

Like I said: I've had some richie rich types as friends and down to earth middle class friends like myself. I can honestly say that every one of the upper ups wouldn't even DREAM of touching a washing machine or a dirty diaper yet EVERY ONE of my middle class friends not only did laundry, changed diapers, took the kids to soccer practice, hockey practice, ballet, but also cooked dinners, maintained the house, cut the grass, took out the garbage etc etc etc.

I had a couple of the Upper ups out on my boat one day and the husband was complaining that his socks would disappear. He was down to like 3 pairs. The wives were at another part of the boat giggling their asses off. I asked them what was so funny: she eventually came out with the fact that she was throwing out any sock that was on the floor, not the laundry basket.

I asked the husband wtf he did before he got married? He said "the maid took care of them, no matter where they were....".

kya_jean said:
You happen to be taking to a lady who ends up getting screwed over by more guys because I pay the bills then the other way around and personally I am sick of being called a gold digger because I want someone who can bring their fair share to the table instead of me fitting the fucking bill all the time.
Well, you are experiencing the sexual revolution!!! Women wanted equality and you just proved some got it! Men have been doing that for centuries it's high time men started doing that for women!

(not saying it's right, just equal, no one deserves to be screwed over.....)

Btw: I don't believe I ever called you a gold digger.....since you obviously want to pay your fair share......
 

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So woman should accept that we now have to bring half to the table, have to be working, have to look good, have to work AND take of the house AND the kids, being completely faithful to you as the man of the house, let you go out and fuck whoever you want because you are a man and have urges?

Is that about right?

Yes, Will you marry me? :D
 

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But it is not 50-50. That is the problem. Women go to work now which is great except they come home to do laundry, dishes, make dinner and take care of the kids still.

Men don't pick up 50% of the house-hold chores or child caring.

Women have stepped up to give our 50%, 1) call me when men match that, k?



I don't judge people based on thier job or how much money they bring in. Their job title however does reflect a bit about the person. Just like me being an ex SP gets judges on what type of person I am. Some of it right, some of wrong? Again, what is wrong with wanting to date a banker or a lawyer? Or what is wrong with NOT wanting to date a cop or garbage man? 2) Do you want to date an SP/Stripper?MPA?




Where did I ever say anything about money or being rich?

Also if you read I said good job AND financially secure. I never once said that if you don't have either that are not goal driven, responsible or reliable. Don't try to put words in my mouth to make your argument look better.

You happen to be taking to a lady who ends up getting screwed over by more guys because I pay the bills then the other way around and personally I am sick of being called a gold digger because I want someone who can bring their fair share to the table instead of me fitting the fucking bill all the time.

3) Man!!! You know it would be nice to actually go on a date where I am not required to open my wallet {to prove I am not a gold digger} and my legs {to prove that I am not a prude} at the same time. Oh and not continue to be cheated on because men can't keep their dick in their pants.
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You make many valid points and I agree with you on - don't lump everyone in the same bucket.

1) What was your phone number?

2) I dated a dancer for a year.

3) What was the number again. I've never had a gal pay for anything on a date and nor did I ask or expect it.

Now don't get ticked but if we dated I think by the end of the evening you'd want me to put out and I'm the worlds second worst lover.

On a very serious note I know of many chaps who can't find there way past the table in the kitchen.

And, of course, there's the old joke.

"A women should be bare foot, pregnant and in the kitchen. And that's were she goes when she gets home from work.

...:)
 

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Most if not all women are gold diggers, it's not their fault, it's an evolutionary adaptation that just can't be shaken off, even in modern times where women outnumber men in the workforce. You can't blame them for it, just as how you can't blame men for wanting the young, beautiful, fit girl with perfect skin, that's a sign of her fertility, looks are very important to us. We can all try to deny it on both sides of the coin, both men and women, but the truth is women want financial security, men want beauty.

Sometimes we overlook our evolutionary urges and settle for something less than desired. Women end up marrying the average guy making 40k a year, and men up marrying the chubby average looking girl.

Deep down I don't think men really mind the gold digging woman, but most men for some reason get mad and offended when the gold digging woman is ugly and/or fat and give a pardon to the young beautiful gold digger. I know I do. I want to give my money to young hot women with no expectation of anything in return other than to see her smile and be happy, but if an ugly and/or fat woman goes on a blind date with me and expects me to pay for her meal I'd get mad and I would gracefully decline.

This is evolution at work people, don't get mad, or feel bad about it. We're animals too.
 

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Most if not all women are gold diggers, it's not their fault, it's an evolutionary adaptation that just can't be shaken off, even in modern times where women outnumber men in the workforce. You can't blame them for it, just as how you can't blame men for wanting the young, beautiful, fit girl with perfect skin, that's a sign of her fertility, looks are very important to us. We can all try to deny it on both sides of the coin, both men and women, but the truth is women want financial security, men want beauty.

Sometimes we overlook our evolutionary urges and settle for something less than desired. Women end up marrying the average guy making 40k a year, and men up marrying the chubby average looking girl.

Deep down I don't think men really mind the gold digging woman, but most men for some reason get mad and offended when the gold digging woman is ugly and/or fat and give a pardon to the young beautiful gold digger. I know I do. I want to give my money to young hot women with no expectation of anything in return other than to see her smile and be happy, but if an ugly and/or fat woman goes on a blind date with me and expects me to pay for her meal I'd get mad and I would gracefully decline.

This is evolution at work people, don't get mad, or feel bad about it. We're animals too.
This is very true.

One thing I noticed is that the best way to get over a past girlfriend is just to picture her having gained 50 pounds. All of a sudden you wouldn't give her the time of day.
 

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This is very true.

One thing I noticed is that the best way to get over a past girlfriend is just to picture her having gained 50 pounds. All of a sudden you wouldn't give her the time of day.
LOL I hear you dude, but I have one better: I don't have to imagine her, she actually did gain weight. Although not 50 or 100, but 150 lbs lol.....(I never actually saw her, a friend's wife did and told me that she was easily twice the size she used to be...so big that she didn't recognize her lol).........
 

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LOL I hear you dude, but I have one better: I don't have to imagine her, she actually did gain weight. Although not 50 or 100, but 150 lbs lol.....(I never actually saw her, a friend's wife did and told me that she was easily twice the size she used to be...so big that she didn't recognize her lol).........
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Slightly off topic but if you want to know what your girlfriend will look like in 20 years just look at her Mother...:)
 
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