I believe it is best if all girls seek this if they can. A better man is always a successful man.I get the vibe from the women you meet downtown like they're all looking for hotshots, bankers, brain surgeons, etc. You know, career-hunter types that want a "successful guy" with a "good job." What's the story?
Calling Kya_jean!
I don't know about the rest of my gender, but I have certainly stepped up! I am definitely a "hands on" dad. I changed diapers and bottle fed all 3 of my children approximately 50% of the time. When they were older, I helped them with their homework and cooked at least half the meals (when Mrs. CG went back to work...), I also do laundry and a fair amount of cleaning... (but not all of it- we pretty much share that 50/ 50 too.) Now that they are teenagers, I still help them with their homework and cook most of the meals (Mrs. CG gets home from work later than I do) and still do my share of the cleaning.
Hmmmm... I just came to the startling realization that maybe, JUST maybe that is why Mrs. CG is so willing to pay her fair share and look after MY needs in the bedroom... related? Who knows... every one is different. I just know it sure as hell works for us!!![]()
I love gold-diggers. I don't feel bad screwing them over. It's the girls that seem to genuinely love me rather than my job that I have a harder time managing--oddly, I feel a need to treat people fairly when they're being sincere.
Gold diggers on the other hand are great--fuck 'em and dump 'em and don't look back.
Here Here!! I find it fricken HILARIOUS that Kya is bitching about men not doing their fare share yet go after guys who PAY people to do their fair share for them.....
I certainly do...one reason I got divorced she thought making school lunches and some washing was enough...wouldn't work and I did most inside and outside work including all the above along with all sports activities etc. as well as a FT job.Keep looking, they're out there, you just haven't connected with one yet. Many men I know put in their 50%, includiing cooking, dishes, cleaning, home chores, kids, etc....
That's what you routinely hear from Asian hotties/chicks, including some Bananas and/or the Oreos.
OTH, those same group of people rarely shoot out of mouth asking those same questions when the "audiences" are White Anglo Saxon/Waspy dudes.
BTW, when it comes to ladies doing the golddigging, why restricted to Toronto?
The truth of the matter is the world is flat and globally women are like this with various degree. Some explicit, others acts like hypocrates, pretending they are not that kind of trophy type, professional mistress/courtsean/workers they "disprise"
Regretably, those ladies who believe egalitarianism in relationship are few and far between. They could be bi/lesbo or simply no longer exist, while men nowadays are brought up and taught to believe this BS, BS in the sense of truly believe women would appreciate men become genuinely enlightened.
Lately this applies to a great many threads around here....the usual suspects always come out in these threads to show off their own "un-"worldly experiences and self-absorbed / narcissistic brand of misogyny, not to mention the added bonus of stereotypical classism / haterism. Well played, ole chaps!
Seriously, thanks for the laughs and keep up the great work! On top of the humour, your bitter outlooks and dispositions make the real world much easier for the self-actualized amongst us.![]()
...the usual suspects always come out in these threads to show off their own "un-"worldly experiences and self-absorbed / narcissistic brand of misogyny, not to mention the added bonus of stereotypical classism / haterism. Well played, ole chaps!
Seriously, thanks for the laughs and keep up the great work! On top of the humour, your bitter outlooks and dispositions make the real world much easier for the self-actualized amongst us.
You said it. I rarely look to see 'who wrote what' until I find something unusual (positive or negative) and I'm surprised at how often the 'same ol same' is written by the same people...Lately this applies to a great many threads around here.
No, and I never said they do. I simply stated that there are types that DO and types that DON'T and if you go for the type that don't, don't bitch about it......Give your head a shake buddy.
You want to honestly tell me that ALL men take care of 50% of the work load at home in relationships.
No, Tboy not all men - not even half the male population. But all Toronto women are gold diggers.![]()
Well, you are experiencing the sexual revolution!!! Women wanted equality and you just proved some got it! Men have been doing that for centuries it's high time men started doing that for women!kya_jean said:You happen to be taking to a lady who ends up getting screwed over by more guys because I pay the bills then the other way around and personally I am sick of being called a gold digger because I want someone who can bring their fair share to the table instead of me fitting the fucking bill all the time.
So woman should accept that we now have to bring half to the table, have to be working, have to look good, have to work AND take of the house AND the kids, being completely faithful to you as the man of the house, let you go out and fuck whoever you want because you are a man and have urges?
Is that about right?
***But it is not 50-50. That is the problem. Women go to work now which is great except they come home to do laundry, dishes, make dinner and take care of the kids still.
Men don't pick up 50% of the house-hold chores or child caring.
Women have stepped up to give our 50%, 1) call me when men match that, k?
I don't judge people based on thier job or how much money they bring in. Their job title however does reflect a bit about the person. Just like me being an ex SP gets judges on what type of person I am. Some of it right, some of wrong? Again, what is wrong with wanting to date a banker or a lawyer? Or what is wrong with NOT wanting to date a cop or garbage man? 2) Do you want to date an SP/Stripper?MPA?
Where did I ever say anything about money or being rich?
Also if you read I said good job AND financially secure. I never once said that if you don't have either that are not goal driven, responsible or reliable. Don't try to put words in my mouth to make your argument look better.
You happen to be taking to a lady who ends up getting screwed over by more guys because I pay the bills then the other way around and personally I am sick of being called a gold digger because I want someone who can bring their fair share to the table instead of me fitting the fucking bill all the time.
3) Man!!! You know it would be nice to actually go on a date where I am not required to open my wallet {to prove I am not a gold digger} and my legs {to prove that I am not a prude} at the same time. Oh and not continue to be cheated on because men can't keep their dick in their pants.
This is very true.Most if not all women are gold diggers, it's not their fault, it's an evolutionary adaptation that just can't be shaken off, even in modern times where women outnumber men in the workforce. You can't blame them for it, just as how you can't blame men for wanting the young, beautiful, fit girl with perfect skin, that's a sign of her fertility, looks are very important to us. We can all try to deny it on both sides of the coin, both men and women, but the truth is women want financial security, men want beauty.
Sometimes we overlook our evolutionary urges and settle for something less than desired. Women end up marrying the average guy making 40k a year, and men up marrying the chubby average looking girl.
Deep down I don't think men really mind the gold digging woman, but most men for some reason get mad and offended when the gold digging woman is ugly and/or fat and give a pardon to the young beautiful gold digger. I know I do. I want to give my money to young hot women with no expectation of anything in return other than to see her smile and be happy, but if an ugly and/or fat woman goes on a blind date with me and expects me to pay for her meal I'd get mad and I would gracefully decline.
This is evolution at work people, don't get mad, or feel bad about it. We're animals too.
LOL I hear you dude, but I have one better: I don't have to imagine her, she actually did gain weight. Although not 50 or 100, but 150 lbs lol.....(I never actually saw her, a friend's wife did and told me that she was easily twice the size she used to be...so big that she didn't recognize her lol).........This is very true.
One thing I noticed is that the best way to get over a past girlfriend is just to picture her having gained 50 pounds. All of a sudden you wouldn't give her the time of day.
***LOL I hear you dude, but I have one better: I don't have to imagine her, she actually did gain weight. Although not 50 or 100, but 150 lbs lol.....(I never actually saw her, a friend's wife did and told me that she was easily twice the size she used to be...so big that she didn't recognize her lol).........