outcall issues - condo guard

[fuji]

I don't bring escorts, girlfriends, mistresses, etc., to my home. My wife lives here. Even when she's out of town or out for the evening it's a stupid risk to take.

If I lived alone and it were important to me I would probably arrange to live somewhere I could buzz people up rather than having them interviewed by security. While I agree it's none of the guard's business what you do, I'd rather not have them involved at all.

It's a small world and you never know who the guard will gossip to. Last thing you want is to find out that some future girlfriend is the guard's friend's cousin, etc.

 

[Questor]

You don't need to care about anything. How does he or anyone know you dont really have 100 nieces? Or they are just 100 friends who are hot girls? Not their business at all! As mentioned above, his job is simply let you know when you have a visitor. Noone's business who they are and why they are visiting you. Asked for a business card? wtf!!
Very unprofessional and disrespectful on the guard's part. Real legit management would not take issues like this lightly. You are not at fault here at all, and you have every right to say something and SHOULD. This is your HOME. He works there. How can anyone feel secure knowing what kinda of half ass security they have looking after them?

This is a big deal and serious issue and you should take it as such. Every condo should have board of directors or whatever you call it, that consists of tenants in the building. Go have a talk/meeting with them and see how they feel about this guard.

I was with you up to the last paragraph. First of all, the board is not made up of tenants. Its made up of condo OWNERS. Second of all, these people on the board are also his neighbours. And third of all, the security staff are hired by a management company. So why should he embarrass himself in front of his neighbours by bringing up this issue? He needs to contact the management company and complain vigorously. It may or may not get the guy fired. But if he doesn't get fired, he sure will keep his mouth shut in the future.

Edit: afterhours, I see the situation has been resolved to your satisfaction. Glad it worked out.

 

[Nickelodeon]

I don't bring escorts, girlfriends, mistresses, etc., to my home. My wife lives here. Even when she's out of town or out for the evening it's a stupid risk to take.

If I lived alone and it were important to me I would probably arrange to live somewhere I could buzz people up rather than having them interviewed by security. While I agree it's none of the guard's business what you do, I'd rather not have them involved at all.

It's a small world and you never know who the guard will gossip to. Last thing you want is to find out that some future girlfriend is the guard's friend's cousin, etc.

Fuji has it right.

You don't want to be known as the guy in your community who made a Human rights case out of SP access to his condo unit. There are bigger battles to fight and there is something called "in call" as an alternative.

 

[afterhours]

Fuji has it right.

You don't want to be known as the guy in your community who made a Human rights case out of SP access to his condo unit. There are bigger battles to fight and there is something called "in call" as an alternative.

my little issue with the incalls is that if I am "found in" it will become known in my community

 

[my name Peggy]

@Nickelodeon""You don't want to be known as the guy in your community who made a Human rights case out of SP access to his condo unit. There are bigger battles to fight and there is something called "in call" as an alternative."

Making a quiet,direct complaint to management about inappropriate employee behaviour isn't making a "human rights case" or even "fighting a battle" out of it. It's simply protecting his right to privacy plain and simple. Which is exactly what Afterhours did, the dufus lost his job(deservedly) and life goes on...I swear some ppl's paranoia here(excacerbated by this hobby I'm sure) has really clouded their common sense.

& @Fuji, although I'm new here, I've noticed you repeatedly keep injecting YOUR personal status into someone else's issue particularly when it comes to constantly refering about your mistress/gf/sidepiece/wife etc.You really do it alot, I bet I'm not the only one who's noticed too... Yes you could argue you're speaking from personal experience to try to help the other person, but it honestly comes off like a way to let everyone know about the many different women you have in your life & is quite comical actually. We get it you're a womanising philanderer, now what was your point?...Just sayin'

 

[mb12ca]

so, let me see if i understand this. sps often advertise their services on their own websites or through other public and open means. they dont mind anyone contacting them out of the blue and moreso, they obviously want men to do such a thing even if there has been no previous contact of any kind. now, in this context, we are suppose to feel it is inappropriate for a security guard to ask about a possible appointment with the sp when he meets her and realizes she is indeed an sp. the way i see it is that the security guard is just a perceptive guy without any sense of shyness. he is a forward and direct guy. to call him a creep and present him as being disrespectful to the sp or the client is to put the sp and/or client on a undeserved pedestal.

i am not saying that sps and clients are dirt, but we should all realize what we are doing and not consider ourselves above it all.

 

[HOF]

I would not live in a place that had a "sign-in sheet" for my guests. Checking with me as to whether I was expecting a guest or not would be the limit I would accept in a security check-point. It is none of their business who my guests might be or how long they stay.

I agree. It was a suggestion and I've never lived in condo with security myself.

 

[HOF]

I don't bring escorts, girlfriends, mistresses, etc., to my home. My wife lives here. Even when she's out of town or out for the evening it's a stupid risk to take.

If I lived alone and it were important to me I would probably arrange to live somewhere I could buzz people up rather than having them interviewed by security. While I agree it's none of the guard's business what you do, I'd rather not have them involved at all.

It's a small world and you never know who the guard will gossip to. Last thing you want is to find out that some future girlfriend is the guard's friend's cousin, etc.

Humourous that you said risk and not respect that it's your wife's home.

 

[blackrock13]

I agree. It was a suggestion and I've never lived in condo with security myself.

Much of the to me, the sign in sheet is to help in an emergency situation, especially something catastrophic, so they have some idea of who's in the building. It's not perfect, but it helps.

 

[blackrock13]

Humourous that you said risk and not respect that it's your wife's home.

Hmmmm.

 

[HOF]

@Nickelodeon""You don't want to be known as the guy in your community who made a Human rights case out of SP access to his condo unit. There are bigger battles to fight and there is something called "in call" as an alternative."

Making a quiet,direct complaint to management about inappropriate employee behaviour isn't making a "human rights case" or even "fighting a battle" out of it. It's simply protecting his right to privacy plain and simple. Which is exactly what Afterhours did, the dufus lost his job(deservedly) and life goes on...I swear some ppl's paranoia here(excacerbated by this hobby I'm sure) has really clouded their common sense.

& @Fuji, although I'm new here, I've noticed you repeatedly keep injecting YOUR personal status into someone else's issue particularly when it comes to constantly refering about your mistress/gf/sidepiece/wife etc.You really do it alot, I bet I'm not the only one who's noticed too... Yes you could argue you're speaking from personal experience to try to help the other person, but it honestly comes off like a way to let everyone know about the many different women you have in your life & is quite comical actually. We get it you're a womanising philanderer, now what was your point?...Just sayin'

He's classy about it though; he spent valentine's day with the wife and not the girlfriend! Real classly!

 

[afterhours]

so, let me see if i understand this. sps often advertise their services on their own websites or through other public and open means. they dont mind anyone contacting them out of the blue and moreso, they obviously want men to do such a thing even if there has been no previous contact of any kind. now, in this context, we are suppose to feel it is inappropriate for a security guard to ask about a possible appointment with the sp when he meets her and realizes she is indeed an sp. the way i see it is that the security guard is just a perceptive guy without any sense of shyness. he is a forward and direct guy. to call him a creep and present him as being disrespectful to the sp or the client is to put the sp and/or client on a undeserved pedestal.

i am not saying that sps and clients are dirt, but we should all realize what we are doing and not consider ourselves above it all.

The security guard is not "just a perceptive guy without any sense of shyness". He is also a guy without any disposable income to speak of. He should not be approaching escorts, let alone other people's escorts, let alone while at work serving these other people and their visitors.

 

[blackrock13]

He's classy about it though; he spent valentine's day with the wife and not the girlfriend! Real classly!

Considering he's in the top 1% in Canada, if not the top 0.5%, he should have been able to spend time with both. I mean, it's expected. Oh, I forgot, I forget he's cutting back.

 

[my name Peggy]

@mb12ca wow, you clearly dont understand.
There are so many things wrong with what u just said, but I'll state the most obvious. Just bc an sp posts on a public website, doesn't mean she wants her identity revealed (i.e WHY THEIR FACES ARE HIDDEN OUT AND THEY USE SEPERATE PHONE #'S). The guard was basically getting paid by the tenant (who is seeing the sp) to essentially be discreet and professional and not approach any girl in this matter, and then does, so yeah its beyond inappropriiate & fucking creepy.(Hence why he got fired)
If this guy was brazen enough to outwardly ask a stranger if she was an escort, he could be wrong one time and comepletely insult someone(Hence why he got fired)
Did it also ever occur to you that if the girl wanted him as a client(I'm sure she was picking up his advances) she would have given her info out to him(or anybody else she wanted as a client on her own accord? She clearly didn't do this, so wouldn't that be a hint she didnt want to see him or she wanted to maintain her privacy regardless of his assumptions of her????
If the guard wants to get laid, he could have called someone on his own time, not while at his job, getting paid not to do stupid shit exactly like this.

 

[Mudd Stuffin]

I would not live in a place that had a "sign-in sheet" for my guests....

That really should not be a concern when selecting where to buy into a condo. In fact some people may feel it is an added level of security to know that there is a list of who has entered the building or who had them as guests.
I now live in a boutique condo & now feel challenged to see an outcall, whereas I used to do that occassionaly in my previous massive condo building. Not saying it can't be done but you have to be pretty stratgic about it. Maybe meet the gal at a sho[ around the corner & drive her into the building. Then no need for her to report in at front desk.

 

[krayjee]

I avoid all those problems by meeting the lady infront of the condo and drive down. It's a bit of inconvenience, but save all faces and embarrassments.

 

[fuji]

Making a quiet,direct complaint to management about inappropriate employee behaviour isn't making a "human rights case" or even "fighting a battle" out of it. It's simply protecting his right to privacy plain and simple.

Again, it's a small world, and while you will prevail in that complaints process, the guard isn't going to be dead after your complaint. Just not working in your building, but with full knowledge of what you were up to, and now an axe to grind. Not a success.

Wait until he finds out a few years later that you're dating someone vaguely in his social circle, he knows all about your whoring, and he's still got that axe to grind.

Afterhours I would strongly recommend moving to a building where you can buzz women up, so that they don't have to confront security.

 

[fuji]

Considering he's in the top 1% in Canada, if not the top 0.5%, he should have been able to spend time with both. I mean, it's expected. Oh, I forgot, I forget he's cutting back.

Since when am I cutting back? I ditched the mistress a few years back because she was getting to clingy and if I kept her she might have eventually got into some confrontation with my wife. Not because I'm cutting back.

 

[Moraff]

That really should not be a concern when selecting where to buy into a condo. In fact some people may feel it is an added level of security to know that there is a list of who has entered the building or who had them as guests.

Perhaps not a concern for you, but for me it would be a deal-breaker. You could offer me a $1,000,000 condo for free and I would not live there.

I now live in a boutique condo & now feel challenged to see an outcall, whereas I used to do that occassionaly in my previous massive condo building. Not saying it can't be done but you have to be pretty stratgic about it. Maybe meet the gal at a sho[ around the corner & drive her into the building. Then no need for her to report in at front desk.

So what you are saying is that you are happy to live somewhere where you do not feel you can do certain things that are legal without resorting to inconvenience.... Again, your choice, but not one that I personally would be able to accept.

 

[red]

That really should not be a concern when selecting where to buy into a condo. In fact some people may feel it is an added level of security to know that there is a list of who has entered the building or who had them as guests.
I now live in a boutique condo & now feel challenged to see an outcall, whereas I used to do that occassionaly in my previous massive condo building. Not saying it can't be done but you have to be pretty stratgic about it. Maybe meet the gal at a sho[ around the corner & drive her into the building. Then no need for her to report in at front desk.

holy homeland security batman! why not live in a prison?